Aw thanks, that helps a lot. I want to try to make it a surprise so I don't want to ask him too much about it and ruin it all but I definitely want to make sure it's worth it.

He doesn't have bottom surgery yet and is still undecided on how much to get done down there, but he DEFINITELY likes touching.

And it's a good thing your guy prefers you over the toy. The toy would have to get thrown out otherwise hehehe. But it's good for when we're apart or maybe to help get in the mood.

Now I'll need to go compare the different kinds. I know that I want it to feel and look real because that's the whole value. So it can't be just a discreet sleeve. Let me know if you have any suggestions! less

I was wondering if any transman or someone who knows a transman has a masturbator or a realistic vagina. I've been considering getting one for my partner. I know the majority of transmen don't get the full surgery down below for a completely bio-male looking penis, but I figure any special sensation would be great. And my partner has a definite appreciation for the vagina and probably would even like to just touch it. Are they worth the money for a non-bio-male?

And just out of curiousity, has any woman ever used one? Manually or with a strap on or something? I suppose there's no gender requirement to get pleasure from a toy. less