Would you stay with your wife/husband if they chose to get a sex change?

Contributor: PeachieClean PeachieClean
Being bi, it wouldn't really be much of an issue. I'd stick with him if he decided he was meant to be a woman. It would be very different from our current norm, so whether or not the relationship would remain good isn't something I can say, but I wouldn't leave him /just/ because he traded his penis for a vagina.
02/17/2012
Contributor: Chris Corrigan Chris Corrigan
Yes. Anyone who divorces or breaks up because of that reason alone is a complete asshole. They're still the same person they always were.
02/17/2012
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
I don't know, I am just not really attracted to women. I am interested in men, FtM transguys, and MtF who have not had bottom surgery, but to me a female and a vagina together just do not do it for me.

I love my partner so much, so maybe I would stay with him even if he wanted to get rid of his penis because I am already attached to him, but I wouldn't seek that out in a partner.
04/17/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
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Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
Luckily, I don't think this is something I will ever have to worry about...
I'm not really sure because I don't think, in fact I almost know that I'll really won't have to worry about it. Although if it did happen, it would be a decision I would have to make when it happens.
04/17/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
No way
04/18/2012
Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
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Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
I want to know if you'd stay with your wife/husband if they chose to get a sex change?
i dont know if i could that would mean thay didnt love me
04/18/2012
Contributor: TransMarc TransMarc
It depends if they want to stay with me. If so I would stay and support them, too! I know some persons don't want to be with their patner anymore when/after transitioning.
Also, some persons' personalities change, so if that is the case I guess it depends on their "new", true personality.
04/18/2012
Contributor: nope nope
wow a lot of people are really narrow-minded and horrible, huh
not that I didn't know that about the world in general but wow
04/18/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
This is not something that I would have to worry about, but it is not something that would bother me. I am supporting of all decisions one makes. I am pansexual, so this would not bother me. It would be a matter of what my partner wanted.
04/18/2012
Contributor: Schattenstern Schattenstern
Being pansexual helps me out in these kinds of situations.
04/18/2012
Contributor: kmilly kmilly
i'm straight, so i'd probably have trouble adjusting to life as a gay guy. but i love the person i'm with now. not for her body, for her heart and mind and soul.
04/20/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
no way
04/21/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm not sure how I'd react in that situation.
04/23/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
I would support my man and stay with him BUT I would be somewhat upset. I mean I LOVE his penis lol
04/23/2012
Contributor: Rhiulan Rhiulan
As a ftm myself Im sure I would because if I am accepted by my partner than who am I to not accept them? I was a little shocked to see how many people said they would stay with their partners.
04/28/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
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Originally posted by ladiewithswagg1
hell no
Agreed! I married a female and I want to keep it that way or else . . .
04/28/2012
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I don't really think I could..
04/28/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I don;t see why not - I'm pansexual and genderqueer myself, I think I could handle someone else's gender reassignment okay. It would be stressful, but that would be because of outside factors and the reactions of others, not a dislike of my partner's choice.
06/28/2012
Contributor: marshmallow marshmallow
maybe.
07/08/2012
Contributor: Bodhi Bodhi
Oh wow, this is a hard one.

I'm not attracted to women, I would never get into a relationship with one, just not interested.

However, if my male partner was going to transition, this would literally be my only exception. He is the only one I would be willing to stay for.
07/09/2012
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
Yes I would. They're still the same person I would've fallen in love with.
07/25/2012
Contributor: hanjonatan hanjonatan
i would, but i would like to point out that there's nothing wrong with someone saying that they wouldn't or couldn't. it's not "narrow-minded" of a straight man or lesbian to not want to be with a man, or a gay man or straight woman to not want to be with a woman. ideally, of course, we would all stay with the person we love no matter what, but that's not really how people work, and sometimes break-ups happen. that doesn't make anyone an asshole, and it certainly doesn't make anyone a bad person to say "i'm just not attracted to [men/women]".
07/28/2012
Contributor: snowyslut snowyslut
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Originally posted by Diabolical Kitty
I want to know if you'd stay with your wife/husband if they chose to get a sex change?
Sort of a moot point. My partner is trans*, and I am too (I think? Not so sure anymore.) and we're hoping to get married in a few years.
07/29/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
I would stay, hell yes. I might be a bit against bottom surgery because it would complicate things (I'm FTM and he would be MTF, so, yeah...) but I'd definately stay
07/30/2012
Contributor: Charry Charry
I'm not married, but I believe if I were truly in love I would stay with them and look past the body because I'd be in love with the person- not the body they have.
07/30/2012
Contributor: Phosphorous Tick Phosphorous Tick
of course I would!
08/01/2012
Contributor: HB042 HB042
My husband would make a sexy chick, and I absolutely adore him. It wouldn't bother me a bit, to be honest. I am lucky just to have him in my life.
08/01/2012
Contributor: LaSchwartz LaSchwartz
Yes I love him for his personality and I know he would need my support in something that big but. I know he would never do that.
08/01/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I would stick by my partner through anything, but I'm pansexual anyway.
08/01/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
difficult to answer, until the time came and dependent on the circumstances.
08/04/2012