My GF left me...

Contributor: Susen Susen
for another girl, which really sucked, but it made me start considering guys again. Still not attracted to them like I am to girls, but generally speaking I am much more accepted by men. They make me feel better about myself, and while I don't want to have any relationship with anyone right now...it's fun to flirt. Anyone else go through this ever?
05/08/2012
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Contributor: js250 js250
I am so sorry *hugs* you are going through your breakup. I would recommend you taking some time to regroup and do not make hasty or life altering decisions yet. Heal your hurt and pain first.

WTF?? That would be like me saying that since I got screwed over by my last few relationships with men I should look towards women....umm, NO! Stay true to yourself!! A man can hurt you just as much or more than a woman. Be honest with yourself!!! If you are more attracted to women, a relationship with a man is NOT going to make you happy or be satisfying. I think your 'consideration' is an avoidance tactic you are using to deal with the pain, betrayal, anger and loneliness of your broken relationship. You already know all this, but I felt like I had to say it anyway.

Good luck, my thoughts are with you. Message me if you need a friend, k?
05/09/2012
Contributor: Tangerine Tangerine
That always sucks.
I have to say when it comes to relationships I prefer women. However, when I'm lazy I date guys. Not becuse I like them all that much but because it doesnt take as much energy or emotions.
05/10/2012
Contributor: Breas Breas
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Originally posted by js250
I am so sorry *hugs* you are going through your breakup. I would recommend you taking some time to regroup and do not make hasty or life altering decisions yet. Heal your hurt and pain first.

WTF?? That would be like me saying that since I got ... more
I have to agree with js250. Stay true to yourself. Breakups hurt, but we have all gone through them. Time will heal hun!
05/11/2012
Contributor: hall5885 hall5885
I'm sorry about the breakup. I agree with few others who said about sticking true to yourself. And take some "me time" and when you are ready to give love another try, go for whoever you are attracted too, man or woman.
05/11/2012
Contributor: lia ayala lia ayala
sorry about the breakup but the other ladies are right be true to your self
06/24/2012