Always always ALWAYS cook. When I was a kid, we went to my grandmother's (dad's side), and it was great that everyone contributed something. Since we moved to Florida and especially since I was a teenager, I've had to "help". For the past ten years, it's gotten to the point in which I'm doing most all of the cooking; which is okay, since it's just my parents and brother here in Florida, so I'm not having to cook for an army.
This year, the boyfriend will be joining us. This will test his devotion to me if he can stand my mother "backseat cooking" and being underfoot in the kitchen.