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Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
lingerie of her choice for her 18th birthday?

My other sibling is finally turning 18. She knows about my collection and she's kept quiet over the years. She's probably the only one who hasn't bitched at me about it or anything. She's also secretly admitted that she really wants lingerie for herself to use with her boyfriend.

I know she's having sex, and I've supplied her with condoms so she has been safe. To say the least I've been a good big sister. Here's the issue.

1. Is it appropriate? Yes, she's an adult, but she's still my little sissy.

2. Would YOU do it? I'm being asked because she doesn't have a checking account of her own now.

3. What types of lingerie is acceptable, and what... well what would you never buy. For example: "I would buy her a corset, but NEVER a shelf bra and a thong."

4. What are the rest of your thoughts?
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Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
You know what, if she's 18 and feels comfortable enough to ask you to help her buy some lingerie I say yeah! Help the girl out
You sound like you've been a positive influence on her and she more than likely isn't going to stop having sex now that she's 18. The fact that she has you to turn to, and feels comfortable asking you for help means you get to stay involved in her life and continue to make sure she does the right things and keeps herself safe. And I always get my girlfriends advice on lingerie. My Mom and I even shop for it together.
It would have been killer to have a big sister like you
09/22/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
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Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
You know what, if she's 18 and feels comfortable enough to ask you to help her buy some lingerie I say yeah! Help the girl out
You sound like you've been a positive influence on her and she more than likely isn't going to stop having ... more
Agreed.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
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Originally posted by ToyGurl
lingerie of her choice for her 18th birthday?

My other sibling is finally turning 18. She knows about my collection and she's kept quiet over the years. She's probably the only one who hasn't bitched at me about it or anything. ... more
Yes absolutely I would. My sister is a couple years younger than me (she's 22 this year though) and if when she was 18 she wanted lingerie, I would have gotten it for her. I wouldn't care which she wanted. If she wanted a full leather body suit, or ass-less chaps, I might giggle a bit but I'd still get them for her.
09/22/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I didn't do it for her 18th birthday, but I would and have gotten my little sister lingerie. For me, I knew she was having sex and that she was wanting something that she could feel sexy while wearing whether that was on her own or with her boyfriend, so I didn't limit it. Her birthday was a few weeks ago and I told her to send me a list of everything she may want from here because I had points so it was ok to get her extra stuff from here (she's always worried about people spending money on her). If she wanted a corset or a shelf bra and thong set, if that's what my sister wanted and would feel comfortable, confident, and sexy in, then that's what I would get her.
09/22/2011
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
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Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
You know what, if she's 18 and feels comfortable enough to ask you to help her buy some lingerie I say yeah! Help the girl out
You sound like you've been a positive influence on her and she more than likely isn't going to stop having ... more
Absolutely.

And to add to this, I would say get her whatever she picks out, but maybe try to guide her into a classy direction. If she had her own checking account, that's exactly what she would be able to do anyway (pick out her own lingerie.)
09/22/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Get it for her. For my step daughter's 18th b-day I made her and Eden goodie bag, she was excited. I felt close enough to her to do this. She opened up to me about things she did not even tell her father. About "experimentation" She was so excited she told me she could not wait for X-mas. So she is getting the same thing, one cute goodie bag. I would say give her gift card and let her pick. Or just let her pick it out. But if you give her gift card you would not even have to know what it was.
09/22/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
i'd probably get my younger sister something. i've never been overly protective of her or anything. i don't view her as my little sister where i feel the need to be a good role model. this is probably b/c she & i are only about a yr & 1/2 apart. i would buy her lingerie, but i would harass her the whole time. not in a mean way, just in a make fun sibling kind of way. she would do the same to me.
09/22/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
I agreed to get her some, I just feel so weird! It's like just yesterday she was a little kid. I feel so bad for my own children! I'll never let them grow up!
09/23/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Yeah. If we had the kind of relationship where that wouldn't be awkward, totally. That would be a bad ass 18 year old present. Think about it. They would end up getting something so much better than what they would choose for themselves. i.e. price and style advise and practicality considerations from someone who has more experience!
09/23/2011
Contributor: JRabbits JRabbits
Well I'm actually the baby sister in my bunch of siblings, but I still think you should do it. But make sure it's something you're both cofortable with. You being comfortable with getting it for her and her being comfortable with receiving it from you. I don't think if my sister gave me a pair of crotchless panties that I'd be very comfortable, I don't know why seeing as I gave her sex toys but something about receiving crotchless panties from her would just make me blush. . . or think she's calling me loose in a subtle way.

I think something sexy but simple would be great for an 18th birthday. Nothing flashy or suggestive.
09/23/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I wouldn't have a problem at all getting an 18yr sister some lingerie. It's nice that she can talk and share her desire for it with you.
09/23/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I don't have a baby sister, but I would totally get my hypothetical sister any sexual whatevers she wanted on her 18th birthday. That being said, I would get my REAL big brother sex stuff if he asked, but I doubt that will ever happen.
09/23/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
I personally would probably get her a giftcard and point her at the site, just because picking lingerie is such a personal thing. Sizing, what someone would be comfortable in, what they feel they'd look good in, etc.
09/23/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
Too, I don't have a baby sister but hypothetically speaking (in a world where we got on and were very open about these things) I'd have no problem getting something for her. Not much, just a little starter kit of lacy lingerie.

But for my actual sisters, no.
09/24/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
She's an adult, and if she tells exactly what she wants & the proper size, then sure I would.
09/24/2011
Contributor: kadytheredpanda kadytheredpanda
My sister already thinks I'm a freak, so unless she begged for like a baby doll or something, I would never do it. Since I've never been too close to her I would still feel awkward either way, though. XD
09/29/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by ToyGurl
lingerie of her choice for her 18th birthday?

My other sibling is finally turning 18. She knows about my collection and she's kept quiet over the years. She's probably the only one who hasn't bitched at me about it or anything. ... more
What a great influence you are being by helping her out with birth control. THANK YOU for being responsible. =] seriously, no one i know would do that but me but when my sister was like that i had no idea she was with anyone like that so i didnt bother but i also didnt have sex until i met my now husband at almost 21 yrs old.

1. It's appropriate I suppose in the sense that she's about to be a "legal" adult to where she can buy certain things that 17 and under cant = cigarettes, tobacco, adult shops etc. But I am not sure I would highly encourage it as she's still only 18.

2. I personally probably would because my sister is nice and always kept quiet about sneaking out and such with female friends I use to hangout with as teenager. She has good taste in lingerie too lol

3. I WOULD buy this for her - link because it's VERY cute and sensual but also not screaming I want you. or this one I would buy because I've personally always wanted it. link

I would NOT buy the following for an 18 yr old sibling:
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10/07/2011
Contributor: emilia emilia
I buy it for her but I will not ever again pick what she wears
10/10/2011