The New Intimacy

Do you ever not want to have sex?

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Contributor: zz1aag zz1aag
how often?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
all the time
Gone (LD29) , Septimus , Rory , chicmichiw , Lickable Lollie , fizzygato , jr2012 , bayosgirl , richsam , bratcat , Lovesickalien
11  (11%)
rarely
Alyona , sXeVegan90 , GirlOnGirl , apryls , Stagger13 , Lummox , rosythorn , hyacinthgirl , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , Artishok , Shayla , padmeamidala , HarlequinBunnie , remember.me , MidnightStorm , Danneh , Geogeo , malantha , sexyfun , Anne , skeeterlynn , RedKyuubi , DomonCoshu , hhh , Bignuf , Sweet-n-Playful , Mikemanz , MrsHouseWife , Lildrummrgurl7 , MissCandyland , js250 , Andrey2052 , AliMc , solitudinarian , PropertyOfPotter , DigitalSweety , heather-mooney , edenguy , Harpina is gone , Lizard , Moniqua , ginnyluvspotter , yw2 , Martiniman , Xarien , woodsdragon , CaliGirl , CS2012 , lovebites , ViVix , Hubby80 , Supervixen , FantasyMonroe , Thumper Logic , Lioncub , dv8 , penutbuttercup , phoenixfire , nikki0668 , TheirPet , hall5885 , AwesomeAmanda , Marie Hanna , bronzelotus , *Ashley* , JessieDawg , Sinfully , EmuLove , Kitten has left the site , Jennifer87 , Stinkytofu10 , gorgeous , Inkkythesquid , LuckyLady , twelve13 , snowminx , SecondStory , Jax Jackson , digit88 , Falsepast , BrittaniMaree , TJtheMadHatter , Hummingbird , mdnght , 1001 Pleasures
85  (84%)
never
RonLee , Gunsmoke , chelly411 , Living Doll , ihavenipples
5  (5%)
Total votes: 101
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Contributor: Alyona Alyona
rarely
10/31/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
rarely.
10/31/2012
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
Very rarely
10/31/2012
Contributor: apryls apryls
Quote:
Originally posted by zz1aag
how often?
If I'm really sick or in pain then I just tell him to use his hand or his Lexi.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by zz1aag
how often?
Rarely-If I am under the weather.
10/31/2012
Contributor: rosythorn rosythorn
Could we get a sometimes button? When it's 100 degrees outside and I just worked all day, I am not in the mood
10/31/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I hate having sex on my period or other times when I feel really sick and in pain, so I just prefer not to do it at all. I don't know how anyone can feel in the mood when they've got, say, food poisoning.
10/31/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
When I'm sick I don't usually want to have sex. I have had walking pneumonia for the last two weeks and not really been in the mood.

The joke with my wife is she knows that I'm really sick when I'm not wanting sex. I know I'm rebounding though, I'm thinking about sex again!
10/31/2012
Contributor: Artishok Artishok
rarely
10/31/2012
Contributor: Shayla Shayla
sometimes, when Im not pregnant I want it every night, but now that Im pregnant it gets a little painful and the bigger I get the more awkward it is
10/31/2012
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by zz1aag
how often?
Rarely. I do lose my sex drive a bit when I don't feel well or it's my time of the month. It always comes back when I'm feeling better though.
10/31/2012
Contributor: HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
Quote:
Originally posted by zz1aag
how often?
It's not me who doesn't want to have sex. E.D. is cruel all the way around. A sick joke by a higher power.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by rosythorn
Could we get a sometimes button? When it's 100 degrees outside and I just worked all day, I am not in the mood
I was thinking the same thing. I would have voted if there was a "sometimes" option.
10/31/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
Very rarely, I am hardly ever not up for sex ^.^ sick would be the only one!
10/31/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
It happens to me sometimes, but not often! Usually I want to have more sex than my boyfriend does.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by zz1aag
how often?
Mostly just when I'm really tired
10/31/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
Tired, sick, or down.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
When I'm angry or not feeling well, yes.
10/31/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
rarely
10/31/2012
Contributor: DomonCoshu DomonCoshu
Hardly ever, but my wife is pregnant right now and it just seems so uncomfortable right now, so I try not to push the subject.
10/31/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
LOL! NO! I've never refused or declined my partners request.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by zz1aag
how often?
Probably five times in 30 plus years together, was I really not in the mood...either due to illness or pre occupation. I have a very loving hubby who was more concerned with helping me fix whatever was wrong, then in wanting sex. We both get plenty of that. He has had moments when stress about work or an issue simply had his brain elsewhere, and I fully understood. I was just "there" for him.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife has been out of the mood often enough for both of us. She knows tha I'm available 100% of the time. The only exception is that when I'm on the road traveling.
11/01/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
I go through phases. Sometimes I want it a few times a week, sometimes I could go a year or more. I'm all over the place.
11/01/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Sometimes, when I get depressed.
11/01/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
Like right now--I have a nasty case of flu......
11/01/2012
Contributor: Andrey2052 Andrey2052
rarely
11/01/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Sometimes. I do not want to have sex when I'm on my period, when I feel constipated/bloated, or when I'm not in the mood.
11/01/2012
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
Other. I don't want it often, but I would say more than rarely.
11/01/2012