Feel Doe and the Transgendered

Contributor: Caus Caus
I definitely want to try the Feeldoe out.
03/19/2012
Contributor: Tangles Tangles
I have never tried it, but I have always wanted to! I've been talking to my partner about it, but he's still a bit wary. I'll have to show him some of these reviews.
03/19/2012
Contributor: tom fay tom fay
i really love it, but shit, sucks to hear about the transphoba, and that i support that buy buying there product
03/20/2012
Contributor: scaredlittleboy scaredlittleboy
I can't wait to get a strapless strapon~
03/20/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
Quote:
Originally posted by jesseftm
Oh here it is. Turns out it's on the site feeldoe.com not the Tantus online store.
link

"Just how real does a feeldoe® feel?
We don't alter the comments ya'll send, but we need to clarify this one, and hopefully ... more
That is really uncomfortable to read.
03/20/2012
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
Works for us!
03/20/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by jesseftm
Oh here it is. Turns out it's on the site feeldoe.com not the Tantus online store.
link

"Just how real does a feeldoe® feel?
We don't alter the comments ya'll send, but we need to clarify this one, and hopefully ... more
Thank you for finding that Jesseftm. I'm not sure that I can see exactly what is so offensive. My partner is TS/TG but I'm not, so perhaps my perception of what may be inappropriate is not very acute. But again thank you for finding the reference.
03/20/2012
Contributor: Lock Lock
The question's a little confusing. I'm not sure what the relevance would be if a partner was trans?

Either way, no. This wouldn't be comfortable at all for me to use on someone else.
03/20/2012
Contributor: jesseftm jesseftm
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
Thank you for finding that Jesseftm. I'm not sure that I can see exactly what is so offensive. My partner is TS/TG but I'm not, so perhaps my perception of what may be inappropriate is not very acute. But again thank you for finding the ... more
Basically every part they add in while trying not to offend people is offensive. The part that really gets me is saying that it feels "the same as 'a penis feels' for a man" when referring to a woman.

But yea, no problem :] I'm glad I found it. Needed a reminder to not buy it.
03/20/2012
Contributor: MasonM MasonM
I think the answer to this depends on several factors.

As an FTM transexual, I'm actually looking into these as a way that my partner and I can both have pleasure without triggering my dysophoria.
03/22/2012
Contributor: blixa blixa
Quote:
Originally posted by jesseftm
Oh here it is. Turns out it's on the site feeldoe.com not the Tantus online store.
link

"Just how real does a feeldoe® feel?
We don't alter the comments ya'll send, but we need to clarify this one, and hopefully ... more
That's disgusting! How disrespectful to her, a paying customer. This honestly makes me reconsider my planned purchase. Even if it works out for me, by some ~twist of fate~ I feel shitty giving money to a company that would post that without question.
03/23/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
Quote:
Originally posted by jesseftm
Oh here it is. Turns out it's on the site feeldoe.com not the Tantus online store.
link

"Just how real does a feeldoe® feel?
We don't alter the comments ya'll send, but we need to clarify this one, and hopefully ... more
0o what the actual fuck? How can people be this ignorant?
03/24/2012
Contributor: argylesocks argylesocks
I've been wondering if something like a feel doe could be turned into a packer and play/stp. Wishful thinking on my part mostly but it would be great to have something invented that could do everything instead of having to swap around my junk all the time. Especially when it comes to going out to a bar or something. If I want to pick a guy up I don't want to have to be worrying if I'm packing the right stuff for the job.
04/01/2012
Contributor: SizeQueenAndProud SizeQueenAndProud
I am finally comfortable about the idea of penetrating my partner with a strap-on, etc. but have some concern about whether a feeldoe would slip out. Other than that, the idea of penetrating her while being penetrated myself is not something I have an issue with. I'm more concerned with my performance being interrupted with the feeldoe falling out. Not a comfortable feeling during sex.
04/03/2012
Contributor: Rab Rab
Quote:
Originally posted by argylesocks
I've been wondering if something like a feel doe could be turned into a packer and play/stp. Wishful thinking on my part mostly but it would be great to have something invented that could do everything instead of having to swap around my junk all ... more
the Peecock is good for that
they come with an insertable rod that goes through the "urethra" to give you an erection
Peecock Products
04/04/2012
Contributor: Rab Rab
as for the Feeldoe, it's not so much dysphoria stopping me as pain in the man-cave from any kind of penetration there
does anyone know if it would be practical for the top to wear it anally?
I think I remember reading that someone did that, but I can't find it now
04/04/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
I think the penetration on my end would bother me to much. But I really like the concept.
04/21/2012
Contributor: jesseftm jesseftm
Quote:
Originally posted by Rab
the Peecock is good for that
they come with an insertable rod that goes through the "urethra" to give you an erection
Peecock Products
I agree, the Peecock is great. I have the smallest size but I haven't used it for sex yet. Packing and pissing it's great.
04/23/2012
Contributor: Cal Cal
Quote:
Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
Do you feel the feeldoe works well when you have a transgendered partner?
It was a lot of fun the few times I could get it in. But it's kind of heavy and the short base is usually too wide for me to handle. Being on T has made it harder to put stuff up in there.
04/24/2012
Contributor: sleepyjeanne sleepyjeanne
I'm a cis woman dating a trans guy, and we were just talking about this. I brought it up because he mentioned that before he was out he physically really enjoyed penetrative sex, but it was a real love/hate thing because of the resulting dysphoria. I hadn't thought of this as an option before because it would involve something being inside him, but then I saw the realdoe. When I posed the possibility, explaining that I thought it might get him that sensation he loves again without the emotional headaches, he got way excited. Now I'M way excited, haha! This might be the best thing for us. Also, he really loves when I give him head, but I've been really trying to figure out a way to simulate a blow job. With this, I'd be able to do that and probably get him off that way (needless to say he went from way excited to uber excited when I suggested this). So many things to add to the repertoire. So much win. So. Much. Win.
04/25/2012
Contributor: Rhiulan Rhiulan
I haven't ordered mine yet but I certainly want to give it a try, the feeldoes seem pretty awesome, though I'm still trying to find a nice strap to go with it, just in case.
04/28/2012
Contributor: jesseftm jesseftm
Quote:
Originally posted by blixa
That's disgusting! How disrespectful to her, a paying customer. This honestly makes me reconsider my planned purchase. Even if it works out for me, by some ~twist of fate~ I feel shitty giving money to a company that would post that without question.
Hey, I just found out from a friend who works at As You Like It that Tantus apparently has no connection to that site the quote is from. Apparently they've been trying to get it taken down! So all is well after all!
05/04/2012
Contributor: Interesante Interesante
I have yet to use one myself but I'm planning to at some point!
05/06/2012
Contributor: TakeHimAway TakeHimAway
Quote:
Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
Do you feel the feeldoe works well when you have a transgendered partner?
I think it depends on the guy..
05/07/2012
Contributor: jsnyder87 jsnyder87
Quote:
Originally posted by Anteaterz
I'm ftm and I couldn't use a feeldoe even if I wanted to :/ I have severe bottom dysphoria if anything gets in there. So personally I prefer the strapons without the other end.
i completely agree i could never use a feeldoe because it is inserted into myself. i have serious dysphoria with insertion. so no it doesnt work for me
10/16/2012