My mom knows as well as my partner. The rest of my family does not know, but I do plan on telling them when I'm ready and hopefully that will be in the near future.
As for friends? Well, one night I was really high and I texted one of my friends and apparently I told him about my "gender confusion" (at the time, I felt more confused than anything). I soon found out that he'd shared this information with a mutual friend (I wasn't happy).
I also sort of shared a bit of this information with another person who used to be sort of a friend.
Aside from that, I've only come out to counselors/mental health workers, and people online.
So, I'm not really "out". I still feel very much "in the closet".