Imagination and reality!

I guess I'll share.

I've been married for a little over a year to a man I'm madly in love with. We had only been together about 10 months before we got married, but it's been going extremely well. He's the only man I've ever been with (my first boyfriend, only man I've ever had sex with). And believe it or not, I was his first girlfriend and the only woman he's ever been with. We don't have any kids, though we want a couple in the next few years. We moved when we got married, so all my family is a while away from me.

I don't really have a career or exciting job at the moment. Just a cashier. But hey, it's easy money. I'm usually a quiet person, very shy, and a bit nervous sometimes (or a lot of the time). And of course, I love sex. Becoming a reviewer here has definitely helped us explore our sexualities together.

I love video games. I started playing Nintendo when I was about 5 years old, and I've loved games ever since. Oh, and I have Mario Kart for the Wii. I don't play it much, but I do sometimes. I freaking love the XBox 360. Woohoo achievements! Hehe. I don't have any friends where I live, so my video games are good for passing time. And they're awesome. less

I'm a 20-year-old university student majoring in literature, with minors in Asian studies and political science. I want to be a professor more than anything in the world, but I'm worried that I won't have enough money or I won't be good enough...right now I'm taking 6 classes and have a part-time job, and I want to keel over and DIE right now.

I'm allergic to monogamy! LOL.

People who imagined me as a sex-positive "hippy chick" aren't too far off. If you need a face:
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I love photography, make-up, books, food, Bollywood, cultural studies, and RuPaul. I am a devout Christian (no, really!) who voted for Obama and is PISSED about the gay marriage bans. I think Twilight is a godawful book series and all of the advertisements for it make me want to yack. My favorite color is orange, followed closely by black. I have very sparse eyebrows and gigantic teeth. Rats and cats are the best pets. less

Damned cute! My daughter loves the Twilight books. I haven't read them. I'm pissed at the gay marriage bans as well. I live in CA.

Not trying to annoy or offend you you, but how can you be old enough to be allergic to monogamy? Most people your age say that they are allergic to getting married! less

I feel like this is a bit of a strange time to do this, but my mind needs a break.

I'm 22 and I've been engaged to my partner for coming up on four years now, and we've been best friends for 6 years. wedding is planned for next october. I'm a college student majoring in creative writing and I'll be graduating in about a month: which is terrifying. Eventually, I'd like to get a degree in human sexuality and write books and give educational lectures on healthy, fun, safe sex and in particular BDSM.
I am a Domme who enjoys her very uppity sub (what the fun in punishing them if they aren't such brats that they don't deserve it?) and we enjoy a very wide range of scenes from traditional punishment scenes to much more subtle power play.
We're a very gender-fucked couple with both of us born female and neither of us identifying as particularly male or female. our sexual identities are very fluid to allow for either or both of us to range on any end of the gender spectrum at any given time.
We're also pretty kinked for medical play. maybe i have a stethoscope and a lab coat. you don't know.

we both love to read and write. its a huge part of our lives. we're both very into studying postmodern philosophy and my partner hopes to be a writing/lit/philosophy professor. some of our favorite authors would be foucault, danielewski, derrida, edward abbey, don delillo, junot diaz, sherman alexii, pynchon, and mary gaitskill. when i'm in the mood to read pop fiction, the kushiel series by j. carey is an amazing portrayal of BDSM in a fantasy setting and extremely well written.

the chick in the mask on my icon is me, but from a long time ago. I'm a pantheonist- meaning i acknowledge and honor all gods and in my own way i am very religous.
one thing that most people i chat with on the internet don't know is that often a pretty big part of my life is informed by my having hypermobility disorder, often called hypermobile type ehlers-danlos syndrome which is a ligament condition i was born with that leaves me with very unstable joints to the point where on a daily to weekly basis i dislocate several joints in my body. it also leave me extremely flexible so i guess there is an upside. it's a daily part of my life and i have my ups and downs and i'm very grateful that i am in better shape now (i'm walking around like nothing is wrong , as this time last year i was confined to a wheelchair. But i try not to make a big deal of it and just take things day by day. still, i'm pretty much a sex maniac. ^_^ who is almost always in the mood.

on a more serious note.
currently, i'm not actually in the mood at all, and i won't be on here much for a bit as we've had a death in the family and i'm away from my place to be with my partner's family. so sorry to bring the fun part of this down at the end, but that's sort of where my head is at the moment.
it is really great though to hear about everyone else less

@JimboJones You almost sound like my sister in law with the four children! That's going to keep you busy, but at least they are young enough to go to sleep earlier than mine! (I love your posts too, and I'm thinking... You make great points sometimes.)

@Saurou Wow. Thanks so much for sharing so much of you. I feel like I know you. I'm sorry to hear about the death in your family. Hugs.

@LikeSunshineDust Welcome to Eden. Hope you find a way at some point to work with the animals you love.

@SleepingDreamer Do you know of any good mashup software that would work for my daughter for Christmas? Sex and babies go hand in hand. Good luck, and hugs! less