I don't know about you, but my family is a mix of chinese and vietnamese, so my whole family is like this, including my mom's friends.

Not really. I don't have pushy friends or family (anymore, not that I made it clear to them what I think of their suggestions). However, I guess I can be pushy with one of my friends who recently got involved with a guy who introduced her to drugs and shoplifting. I've mostly let it go, now.

I have had friends of friends of mine, who are often pushy like this. I tend to piss them off by bringing up statistics that show such views have no real basis, and that what works varies from person to person.
I have a few family members who try to tell me how to live my life and often it was them trying to talk me out of going to college (or continuing to go) until my son got older.

I can't think of anyone who's currently in my life who does this, but I recently joined a belly dancing tribe who act like family, so maybe once I get to know them all better they'll start bossing me around.

I have been pressuring my sister and her husband to have kids sooner than later, but it's been in an affectionate, half-joking, make me some nieces and nephews already dammit! kind of way. Not like I'm actually acting like I know better than them about what will make them happy or when the best timing is for them. But they just announced over Christmas that they will start trying for a baby after this Summer

I don't have any friends or family trying to push me into anything like that - thank goodness!

I used to have a friend who tried to boss me around, Yeah. I don't talk to her anymore.

I don't have any "friends" like that, because those who try to run my life very quickly become ex-friends, and those who are still my friends realized that very quickly.

I can't stand when family and friends try to tell me that I need to have children, especially in that "fun, joking" (Read: Condescending, manipulative) way that they can sometimes have. It's annoying, since they know my views. That's even worse that just being bossy and giving bad advice, because you call them on it and they respond with "relax, I was just joking." Gaslighting sucks.

A few of my lover's friends were like that until I made explicitly clear that our relationship was none of their business and if they didn't fall in line, they would get the sharp end of my wit and ire. (In other words, I talked circles around their "logic" and used shock-tactics to get them to shut up... It was mean, but no worse than what they were doing to me.)