How open are you?

Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Yeah, I'm totally open to it, provided I liked them as a person.
04/17/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I am bisexual and could and have been with both. My current girlfriend is a transgendered male to female. I love her to death.
04/17/2011
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
I'm in a committed relationship, but otherwise I'm open to dating a transperson. I'll be honest, I'm attracted to male bodies but there's much more than appearances in regards to a relationship.
04/17/2011
Contributor: Koragg Koragg
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Originally posted by Dante Blaize
So I voted that I would be open to being with a transgender male, and to some degree probably also a transgender female.

Only problem with the options above: I am a transgender man (FTM) so maybe we could add that to the list in the next ... more
Right on! My wife is MTF and I wouldn't change it for the world!
05/15/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
My partner is a man and always has been and from the looks of it, he always will be. Lol unless he pisses me off real big. Lol But, I don't think I could do it. If he decided to do that (which wouldn't be likely but IF) I would love him, be there for him all the same, but the attraction would not be there. I just couldn't be with him in a relationship anymore.
05/15/2011
Contributor: slipstitch slipstitch
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Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
I'm open to either. The body is just a shell in my opinion. <3
But also who wouldn't want to have the best of both worlds!
I agree as far as the body being the shell. For me love is who the person is not what they look like.
05/16/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Koragg
Right on! My wife is MTF and I wouldn't change it for the world!
I agree!
It's the person who we love not the plumbing.
05/16/2011
Contributor: ra1nb0wb00tay ra1nb0wb00tay
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Originally posted by K-smith
How open are you to being with a transgender person? This post isn't to offend anyone, and if you are offended then I offer my most sincere apology.
i believe that sexual orientation is fluid. I consider myself bisexual. I am dating a trans man. If i one day fell in love with a trans woman, then I would be with that person. cis-gendered or not, i dont care. if i like them..i like them. so be it
05/22/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
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Originally posted by K101
My partner is a man and always has been and from the looks of it, he always will be. Lol unless he pisses me off real big. Lol But, I don't think I could do it. If he decided to do that (which wouldn't be likely but IF) I would love him, be ... more
^This. Exactly this.
05/22/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
not something i have thought about dunno?
05/22/2011
Contributor: mouse mouse
Hell yes to a transman, and no to a transwoman only because I'm just not attracted to that at all. Love you ladies anyway
06/01/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
Sexy to me is determined on a person by person basis. I'm not really comfortable trying to decide attraction based on whatever's hanging out (or in) in their nethers.
06/03/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I don't mind having transgender friends, but I cannot accept my other half to be one.
06/06/2011
Contributor: Bellimum Bellimum
I'd prefer someone who identifies as male, and while a transgender individual isn't the first option that comes to mind, I'd certainly be open to pursuing a relationship if the attraction was there.
06/06/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by K-smith
How open are you to being with a transgender person? This post isn't to offend anyone, and if you are offended then I offer my most sincere apology.
wouldnt matter to me one way or the other feelings are feelings no matterwhat gender trans or other
06/17/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I'm open to either
06/17/2011
Contributor: moose1120 moose1120
I'm very open to trying anything at least once!
06/22/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I would seriously consider being with either. That doesn't bother me in the slightest.
06/23/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
If I get along with someone and am attracted to them or want to be with them, then it does not matter at all what their gender is, transgendered or not. I'm open to anybody
06/23/2011
Contributor: lzbncrckhead lzbncrckhead
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Originally posted by K-smith
How open are you to being with a transgender person? This post isn't to offend anyone, and if you are offended then I offer my most sincere apology.
i would love to be with a trans person.. but being a FtM myself it could get a bit... interesting
06/30/2011
Contributor: MJ1337 MJ1337
I'm an open person, however, I would like to be with a male, or to settle my bicuriosity, a woman.. sorry, don't want both, but I don't have any animosity towards transgendered folks!
07/01/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
not my thing
07/04/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
Open to either.
07/09/2011
Contributor: Jenyana Jenyana
I'm open to anything, really. I guess it comes with being a bisexual leaning on pan. I don't really care what's in your pants, just that you're happy with who you are and how you look.
07/12/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
I've been with transgender males and females before. Gender doesn't really matter to me.
07/16/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
yea I don't know...
07/16/2011
Contributor: AriBoi AriBoi
Quote:
Originally posted by K-smith
How open are you to being with a transgender person? This post isn't to offend anyone, and if you are offended then I offer my most sincere apology.
I'm in a monogamous relationship, thus I'm realistically not open to either, however, since this is a question about a hypothetical situation (i.e. if I were open to being with ANYONE aside from my partner), I would say I'm open to both. As a bi/pansexual FTM guy, I can't imagine answering any other way.

As I'm more into androgyny, then certainly boyish MTFs or somewhat girlish FTMs might appeal to me more than feminine MTFs / really masculine FTMs, but that goes for cisgendered men/women, too. I do find that what I like most are people whose sex/gender I might not be sure of or get wrong at first - so this could very well include many LGBT folks.
07/16/2011
Contributor: GenderSexplorations GenderSexplorations
FtM here. The gender/sex of a person is really irrelevant to me, so I'd say open to both (aside from the fact that I'm already taken). I think a good personality and spirit is much more important than anything else. That being said, I do like male-identified persons slightly more, but not a deal-breaker either way.
08/15/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Transgender folk are not on my radar. This is mainly because I have been in a relationship for almost half my life and I don't intend on leaving it, therefore it's not really an issue. If I were single? I still don't know, but I'm not really keen on ending up in a relationship with a woman again regardless of the circumstances.
08/28/2011
Contributor: cameronfeidh cameronfeidh
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Originally posted by K-smith
How open are you to being with a transgender person? This post isn't to offend anyone, and if you are offended then I offer my most sincere apology.
Gender doesn't matter very much to me. Though I am more inclined to masculine-identified people (including trans*men), I am absolutely open to dating feminine-identified people as well, should the right one come along. It's more about personality and emotional compatibility than physicality.
10/03/2011