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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
You're out of town on business and are staying at an old hotel that is rumored to be haunted. While asleep at night a ghost enters your room, strips you naked and proceeds to have sex with you. You awaken to the feeling of sexual pleasure that continues to increase, and you make no effort to stop the ghost because you are enjoying the sex. When the experience is over, you are in sexual bliss and before falling back to sleep from exhaustion, you see the ghost float away.

My question...

If you are married or are in a relationship, did you just cheat on your partner?
04/04/2013
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Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Hmmmmm... Well... No cuz' even if it was another person they weren't alive and therefore pose no competition right?
04/04/2013
Contributor: Pudyqat Pudyqat
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Originally posted by GONE!
Hmmmmm... Well... No cuz' even if it was another person they weren't alive and therefore pose no competition right?
I would say not!
04/04/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
Love you for asking that funny question.

But according to my atheist belief system I would consider this encounter as an experience of sleep paralysis or hypnagogia. So it would be no cheating.

But if I had a more spiritual or spiritistic belief system maybe I would consider it cheating, because there is a person / personality involved.

But what about a scary threesome with two living and one dead? Or vice-versa?
04/04/2013
Contributor: eri86 eri86
Uh... I call that rape by ghost
04/04/2013
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
Nope, free pass for ghosts!
04/04/2013
Contributor: sunflower sunflower
I mean the ghost doesn't have a physical body so it's kind of masturbation..... right?
04/04/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Sorry, the ability to suspend disbelief is not possible here. Ghosts cannot touch, therefore there is no sex. I would deem it, at best, a hallucination and pop another sleeping pill.
04/04/2013
Contributor: mpfm mpfm
I would call it a dream...dreams aren't cheating.
04/04/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by mpfm
I would call it a dream...dreams aren't cheating.
When I was married, my spouse occasionally dreamed that I was cheating and was then angry with ME all day...
04/04/2013
Contributor: TJax TJax
That depends, is necrophilia cheating? Is masturbation cheating? Is rape cheating?

This scenario sounds somewhere in between all three. Even if you did enjoy the experience, you didn't intend for this to happen and got no say in it; that sounds like rape to me. You may argue that necrophilia is cheating, but that still makes it 2 no's and a yes.

The other possibility is that you had a bit of sleep paralysis and were actually raped, but thought it was a ghost. In which case, no rape isn't cheating.

Either way you should get a rape kit and get checked for any new diseases just in case!
04/04/2013
Contributor: bog bog
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Originally posted by Martiniman
You're out of town on business and are staying at an old hotel that is rumored to be haunted. While asleep at night a ghost enters your room, strips you naked and proceeds to have sex with you. You awaken to the feeling of sexual pleasure that ... more
Luckily, I'm in an open relationship, so I'm free to have sex with all the ghosts I want!

awesome question
04/04/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I'm inclined to think it's a dream.
04/04/2013
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
I had that happen with my boyfriend...It was magical. By that i should say "that's what it felt like" I get up much earlier then my boyfriend and one night at like 2 am he comes in and starts kissing over my neck and chest and we had "half asleep sex" and it was the best thing ever. It was like a ghost in the night.
04/04/2013
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
*thinks about her days as a paranormal investigator*

04/04/2013
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
I'm leaning towards no...first off, that darn rude ghost didn't even ask first, and second...well they're dead.
Besides, it's not like your partner could call the ghost up on the phone and have it out with them.
x'D

That said, if that sort of thing did happen, I'd probably feel really guilty for a while for enjoying it even after I told my boyfriend what happened.
04/04/2013
Contributor: Chelynn67 Chelynn67
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Originally posted by Martiniman
You're out of town on business and are staying at an old hotel that is rumored to be haunted. While asleep at night a ghost enters your room, strips you naked and proceeds to have sex with you. You awaken to the feeling of sexual pleasure that ... more
I guess that would depend on the individual and how they felt
04/06/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by RonLee
When I was married, my spouse occasionally dreamed that I was cheating and was then angry with ME all day...
I, myself, have done this. Dreams can be powerful and feel an awful lot like reality at times. It's hard to disconnect yourself from something you truly felt you had experienced.

As far as the original question goes, I don't believe in such things, BUT for the sake of the question, I don't believe it would be cheating.
04/06/2013