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Contributor: lovelylolaa lovelylolaa
So im a girl with a bf for over 2 years... i recently became curious. Idk what i should do.
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tell him and ask let me explore
misscrystal23 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , deltalima , Moniqua , Thumper Logic , Sinfully , Missmarc , True Pleasures , zizfaye , MissCandyland , LoverBear1011 , CollegeFun2014 , Robespierrethecat , I Am Sherlocked , GirlOnGirl , Gracefire , Ciao. , iabicpl09 , FrustratedFemme , Graniteal , LeeBee
21  (95%)
explore on the low
do noting and stay curious
ask if hed b interested in a fmf 3sum
luvslukin
1  (5%)
Total votes: 22
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12/02/2012
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Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
As a guy speaking, unless you are going to be okay with him "exploring" while you are "exploring" then it will probably be best if you try to include him in the curiosity, even if it's just being present.
12/02/2012
Contributor: Moniqua Moniqua
Tell him about it.
12/02/2012
Contributor: Danneh Danneh
Talk to him about it. If he isn't cool with you playing around with girls though- then it's a no go. Cheating with a girl is still cheating.
12/02/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I would talk to him about it.
12/02/2012
Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
Talk to him about it, if you're going to explore, and you want things to work out, he has to feel like you trust him enough to come to him with this.
12/02/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
oooh, don't ask him, you don't need his permission but it is a good idea to tell him about your curiosity & what you plan to do for yourself about it. be sure to find out how he feels & what he thinks so you can consider anything that needs addressing.
12/02/2012
Contributor: hanjonatan hanjonatan
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Originally posted by edeneve
oooh, don't ask him, you don't need his permission but it is a good idea to tell him about your curiosity & what you plan to do for yourself about it. be sure to find out how he feels & what he thinks so you can consider anything ... more
you don't think a person needs their (presumably monogamous) partner's "permission" to have sex with other people?
12/02/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Just be honest about your new found curiosity.
12/03/2012
Contributor: Vaginas Vaginas
have a honest conversation and don't be a hypocrite
12/03/2012
Contributor: I Am Sherlocked I Am Sherlocked
Definitely tell him about it. Don't explore on the "down low"/behind his back, and I wouldn't necessarily say to stay curious about it. You should definitely explore your possibilities if you're curious. So definitely talk to him about it, but be aware that if you ask him to let you explore, you might not necessarily be able to expect him to wait around, or any of that. He might go explore on his own as well. If this is the case, you might want to suggest the possibility of a 3some.
12/04/2012
Contributor: Gracefire Gracefire
Honesty is the best policy - tell him you're curious, and ask if he would let you explore. The possibility of a threesome might be appealing to him!
12/06/2012
Contributor: iabicpl09 iabicpl09
Talk to him honestly
12/08/2012
Contributor: FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
Just ask him about whether or not he'd be okay with you experimenting. Most men don't mind, as long as you ask first.
12/12/2012