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Contributor: bog bog
...were both partners similarly identified as far as their gender, or very different from each other?

for example, my two longest relationships were with a gender-queer identified person, and a male-identified person.
11/30/2012
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Contributor: GONE! GONE!
They were opposites, oddly enough.
12/01/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by bog
...were both partners similarly identified as far as their gender, or very different from each other?

for example, my two longest relationships were with a gender-queer identified person, and a male-identified person.
All of my relationships were men, and born that way.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Asher Asher
I am going to answer this as in the most meaningful relationships and not the longest...because the longest relationship I was in meant nothing. And they were both woman...and are oddly similar in many ways.
12/01/2012
Contributor: needapacker needapacker
Quote:
Originally posted by bog
...were both partners similarly identified as far as their gender, or very different from each other?

for example, my two longest relationships were with a gender-queer identified person, and a male-identified person.
one was a girl, one was a dude.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
I've only been in one meaningful relationship, with a transwoman.
12/02/2012
Contributor: hanjonatan hanjonatan
the only two i've been with as an adult were both women, but my longest before my current one, which ended when i was 18, was with a dude. all of my relationships have been with cis people, if that matters.
12/02/2012
Contributor: Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
I've only been with one person, and she's cis-female, while I'm trans-male.
12/15/2012
Contributor: nope nope
my longest "relationship" when I was a teenager was with a girl and my partner now is non-binary
12/18/2012
Contributor: butts butts
Both are cismales.
12/18/2012
Contributor: Thomas90 Thomas90
One male and one gender-queer
12/22/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I've only been with men.
12/22/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
One cisgender guy, and one male-assigned, bigender femme. Very different in identities and personalities.
01/04/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
Both were with cis straight dudes, which was kind of annoying because they constantly insisted I was "really" a girl and they could "so tell," etc.

They didn't get trans* stuff at all

I can't imagine myself being in relationships in the future.

Kind of like the idea of casual with anyone of any gender although lately cis people or ones who don't know anything about trans* anything annoy me
01/05/2013