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Lena Eden Lena Eden
Love is… to win a contest and share the pleasure with your partner or have a well deserved amazing solo play!

St. Valentine's is a meaningful day for those who love and those who are loved, even if you love affair is currently with yourself .



Whether you are happily single or happy in a relationship, join us to have some fun. Everyone has his or her own “Biggest Love of My Life” Story. If you would compare your Biggest love with a movie (romcom, drama, thriller, art-house ), which one would that be? Why?

The most interesting story will win a prize - an exclusive Love Kit!
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OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Bummer,

We seldom watch any romantic movies. Mostly action or thrillers.
Jan 25, 5:55 pm
DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Love is… to win a contest and share the pleasure with your partner or have a well deserved amazing solo play!St. Valentine's is a meaningful day for those who love and those who are loved, even if you love affair is currently with yourself . ...
If my life were a romantic movie, what would it be? I stared at a blank text box for a long while until a movie occurred to me. I am living Jamie and Aurelia's relationship in "Love Actually" (2003). In the movie, Jamie and Aurelia live across the world from each other and even speak different languages. Yet, their love still holds strong.

It is money, jobs, school, and 772 miles that separate my love and me. While we have never met in person, we have Skyped for 12 hours straight, watched a multiple television series together, and listened to each other's problems, secrets, and worries. While I may not know what the he smells like or what his chest feels like cushioned under my head, I know who he is. I know what he believes in, what his long term goals are, and his dreams that he never dares tell anyone else. We will have been together for one year come February 3rd and I'm excited to celebrate.

Now, I am just waiting for my own balcony scene, for my Dom to surprise me with an in-person declaration of love.
Jan 27, 10:36 pm
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Love is… to win a contest and share the pleasure with your partner or have a well deserved amazing solo play!St. Valentine's is a meaningful day for those who love and those who are loved, even if you love affair is currently with yourself . ...
A friend once compared me to Bridget Jones. At first I was a tad perplexed, then I decided to watch the first movie again. As an older adult. As an adult with more experience and more maturity. And then I got it.

I'm an awkward girl who doesn't know her own strength. I frequently sleep with men that I work with while searching for the person who I match with the best. Deep down I know all this sex won't get me anywhere, but it's fun and I like it, and I trick myself into believing they care. It sounds as and maybe a little morbid.

There's one I love. I've never loved anyone the way I love him. He won't ever know just how deeply I care. He's betrothed to another. While he is very unhappy and has spent more time sleeping in their spare bedroom than happy in the last six months, he doesn't know how to go after what he really loves and deserves.

But I'm not waiting by idly pining after this old school punk. Even if we have the same taste in music and style, we know how to make each other blush just by being in the same room, or that we know what to do or say to calm the other down.

No, I'm not waiting. I'm putting myself in a position to take the love I deserve. He love I deserve is not second hand. The love I deserve is not this painful. The love I deserve is not tethered to another person. The love I deserve is self love, self acceptance, and realization of my own strength. My love story is to fall in love with myself and find the value of my own heart and soul before giving it to someone who will only crack it further.
Jan 31, 12:42 pm
MarriedVikingQueen MarriedVikingQueen
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Love is… to win a contest and share the pleasure with your partner or have a well deserved amazing solo play!St. Valentine's is a meaningful day for those who love and those who are loved, even if you love affair is currently with yourself . ...
I always say I am the luckiest girl in the world. I met my husband back in 2009 and my health declined quickly over the next few years and I was overcome with Chronic Pain to the point where he basically became my caregiver. I always joke like our relationship is a bit like Noah and Allie from The Notebook because he has never given up on me, he has been there to by my caregiver, my rock and pretty much my everything. Our relationship very much reminds me towards the end of The Notebook where Allie falls ill and Noah sticks by her side until the end. My husband has taken on a big role of working a full time job and caring for me when I need it, he does tasks like washing my hair, cooking and etc with a smile on his face and It means the world to me. I am truly blessed.
Jan 31, 1:24 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Bummer,

We seldom watch any romantic movies. Mostly action or thrillers.
Wow, really?! Which action/thriller story was the #1 in your life?
Jan 31, 1:25 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by DancerKittyKat
If my life were a romantic movie, what would it be? I stared at a blank text box for a long while until a movie occurred to me. I am living Jamie and Aurelia's relationship in "Love Actually" (2003). In the movie, Jamie and Aurelia ...
'Love Actually' is one of my favourite movies
Do you also speak different languages with your S.O. like Jamie and Aurelia?

I wish you could finally meet one day and never lose each other after that.
Jan 31, 1:32 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by wrecklesswords
A friend once compared me to Bridget Jones. At first I was a tad perplexed, then I decided to watch the first movie again. As an older adult. As an adult with more experience and more maturity. And then I got it.

I'm an awkward girl who ...
Did you watch the 3rd part of the movie? I noticed that Bridget becomes self-reliant for everything that happens in her life. She knows what she wants, she is confident and absolutely amazing with her natural beauty. And yes, like you, she just loves herself and enjoys every moment of life.

So, you don't want to show your feelings to your Mr. X?
Jan 31, 1:42 pm
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
If I had to compare my relationship with a film it would have to be the John Hughes film The Breakfast Club. We met as late teens and we were a lot like Bender and Claire. She didn't like me when we first met, and I was rough around the edges and came off too strongly. I still have a bit of an attitude problem even now well into my 20's. She was popular among our group of friends, well-liked and essentially a princess.

When we were first introduced to one another it was very much a situation of "I don't like you, you don't like me, let's talk as little as we possibly can." back when we met online through a writing group where, you guessed it, we had to communicate with one another. Slowly, she started to chip away at the rough exterior I have and revealed parts of me I didn't even know I had. That led to what we have today. Our love wasn't instantaneous, it wasn't love at first sight, but we slowly and gradually became interested in one another and that led to a love I couldn't imagine being without today.

Today, we share everything with one another, and she's the only person who knows me inside and out, all of my faults, my moods, and every side of me. None of my exes had ever gotten to know me as well as she has, and I know that it's due in part to the fact we gradually worked on things from 'enemies' to partners. Now, she's my lifelong partner (after finally meeting in person/living together) , and I see nothing but our future together.
Jan 31, 2:25 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by sXeVegan90
If I had to compare my relationship with a film it would have to be the John Hughes film The Breakfast Club. We met as late teens and we were a lot like Bender and Claire. She didn't like me when we first met, and I was rough around the edges and ...
So sweet!! From hate to love there's only one step, right?

How long are you together already?
Feb 1, 8:52 am
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
So sweet!! From hate to love there's only one step, right?

How long are you together already?
We've been together for 4 years now going strong. We'll be having our 5th anniversary this March.
Feb 1, 9:23 am
MeliPixie MeliPixie
Well everyone, I am currently IN the biggest love of my life. This is going to be long, so please bear with me. I love to tell this story, but so few of our friends or family would understand.. Anyway. Here goes.

I have always been more attracted to women than to men, to the point where I was sure I was gay, and during my high school and college years made it a point to be out to all my friends. But in the rec room at college, there was this one guy I was always attracted to, so much so that it scared me. A little goth, a little punk, and very submissive, to the point of wearing a collar every day, and often handcuffs and shackles on his pants. We became very close friends very quickly.

Then one day he suddenly disappeared. No one knew anything, or if they did, they certainly weren't telling. (As it turns out, his girlfriend at the time had cheated on him, then gone around telling all our friends that he was the one cheating, and they ostracized him, keeping me completely out of the loop.)

Two years passed. I began my life in the dorms the second half of my college life, and finally got a Facebook account. One of the first things I did was look him up. He had been recently mugged (we lived in a very bad city) and moved about 80 miles away to another, more country-like city, which was much safer. We got to talking, then we started flirting, and after a few months of that he asked me something that shocked me.

He basically messaged me one night with a favor. And this isn't going to sound very romantic to anyone, but it's now a very fond memory for me. He said to me, "I know you're gay, but do you think..." After waiting several minutes he finally said, "Do you think if I got you a dildo you would fuck me? ... You wouldn't have to love me. Just fuck me." He was a very broken young man at the time. It broke my heart because I knew he was in pain and very lonely.

But I had started to love him, and wanted more than to be just sex buddies. So we took it slow (I was a virgin at the time) and now we are seven years strong. A loving couple who are still learning fun new things about each other and our bodies, with a dog we've had for five years since puppyhood, and we have moved all over the country to pursue our dreams together. It's been an amazing ride and I hope it never ends!

To my knowledge, you can't make this stuff up. I don't think there is a movie about best friends who start pegging and BDSM, fall in love, and eventually open a restaurant together. But I could be wrong.

Happy Valentine's Day, everyone!
Feb 1, 3:23 pm
DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
'Love Actually' is one of my favourite movies
Do you also speak different languages with your S.O. like Jamie and Aurelia?

I wish you could finally meet one day and never lose each other after that.
We are both native English speakers. I speak conversational Mandarin (Chinese), but there is not language barrier or huge cultural differences between my partner and me.
Feb 1, 3:41 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by MeliPixie
Well everyone, I am currently IN the biggest love of my life. This is going to be long, so please bear with me. I love to tell this story, but so few of our friends or family would understand.. Anyway. Here goes.

I have always been more ...
Great ! Love to read stuff like this. Love happy ending ! You're right no movies where bestie's get into pegging and BDSM. If you find one pls let us know.

Hope he also got you a good harness.

So, what type of restaurant the 2 of you have in mind.
Feb 1, 5:44 pm
MeliPixie MeliPixie
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Great ! Love to read stuff like this. Love happy ending ! You're right no movies where bestie's get into pegging and BDSM. If you find one pls let us know.

Hope he also got you a good harness.

So, what type of restaurant the ...
Haha, you guys will be the first to know XD We tried it first without ine because the toy he got me was a Feeldoe. We soon discovered I needed one so we got a Spareparts Joque harness. And we're thinking of opening a ramen shop!
Feb 1, 8:07 pm
MissMandii MissMandii
Can we do a TV show? Because mine would be most similar to Boy meets World. Of were doing movies maybe something like Zack and Midi make a Porno meets Harry Potter. My husband was my next door neighbor my entire life. We met when I was thirteen and quickly became unlikely best friends. I was a nerdy, homeschooled preachers daughter, and he was a goofy, wild kid from across the field. He's seen me through heartbreaks from other boys, losing people I loved, somewhere along the way we decided to be friends with benefits, however feelings hit almost instantly. I didn't want to admit I loved him, he was my best friend after all. He chased after me and pined for me for many years, and I almost lost him before I realized I loved him all along. Here we are now... Coming up on our ninth wedding anniversary, we have two beautiful kids, and out of our motley group of childhood friends, we're the only two that still talk to each other. I married my best friend, and it's the best decision I ever made.
Feb 2, 12:53 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I'm going to say Clint Eastwood's , The "Good The Bad and The Ugly".

My first gf would be the "Ugly". Not because she was ugly, mind you. Just not as pretty and attractive as The Bad and The Good. She had nice boobs for a Chinese gal and a round ass. She was very proud of both.

The "Bad" would be this gal I met on a group sleepover trip. She went there with another guy, but left with me. I soon learned she like bad boys. Her ex was a gang member. Almost every time we went out, she was anxious to get it on.

We didn't last long. Few weeks later I overheard a friend of a friend telling another," Boy ! That .... (I won't use her name) is sure horny as all hell!"

The " Good " : Yes is OW, my wife. A Real Angel. She takes care of all my needs, gave me wonderful 3 kids, cares for her and my parents, great cook (in bed too) , puts up with my mis-givings and downfalls and so on.

Boy, I hope she sees this when she comes on to do her next review.
Feb 2, 5:57 pm
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by DancerKittyKat
If my life were a romantic movie, what would it be? I stared at a blank text box for a long while until a movie occurred to me. I am living Jamie and Aurelia's relationship in "Love Actually" (2003). In the movie, Jamie and Aurelia ...
Congrats! I hope you finally get to meet him soon.
Feb 3, 5:21 am
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by MeliPixie
Well everyone, I am currently IN the biggest love of my life. This is going to be long, so please bear with me. I love to tell this story, but so few of our friends or family would understand.. Anyway. Here goes.

I have always been more ...
It may not sound the most romantic, but I'm glad you're both happy.
Feb 3, 5:22 am
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I'm going to say Clint Eastwood's , The "Good The Bad and The Ugly".

My first gf would be the "Ugly". Not because she was ugly, mind you. Just not as pretty and attractive as The Bad and The Good. She had nice ...
You can always point her to it. Maybe email her the link?
Feb 3, 5:22 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by MarriedVikingQueen
I always say I am the luckiest girl in the world. I met my husband back in 2009 and my health declined quickly over the next few years and I was overcome with Chronic Pain to the point where he basically became my caregiver. I always joke like our ...
Soo cuuute!!
Isn't that great when a true love is based on a real friendship among partners?
Feb 3, 5:30 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I'm going to say Clint Eastwood's , The "Good The Bad and The Ugly".

My first gf would be the "Ugly". Not because she was ugly, mind you. Just not as pretty and attractive as The Bad and The Good. She had nice ...
What a nice story! I think you could write some exciting memoirs of your life. Yeah, and it's wonderful that you found your Real Angel finally.
Feb 3, 8:21 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Lvstoplay, how about your own story?
Feb 3, 8:22 am
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
This messed with my mind. I mean totally messed with my mind.

I tried thinking up movies of where the couple live two completely seperate lives, with two sets of friends and two lifestyles.

1) The normal down to earth couple who goes to work and does the shopping and occasionally comes over for a BBQ.
2) The sexually open and explicit party animals that fuck like rabbits away from everyone that sees them normally.

So I figure that my life, with my wife, is a reverse "Mr & Mrs Smith" (2005).

We both lead dramatic lives away from each other that neither of us care to share or really know what each other does. We have two groups of work friends and friend friends that never clash or we even meet. Then when we come home we neither talk about work and just focus on the life we lead with each other.

And while brangelina in the movie make out that they are one happy 'normal' married family, me and my wife like to pull out the toys and go hard at it for hours at a time till we are spent and sore.

God if only our work colleagues knew a tenth of what we do when we go home.
Feb 5, 5:51 am
Mistress Stefana Mistress Stefana
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Love is… to win a contest and share the pleasure with your partner or have a well deserved amazing solo play!St. Valentine's is a meaningful day for those who love and those who are loved, even if you love affair is currently with yourself . ...
My love story is similar to Forest Gump minus a few scenes.

I was the bad girl in school. I was daring and mouthy, the life of the party the girl the guys wanted and girls wanted to be like. I had tons of friends and tons of boyfriends. I always found it easy to say how I felt. There was one thing I could not stand and that was bullies.

One day in 10th grade a boy named Samuel was getting picked on. Samuel was reserved and rarely spoke when he did he had a heavy accent as he was Hispanic and had not yet perfected English. He had a large family and his parents could not dress him in the nicer clothes. This day we were in class and a boy had been making remarks to Samuel about the way he spoke and was now throwing paper at him. I finally had enough and turned right in the middle of the teacher speaking to his bully and said one more throw one more I dare you I will take that paper and shove it...Needless to say I was the one kicked out of class.

The next day Samuel approached me humbly thanking me for sticking up for him. Despite his clothes and shyness I saw his dear eyes and dark hair, tall and handsome he was to me. From that day on we started our puppy love. I was still wild though going to parties Samuel always invited never went. We never broke up we just grew apart well really I was just moving so fast. We stayed friends until Samuel's family moved out of state. I always felt like I had him to fall back on but now he was leaving. I was there when he left but quickly moved on with my life.

I to moved away from my home town. I found myself broke and in a place I knew no one I started dancing. Dancing quickly led to drinking and more partying. Although Samuel was gone he always found me I changed my number he would still call me he would find me on social media not a birthday not a holiday went by that Samuel did not send me flowers, poems and messages.

One day Samuel calls and says he is coming to visit. I can't wait to see him and when he arrives we get a hotel. It was just like I felt in school but this time both adults we explore each other like never before. I could tell he was inexperienced but I showed him and it was amazing. 3 days later we never leave the room and he has to go home. He tells me that one day he will take care of me and again he is gone. Quickly after he leaves I fall back into the club scene, partying with my wild friends and I forget about Samuel.

Samuel though does not forget me 6 years go by and I do not see him. He never changed his phone number though through all the years. My girlfriends would tell me he only has the same number so you can find him. I never paid attention though. Sometimes I would not even know it was a holiday if Samuel had not sent me something or messaged me wishing me the best. I was consumed in my world. Finally, he calls and says he is coming to visit.

I meet him at the airport following him back to his room. As we enter thaw room he unpacks his suitcase and hands me a bag. I look inside every note I had ever wrote, lip gloss I left at his moms the day he moved, a flower I picked and gave him, pictures of me that were worn like he had carried it in his pocket, hair I let him cut when we were in 10th grade. I was in shock and to keep from being emotional I thought I would make a joke. I tell him what about your girlfriends they never told you to get rid of this stuff? He responded why would I have a girlfriend when I have been waiting for you? I could tell by the way he said it he meant it.

I needed my space I needed to figure out who I was. I needed to go through those bad boyfriends and bad situations. This only led me to see what was really good all along.

Though he may not be outspoken and still probably not "cool" he had put himself through medical school. He was Doctor Samuel and he did that for me. It was his plan all along. It was how he would take care of me.

To this day I do not know how he always found me. I certainly was not stable changing my number and moving alot but he did. Nothing I had been through and no one I had been with had changed his love for me.

Though it did not end tragically like Forest Gump and his Jenny. I will give you a hint how it ends. I am still on the wild side but my Forest is here right now in our bedroom asleep. Just like he was loyal and honest and humble with me he is the same way with our son.

I guess that's how the good boy gets the bad girl!
Feb 5, 8:23 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Mistress Stefana
My love story is similar to Forest Gump minus a few scenes.

I was the bad girl in school. I was daring and mouthy, the life of the party the girl the guys wanted and girls wanted to be like. I had tons of friends and tons of boyfriends. I ...
At first I said, "Good for You !" I've also stuck up for others being bullied or left out. Then I said , wait, what's going to happen. Then I said, wow, poor guy. Really has it bad for her.

Then

Thanks for sharing. Simply wonderful


btw, I bet you I could kick FG in table tennis anyday... or have fun trying
Feb 6, 7:15 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
So many decent stories!!

TheToyGuy, it seems that you've found your soulmate And your relationship can hardly be called a boring one

Mistress Stefana, your story is sooo sweeeet and so similar to my own love story.

I'll name the winner and disclose the prize (as we're all wondering what's there in the kit, right??) this Thursday, February, 9 Maybe there are some other guys who'd like to tell their Love Stories??
Feb 7, 2:04 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
So many decent stories!!

TheToyGuy, it seems that you've found your soulmate And your relationship can hardly be called a boring one

Mistress Stefana, your story is sooo sweeeet and so similar to my own love story. ...
With so many sharing fabulous experiences I hope there will be multiple winners and prizes
Feb 7, 2:10 pm
PolyLove PolyLove
If I had to compare my love life with a movie, it would be Cinderella. Not because my life is perfect or because I'm crazy (I am, but that's beside the point). I would compare my love life to the movie Cinderella because I grew up in a very mentally and emotionally abusive home.

At age 9 I was the main caretaker for my 4 brothers, my self-proclaimed disabled mother, and my 'can't hold a job' daddy. I cooked and cleaned as well as kept my grades up in school. By 12 my father had given up on work and I was supporting the family.

At age 17 I met and began dating PolyHubby. We were engaged within 2 months and madly in love. We devised to have me moved out of my parent's house on my 18th birthday. Three days before Christmas.

Somehow my mother found out and wound up getting us an apartment. Of course, this was a narcissistic, controlling move and not one out of love.

She figured that it would be too hard for us out on our own, put too much strain on us and that it would drive us apart. She hoped that I would go running home. On our wedding day, she ran a bet with all our friends and family about how long we would last.

(Side note: the longest bet was placed by my grandmother. She said 2 years. We will celebrate 7 this June.)

To this day she hates my husband, although she won't admit it, and she accuses him of 'stealing Cinderella.' We have had our ups and downs and our relationship is nowhere near 'happily ever after,' but I cannot imagine a better Prince Charming and I cannot imagine life without him.
Feb 7, 2:47 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by PolyLove
If I had to compare my love life with a movie, it would be Cinderella. Not because my life is perfect or because I'm crazy (I am, but that's beside the point). I would compare my love life to the movie Cinderella because I grew up in a very ...
How about your younger brothers you took care of? Did they support you?

And as in any fairy-tale, there should be a happy end and I wish your family will finally accept your husband and your happy marriage.
Feb 8, 9:02 am
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