I'm a good listener, but I admit to being quite the talker, as well! Which do you consider yourself to be?
Are you a listener of a talker?
04/03/2013
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I can be both, or neither. It all depends on my mood and my disposition towards the other party!
Originally posted by
Wicked Wahine
I'm a good listener, but I admit to being quite the talker, as well! Which do you consider yourself to be?
04/03/2013
With ppl I don't know I listen, but among close friends I am such a talker!
04/03/2013
I'm more of a listener for sure.
04/03/2013
I'm definitely a listener. I'm always the quietest one in a group of people.
04/03/2013
I'm constantly working to improve my listening skills. I'm naturally more of a talker, but I realized a few years ago that you don't learn by talking, only by listening.
04/03/2013
It depends on who I'm with - but generally I'm a listener. I'm the one people call to vent to or lean on, generally. I actually have had to work on being more of a talker within the last few years - it's done me no good to keep my mouth shut all the time!
04/03/2013
I'm both! I am a good listener, but I could also talk for hours.
04/03/2013
Both, it depends on the other person/people and how into the conversation I am. Admittedly I have a bad habit of really pushing a topic change if I don't want to listen anymore. This is something I'm working on but old habits are hard to break.
04/03/2013
Listener. I'm fairly quiet and ridiculously shy.
Unless we're the best of friends
Unless we're the best of friends
04/03/2013
I'm definitely more of a listener.
04/03/2013
I listen. not much of a talker.
04/03/2013
I think it depends on who I'm with but I'd mostly consider myself a listener. If Im with someone who doesn't talk alot I'll be the talker.
04/04/2013
I like to think I'm both. I'm for sure a talker, but I listen well too.
04/04/2013
Considering i'm going into a counseling field, i find myself to be a very good listener - which i find takes being a very empathic person (and i find myself to be that type of person). Depending on who i'm with, however, i may not want to shut up when getting onto a topic i feel passionately about. I do my best to listen, think about the words and their meaning and how they relate to me, then respond.
04/04/2013
I am more of a listener. I don't talk much unless it is with my SO, mom, and a couple friends of mine.
04/04/2013
I think I'm a better listener.
04/04/2013
Both! I'm usually a quiet person and in general I'll be more of a listener.
But if you get me started talking about something I'm really passionate about, then good luck getting me to shut up.
But if you get me started talking about something I'm really passionate about, then good luck getting me to shut up.
04/04/2013
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a little bit of obth.
Originally posted by
Wicked Wahine
I'm a good listener, but I admit to being quite the talker, as well! Which do you consider yourself to be?
04/04/2013
Mostly a listener, but I tend to talk a decent amount with my close friends
04/05/2013
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Talker, I never shut the hell up according to my husband....
Originally posted by
Wicked Wahine
I'm a good listener, but I admit to being quite the talker, as well! Which do you consider yourself to be?
04/05/2013
I'm a much better listener than I am a talker.
04/06/2013
I'm better at listening than I am at talking.
04/06/2013
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I'm definitely a talker, but I'm trying to reform and channel my energy into other things so I can be a better listener
Originally posted by
Wicked Wahine
I'm a good listener, but I admit to being quite the talker, as well! Which do you consider yourself to be?
04/06/2013
I've always been a very good listener. A lot of people like to use me as a free shrink replacement. Unfortunately, most of them are not willing to listen to my problems.
04/06/2013
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That's the same problem I've always had, counseling everyone & then, the rare time I need to talk about me, they rebuff me - no time, can't relate, or have nothing to say. That is my clue to stop being accessible to them and reassess the relationship!
Originally posted by
SourAppleMartini
I've always been a very good listener. A lot of people like to use me as a free shrink replacement. Unfortunately, most of them are not willing to listen to my problems.
There are others I have found, who reciprocate & these are my true friends! I even met some of them on this site & they, knowing little about me & for a short time, have shown more reciprocity than some of the "so called friends" I was always counseling!
I'll listen to your problems! Seriously, PM me if you want!
04/07/2013
i can be a good listener when i need to be, but i am much more of a talker.
04/07/2013
Definitely a listener. I have to be because of my line of work, also.
04/07/2013
My wife tells me I talk a lot for a man.
04/07/2013
I'm definitely more of a listener. Thankfully my SO is more of a talker.
04/07/2013
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