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Are you a "here and now" person, or a "dreamer"?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Do you tend to "dream" about where you are going...what you can accomplish, or do you just "go with the flow, deal with the here and now" and get to wherever life takes you?
03/17/2013
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Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
I'm definitely a dreamer and lately have become motivated to make my dreams come true.
03/17/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
I plan and set goals. I also try to stay fully aware in the here and now no matter what I'm doing, including planning for the future (or remembering and learning from the past).

In the immortal words of Yogi Berra: "If you don't know where you're going, you might not get there."
03/17/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I'm pretty much both.
03/17/2013
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
I'd say I'm more of a dreamer, focusing on the "here and now" is very depressing given the current situation.
The only time I actually try thinking about the present is when I'm trying to figure out how to get out of it and on with the rest of my life, or when I need to come up with some logical way to achieve a goal of mine.
03/18/2013
Contributor: Ningyo Ningyo
Definitely a dreamer. Always have been.
03/19/2013
Contributor: Msmueller Msmueller
I'm a here and now person, I tend to put too much pressure on myself if I let my dreams get out of control
03/19/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Do you tend to "dream" about where you are going...what you can accomplish, or do you just "go with the flow, deal with the here and now" and get to wherever life takes you?
Here and now. Im a dream crusher ive realized
03/19/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Dreamer I think
03/19/2013
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
Dreamer. Not even a question. While I do set goals and plans to achieve things I want, my mind does constantly wander.
03/19/2013
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
I've always been a dreamer but I do work to make the things I fantasize about actually happen.
03/19/2013
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
Dreamer
03/19/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Typically here and now, though I definitely have a bit of dreamer in me
03/19/2013
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
Dreamer. 110%. I love to make these big, huge, romanticized plans. But my daddy taught me to be a realist. So I am pretty even!
03/19/2013