First off, please forgive me if I use a term improperly, I'm honestly not up to date with all the terms that are used to identify ones sexuality.

So this is a full disclosure statement, but I'd really like your opinion!

I'm a straight male who has always considered himself to be 100% heterosexual. I'm in no way attracted to men, never have been and I don't think I ever will be. Two things have occurred with me in the last two years that from time to time have me curious with myself. First off, my wife and I discussed having a threesome with another male. This did not happen, furthermore, we decided that the idea of a threesome is better left for fantasy. However, in our discussion my wife asked me what I was willing to do. I answered that I was willing to do whatever she wanted me to do. She then asked if I'd suck cock for her if she wanted to see it. After a moment of thought, I answered yes and I meant it. Now I'd never do it on my own, nor do I want to, but I'd do it for my wife if she asked me to.

Secondly, in the last two years I've started having fantasies about being with a shemale. As I said, I have no attraction for men, yet I'm highly attracted to the idea of having sex with a shemale, and in all honesty, if given the opportunity and approval from my wife, I know I'd do it in a heartbeat.

With all that said, I'm only familiar with four sexuality terms...straight, bisexual, gay and lesbian, yet I've learned from this website that there are many more terms used to identify someone and their sexuality.

My question...In your opinion, what label or term would you use to identify my sexuality?

Am I still straight, but with kinky fantasies and am willing to please my wife or am I something else?

And just curious...is there anyone else like me who would suck cock for their wife & has shemale fantasies, yet considers themselves to be straight?

Thank you so much if you decide to read this novel and give me your opinion. less

Honestly, it sounds to me like you are turned on by the idea of pleasing your wife, doing what she says turns her on and nothing more. I really think this is normal! I can actually relate in a minor-ish way. You said you actually didn't have a gay bone in your body (pretty much), but once your wife brought it up, you would gladly do it. She told you it'd turn her on, or you got the impression this would be hot to her, right?

There ya go. It's the fact that the act is a sexual turn on for the woman you love and therefore, now that you know this, the thought of it could very well even turn you on! Okay, I'm no Dr. Phil, but this is really what I think is happening.

Labels? Terms? Words. Just words. Just simply have your likes and dislikes and don't worry about identifying with some label. less

Honestly, it sounds to me like you are turned on by the idea of pleasing your wife, doing what she says turns her on and nothing more. I really think this is normal! I can actually relate in a minor-ish way. You said you actually didn't have a gay bone in your body (pretty much), but once your wife brought it up, you would gladly do it. She told you it'd turn her on, or you got the impression this would be hot to her, right?

There ya go. It's the fact that the act is a sexual turn on for the woman you love and therefore, now that you know this, the thought of it could very well even turn you on! Okay, I'm no Dr. Phil, but this is really what I think is happening.

Labels? Terms? Words. Just words. Just simply have your likes and dislikes and don't worry about identifying with some label. less