So I blame the fact that I haven't had sex for a while, but last night I had an intensely sexual dream which featured an actual real-life sex blogger whom I've never met and have only interacted with (fleetingly) through her blog.

I was thinking of writing about this dream, since it was pretty hot, but I wondered how appropriate it was to mention the blogger in question. I mean, she runs a sex blog and features pictures of herself naked, debauched, defiled and debased (and delicious.)

But even so, to be mentioned in a virtual stranger's blog in a sexual context just seems vaguely creepy to me.

Am I being paranoid, or are my instincts good? Credit where credit's due, but I certainly don't want to come across as weird (weirder than I am already.)

As I said, don't judge! I can't help what my subconscious comes up with (there was more than one other person involved and I did things in the dream that I certainly wouldn't be comfortable doing in real life.) less

Wow good question. I suppose the extent to which you'd be creepy for writing about this person in some form would be directly related to the extent to which you seemed "infatuated" with the person.

Suppose you made a CD about the person. And then got a record deal. And it was all about and inspired by this person. Possibly quite creepy.

Or suppose you wrote like a three paragraph something on some website to the effect of "Yeah, I'd hit it, her blog makes me hot" (lol). That doesn't sound so creepy.

I dunno, maybe that's even minimally helpful less

So I blame the fact that I haven't had sex for a while, but last night I had an intensely sexual dream which featured an actual real-life sex blogger whom I've never met and have only interacted with (fleetingly) through her blog.

I was thinking of writing about this dream, since it was pretty hot, but I wondered how appropriate it was to mention the blogger in question. I mean, she runs a sex blog and features pictures of herself naked, debauched, defiled and debased (and delicious.)

But even so, to be mentioned in a virtual stranger's blog in a sexual context just seems vaguely creepy to me.

Am I being paranoid, or are my instincts good? Credit where credit's due, but I certainly don't want to come across as weird (weirder than I am already.)

As I said, don't judge! I can't help what my subconscious comes up with (there was more than one other person involved and I did things in the dream that I certainly wouldn't be comfortable doing in real life.) less