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Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Do you feel the feeldoe works well when you have a transgendered partner?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
31  (52%)
No
4  (7%)
Other...please explain!
25  (42%)
Total votes: 60
Poll is closed
08/14/2011
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Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I love using this with my partner!
08/14/2011
Contributor: lzbncrckhead lzbncrckhead
i wanna hug who thought of the first one like the feeldoe.. i can actually feel like im a boy taking a girl
09/07/2011
Contributor: CherryDyke CherryDyke
Feeldoes are a wonderful thing.
09/10/2011
Contributor: TboyTy TboyTy
In my experience I have a really hard time keeping it in place by itself. I usually end up having to use a harness with it or have her on top.
09/10/2011
Contributor: nori nori
I was in an intimate relationship with a ftm; So being the girl on the other side of the toy is a bit of a different experience. It felt more real to me than harnesses and other strappy play.
09/15/2011
Contributor: jesseftm jesseftm
I wanted to try a feeldoe, specifically the realdoe until I went to the tantus website and read their startlingly transphobic rephrasing of a transwoman's review of the realdoe. Now I think I'll just stick to my Share. (Which I absolutely love)
11/18/2011
Contributor: lecanis lecanis
Quote:
Originally posted by jesseftm
I wanted to try a feeldoe, specifically the realdoe until I went to the tantus website and read their startlingly transphobic rephrasing of a transwoman's review of the realdoe. Now I think I'll just stick to my Share. (Which I absolutely love)
Ugh! Do you have a link or anything?
11/21/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by jesseftm
I wanted to try a feeldoe, specifically the realdoe until I went to the tantus website and read their startlingly transphobic rephrasing of a transwoman's review of the realdoe. Now I think I'll just stick to my Share. (Which I absolutely love)
From what you wrote, I just checked the Tantus website. I saw no reviews for any of their five feeldoe models. Their video did not seem to make any FTM or MTF reference, so I'm baffled as to what you're referring to. Please enlighten us JesseFTM.
11/21/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Transgendered which way? FTM? MTF?
11/21/2011
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
Do you feel the feeldoe works well when you have a transgendered partner?
Never used one with anyone but I imagine it would
12/01/2011
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
It looks like it would work really well if the penetrating partner also enjoys internal stimulation.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Maxx Maxx
Quote:
Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
Do you feel the feeldoe works well when you have a transgendered partner?
I have no idea what that is but curiousity killed the cat so Im going to check it out.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Chris Corrigan Chris Corrigan
Why does it matter if your partner is trans or not? A toy is a toy no matter the gender or sexuality of the people involved.
02/18/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
I think it's to large to be realistic
02/18/2012
Contributor: zecookiepuss zecookiepuss
Quote:
Originally posted by CherryDyke
Feeldoes are a wonderful thing.
Absolutely!
02/18/2012
Contributor: zecookiepuss zecookiepuss
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
I think it's to large to be realistic
There are all different sizes of the feeldoe... some are definitely a perfect fit!
02/18/2012
Contributor: zecookiepuss zecookiepuss
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Transgendered which way? FTM? MTF?
Does it matter?
02/18/2012
Contributor: Anteaterz Anteaterz
Quote:
Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
Do you feel the feeldoe works well when you have a transgendered partner?
I'm ftm and I couldn't use a feeldoe even if I wanted to :/ I have severe bottom dysphoria if anything gets in there. So personally I prefer the strapons without the other end.
03/01/2012
Contributor: Ohmonster Ohmonster
I've been wanting to try the feeldoe, but the thought of anything inside kind of has me uneasy.. I'm 10 months into my medical transition and I want to be able to penatrate my partner, using something other than my fingers... I feel that a strap on isn't an option either, because I wouldn't be feeling anything. Though with the feeldoe I do like the design with the "clit" stimulator. Also, for the times where I'm at home I have been craving over the idea of a masterbation sleeve, though I cannot find any that are small enough to use. I have found two on this site, though I'm straight and am not into anal the masterbation sleeve I was looking into has a butt mold to the sleeve. They seem ideal, although I am a bit weary due to the fact that I haven't seen a review from any Trans* guys using these. ( I usually look for the bad part in the reviews, that it's too small, or too tight inside and from that try to judge to see of that could be a possibility for me. )
03/02/2012
Contributor: shinygoldstars shinygoldstars
i have been wanting to get a hold of one of these ever since my ex girlfriend showed them to me. i have a hard time with harnesses because they can be uncomfortable and awkward, plus a lot of them don't really allow for much stimulation to the giver (covers bits). i don't really have bottom dysphoria so the penetration part isn't an issue for me but i can see how it could be an issue for others. at any rate, this is totally on my wishlist and i'll try to pop back in for an update if/when i get one.
03/02/2012
Contributor: Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by jesseftm
I wanted to try a feeldoe, specifically the realdoe until I went to the tantus website and read their startlingly transphobic rephrasing of a transwoman's review of the realdoe. Now I think I'll just stick to my Share. (Which I absolutely love)
Yeah, I read this as well. It was fairly alarming.

Then again, I didn't expect any different from a company who makes sure to mention that the feeldoes are marketed "for women, by women" and NOTHING else.
03/02/2012
Contributor: xxjoel xxjoel
I'm transgender and I love my realdoe. I certainly recommend it.
03/16/2012
Contributor: pinkLFant pinkLFant
Quote:
Originally posted by CherryDyke
Feeldoes are a wonderful thing.
Yes indeed!
03/16/2012
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
I think it depends.

I went for the Share. I love Tantus' products, but at the time I bought it there was no "Realdoe" and even now, I don't like it as much as the Share.

Share lets me fill in the blanks, whereas the Realdo is just... it doesn't look quite "right" to me and I can't identify it with myself as easily.
03/17/2012
Contributor: MasonJ MasonJ
I'm afraid to get one in case I end up unhappy with it (that's a pretty expensive mistake). I feel like the end "for me" may be too big for my enjoyment.
03/17/2012
Contributor: xxjoel xxjoel
Quote:
Originally posted by MasonJ
I'm afraid to get one in case I end up unhappy with it (that's a pretty expensive mistake). I feel like the end "for me" may be too big for my enjoyment.
It isn't too big! I promise! I'm really tight and once it's in I can barely feel a thing.
03/18/2012
Contributor: MasonJ MasonJ
Quote:
Originally posted by xxjoel
It isn't too big! I promise! I'm really tight and once it's in I can barely feel a thing.
Good to know! Thanks so much!
03/18/2012
Contributor: jesseftm jesseftm
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
From what you wrote, I just checked the Tantus website. I saw no reviews for any of their five feeldoe models. Their video did not seem to make any FTM or MTF reference, so I'm baffled as to what you're referring to. Please enlighten us JesseFTM.
Hey sorry, I haven't checked this thread in a really really long time. I'll see if I can find the review I came across before. I remember finding it for the first time because it was posted on tumblr. (I'm noticing now though, that the Tantus website looks different than I remember it).

Basically they followed up a transwoman's review by saying something with the sentiment of "oh look are dildo is so great even someone who used to have the real thing loves it". I'll see if I can find it again.
03/19/2012
Contributor: jesseftm jesseftm
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
From what you wrote, I just checked the Tantus website. I saw no reviews for any of their five feeldoe models. Their video did not seem to make any FTM or MTF reference, so I'm baffled as to what you're referring to. Please enlighten us JesseFTM.
Oh here it is. Turns out it's on the site feeldoe.com not the Tantus online store.
link

"Just how real does a feeldoe® feel?
We don't alter the comments ya'll send, but we need to clarify this one, and hopefully not offend anyone in the process:
Jamie was born male and surgically became female.
Yes, she had her "outie" turned into an "innie". Then, for an extra twist of fate, she fell in love with another woman:

"If I had met my lover before the surgery I might not have done it.
The feeldoe is like having my own penis back. How ironic!"
-Jamie Marie - Baltimore, MD (formerly James and father of 2.)

For those women on top who wonder if Feeldoe®
really "feel" the same as "a penis feels" for a man...
there, you have it ~ a True Expert's Testimony!"
03/19/2012