How open are you?

Contributor: K-smith K-smith
How open are you to being with a transgender person? This post isn't to offend anyone, and if you are offended then I offer my most sincere apology.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'm very open to the thought of being with a transgender female.
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I'm very open to the thought of being with a transgender male.
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I'm very open to either.
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I'm shy to the thought of a transgender female.
joja , Eden C. , hjtee , mouse , LittleBird , TheParrishism , SizeQueenAndProud
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I'm shy to the thought of a transgender male.
I'm shy to the thought of either.
sasweetheart89 , Tart , Kimbertrees , kawigrl , x cherri , honeybee7484 , padmeamidala , aliceinthehole , jbknows , SalmiakkiVodka , Mwar
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I'm not open to the ideal of a transgender female.
Penguin , *HisMrs*
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I'm not open to the ideal of a transgender male.
K-smith
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I'm not open to either.
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Total votes: 245 (204 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: K-smith K-smith
I think I could enjoy being with a transgender Female, but I do not think I would want a life time relationship with a transgender Female. I kinda view it as a exotic experience.
10/13/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
If I were attracted to the person, I don't care what gender they are, which they identify with, or anything else of that nature. Physical gender is more of an accessory of sorts in my mind, and I'm willing to take anything that comes on the exterior body of the interior person I'm attracted to.
10/13/2010
Contributor: K-smith K-smith
Quote:
Originally posted by Tori Rebel
If I were attracted to the person, I don't care what gender they are, which they identify with, or anything else of that nature. Physical gender is more of an accessory of sorts in my mind, and I'm willing to take anything that comes on the ... more
Very true words. I think I would be able to love a transgender person, But i can't see myself being with A person for life, I think it would be more of a phase a exciting time while it lasted. But this is what I think now, this doesn't mean it's true, I won't know unless it happens eh.
10/13/2010
Contributor: Dante Blaize Dante Blaize
So I voted that I would be open to being with a transgender male, and to some degree probably also a transgender female.

Only problem with the options above: I am a transgender man (FTM) so maybe we could add that to the list in the next poll?

Gender isn't important to me, so much as love and support. I think my girlfriend would agree.

10/13/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by K-smith
How open are you to being with a transgender person? This post isn't to offend anyone, and if you are offended then I offer my most sincere apology.
I tend to fall for the person regardless of gender or even lack thereof. If I like and or love the person I really don't care about their gender.
10/13/2010
Contributor: Penguin Penguin
No interest
10/13/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
I do not care what a person's exterior or internal gender is. So yes, of course I would be open to it. My current partner is a cisgendered girl, which is just as fine as anything else for me. I love who she is inside, regardless of anything else.
10/13/2010
Contributor: STOPS HERE STOPS HERE
Quote:
Originally posted by K-smith
How open are you to being with a transgender person? This post isn't to offend anyone, and if you are offended then I offer my most sincere apology.
I applaud all of you who have voted that you would be open to all or either, i am not that open i suppose, but also have a live and let live theory to life!!!
10/13/2010
Contributor: StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
I don't think the birth sex matters as long as they're comfortable in their heart's gender and that if I liked them, I would date them no matter what.
10/16/2010
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
I do not care what a person's exterior or internal gender is. So yes, of course I would be open to it. My current partner is a cisgendered girl, which is just as fine as anything else for me. I love who she is inside, regardless of anything else.
What is a cisgendered girl?

If I am attracted to the persons way of being I don't care what gender they are. But I must admit when seeing films or talk shows about this subject I do think about what my relatives & a few friends who are not so open minded would say if I were to date someone who is trans gender. But I would not let them influence me on dating someone I really like.
10/18/2010
Contributor: Kinkyquing Kinkyquing
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
What is a cisgendered girl?

If I am attracted to the persons way of being I don't care what gender they are. But I must admit when seeing films or talk shows about this subject I do think about what my relatives & a few friends who are ... more
Cisgendered female=(generally speaking, there are always the undiagnosed/not visible intersexed)female-bodi ed/born and female-identified.
10/23/2010
Contributor: Kinkyquing Kinkyquing
I'm open to being intimate with anyone of any gender identity, so being with a trans person of any kind would be fine with me (my current/so far only partner is a cisgendered woman).
10/23/2010
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I'm open to either. The body is just a shell in my opinion. <3
But also who wouldn't want to have the best of both worlds!
10/23/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
I think what trips me up most about gender dynamics is protocol. What do I call them, what do they like to be called, will I call them something that offends them, will I mess up and say he instead of she? That is what worries me most. It's not about the genitals.
10/28/2010
Contributor: Lavendar Menace Lavendar Menace
Being genderqueer myself, I have no problem dating a trans person.
11/11/2010
Contributor: kitti kitti
if i like the person no matter who is he or she.. i am usually open with the people ..
11/14/2010
Contributor: alistair alistair
There was not an "other" option I am transgender and I'm biofemale and I'm in a straight relation with a girl I wouldn't mind being with another ftm like myself though.
11/20/2010
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I have to agree with those who've said that the body is not the most important part about a person. I would be comfortable in a relationship with anyone as long as our personalities are compatible.
01/02/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
If I were not a married woman, I might be open to it. But not having been around many transgendered people (that I'm aware of), I might be a little afraid. But I'm the type to "risk it all for love." So I think eventually, if I cared about the person, I would be comfortable with it and dive into the relationship.
01/02/2011
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
It's not something I'm interested in experiencing. I have seen firsthand the turmoil and self-loathing that is often associated or present in complex gender identity issues. I am not strong enough to wade through the emotional abyss on that level any more. While I am quite sure there are perfectly well adjusted people in this world who have made the completion from one sex to another, I personally wouldn't have the fortune to meet such people.
01/02/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
I am attracted to femininity, not what equipment someone is packing. I'm not sure where that puts me on the whole sexual identity continuum, but it is what it is.

Of course, I'm a married man, so it's a moot point for me.
01/07/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Variety is the spice of life!
01/14/2011
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
I'm not really certain, but I think I'd be fine with either.
01/19/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
For me, it's more about the person as a whole. An awesome person is an awesome person regardless of gender identity. Personality is also a HUGE factor in me being attracted to someone, equipment matters a lot less.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Mistress M. Mistress M.
I'm very open to almost anything. I have a few friends who are transgender.
02/22/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by K-smith
How open are you to being with a transgender person? This post isn't to offend anyone, and if you are offended then I offer my most sincere apology.
Im not sure...
03/21/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
I do not care what a person's exterior or internal gender is. So yes, of course I would be open to it. My current partner is a cisgendered girl, which is just as fine as anything else for me. I love who she is inside, regardless of anything else.
agreed--i couldnt say it any better so i wont try haha
03/23/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I like to think I'm a very open person. I'm a lesbian with a boyfriend (haha I know) and I have several transgendered friends, both in real life and online. I try to love everyone equally ^_^
03/28/2011
Contributor: ButchAndFemme ButchAndFemme
Although I have no problems with the transgendered community, I cannot see myself with a transgendered person specifically because of the role I play in relationships.
03/29/2011