2 good friends of mine, both in their late 20's, 1 of whom is very liberated, knows she is and is out as a lesbian and the other very religious and repressed and, I suspect, very closeted, have never had sex before. I was a bit shocked to find out about the out and proud one. Are you or anyone you know still completely inexperienced in mid-late 20's or older? What are the reasons, if you know, or what do you think the reasons are if you suspect?
Conversely, It made me think about how much I value my sexual experience and how glad I am that I've had the experiences I've had. I got to thinking about never nuzzling someone's neck, or laying entwined naked, or feeling what it is to have someone turned on because of me. It made me a little sad to think of someone my age not having ever experienced some of these things. If you've been sexually active for a while now, what would you think of someone your age never having had a sexual experience with another person before? How valuable are your sexual experiences to you?
Have you ever been shocked or surprised to find out someone you know has never had sex before, or if you haven't had sex before, how do people react when they find out?
How do you feel about gay or lesbians who are out who have never had sex with anyone of either gender, especially those in this mid-late 20's age bracket? What about coming out after having sex with the opposite sex, but before an experience with the same sex? less