Do you find that toys help the dreaded lesbian bed death? For any tips, please comment!
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Do toys help "lesbian bed death"?
05/01/2012
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How often does a lesbian couple have sex?
On average how often do lesbian couples have sex? A couple that has been together for 1 year.
Lesbian or straight?
My girlfriend was straight when I met her, and I gender-bend quite a bit to male. When I'm embodying the male gender, would you consider her straight.
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My long-term girlfriend and I are looking for a toy that we both can use equally. We enjoy the harness & dildos we have, but all the ones we own only.
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Alot of lesbians don't take bisexual girls seriously. Why exactly is that?
Do any lesbians fantasize about men?
im just curious to know if lesbians only fantasize about women or if they also think about men.
How often does a lesbian couple have sex?
On average how often do lesbian couples have sex? A couple that has been together for 1 year.
Lesbian or straight?
My girlfriend was straight when I met her, and I gender-bend quite a bit to male. When I'm embodying the male gender, would you consider her straight.
Lesbian Toy Preference
My long-term girlfriend and I are looking for a toy that we both can use equally. We enjoy the harness & dildos we have, but all the ones we own only.
Question for lesbians
Alot of lesbians don't take bisexual girls seriously. Why exactly is that?
Do any lesbians fantasize about men?
im just curious to know if lesbians only fantasize about women or if they also think about men.
05/01/2012
What is that/does that mean!?
05/02/2012
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Lesbian bed death is the joking reference to when women have been together for so long that they simply aren't having as much sex, like many married couples that experience lulls.
Originally posted by
Zombirella
What is that/does that mean!?
05/02/2012
can't say for lesbians but toys in general should theoretically help any couple through a lull
05/02/2012
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Not sure what that means
Originally posted by
Rockasaurus
Do you find that toys help the dreaded lesbian bed death? For any tips, please comment!
05/05/2012
Christ, I fucking hate that term. *All* long-term couples have lulls and dry spells. The idea that women are always and necessarily less sexual and/or adventurous than men is nasty and sexist.
Sorry, pet peeve. Anyway, many couples find toys to be helpful for getting out of ruts, but they won't do any good with love, patience and (most of all) good communication.
Sorry, pet peeve. Anyway, many couples find toys to be helpful for getting out of ruts, but they won't do any good with love, patience and (most of all) good communication.
05/05/2012
Anything to spice it up and make it more exciting
05/07/2012
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Ugh this! It's not at all restricted to lesbians. I would say straight people with kids actually have it more.
Originally posted by
carenautilus
Christ, I fucking hate that term. *All* long-term couples have lulls and dry spells. The idea that women are always and necessarily less sexual and/or adventurous than men is nasty and sexist.
Sorry, pet peeve. Anyway, many couples find toys ... more
Sorry, pet peeve. Anyway, many couples find toys ... more
Christ, I fucking hate that term. *All* long-term couples have lulls and dry spells. The idea that women are always and necessarily less sexual and/or adventurous than men is nasty and sexist.
Sorry, pet peeve. Anyway, many couples find toys to be helpful for getting out of ruts, but they won't do any good with love, patience and (most of all) good communication. less
Sorry, pet peeve. Anyway, many couples find toys to be helpful for getting out of ruts, but they won't do any good with love, patience and (most of all) good communication. less
05/07/2012
I prefer no toys, however, being with a girl and enjoying penetration makes a strap on a great idea. And a vibrator because its easier on my partner
05/08/2012
I like toys and using them with partners...and immediately want to try out a new toy as soon as I get it. My current partner and I have just started using toys together but I'm hoping that she's going to get as excited about them as I do. When she's done with school for the semester and has some free time, I'm thinking of having here get involved here and check things out so we can really find out what we'd both like to explore together.
05/09/2012
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Totally knew what this meant from watching Queer as Folk. Toys help with any dry spell in my opinion.
Originally posted by
Rockasaurus
Do you find that toys help the dreaded lesbian bed death? For any tips, please comment!
05/24/2012
yes!
05/31/2012
Had to look it up to find out what that meant, but after a bit of research - yes, I believe it would help
05/31/2012
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anything should help
Originally posted by
britanny0620
Had to look it up to find out what that meant, but after a bit of research - yes, I believe it would help
06/03/2012
I'm amused by the term "lesbian bed death". I realize that a lot of couples go through lulls, no matter gender and sexual identity, but someone named it for lesbians, and I find it funny... because I've been there.
Toys have definitely helped with lesbian bed death in my relationship. We went from having sex occasionally to all the time when we introduced toys.
Toys have definitely helped with lesbian bed death in my relationship. We went from having sex occasionally to all the time when we introduced toys.
06/03/2012
LOL i love that term had never heard it till now my girlfriend will call me that from now on
06/03/2012
I think someone should start a band named Lesbian Bed Death.
But, I agree with everyone, introducing toys into any sexual relationship should rekindle the spark, so to say
But, I agree with everyone, introducing toys into any sexual relationship should rekindle the spark, so to say
06/03/2012
i think it could certainly contribute to 'fixing' LBD.
But not the sole solution.
Whatever gets you both thinking about sex, and encouraging intimacy again, sure!
But not the sole solution.
Whatever gets you both thinking about sex, and encouraging intimacy again, sure!
06/04/2012
I've never caught it, so I guess so!
06/05/2012
Well, I've never caught it. However, I think that trying new things helps lesbian bed death, so if using toys counts as a new thing for you guys, then yeah, it might help.
12/13/2012
havent encountered it yet
02/01/2013
i think it would help
03/09/2013
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I agree with this statement. It adds spice and spontaneity.
Originally posted by
<3BF
can't say for lesbians but toys in general should theoretically help any couple through a lull
04/15/2013
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