Are you a listener of a talker?

Are you a listener of a talker?

Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I'm a good listener, but I admit to being quite the talker, as well! Which do you consider yourself to be?
04/03/2013
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MrWill MrWill
Quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I'm a good listener, but I admit to being quite the talker, as well! Which do you consider yourself to be?
I can be both, or neither. It all depends on my mood and my disposition towards the other party!
04/03/2013
rosythorn rosythorn
With ppl I don't know I listen, but among close friends I am such a talker!
04/03/2013
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I'm more of a listener for sure.
04/03/2013
Qozt Qozt
I'm definitely a listener. I'm always the quietest one in a group of people.
04/03/2013
spiced spiced
I'm constantly working to improve my listening skills. I'm naturally more of a talker, but I realized a few years ago that you don't learn by talking, only by listening.
04/03/2013
Munko Munko
It depends on who I'm with - but generally I'm a listener. I'm the one people call to vent to or lean on, generally. I actually have had to work on being more of a talker within the last few years - it's done me no good to keep my mouth shut all the time!
04/03/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I'm both! I am a good listener, but I could also talk for hours.
04/03/2013
Lioncub Lioncub
Both, it depends on the other person/people and how into the conversation I am. Admittedly I have a bad habit of really pushing a topic change if I don't want to listen anymore. This is something I'm working on but old habits are hard to break.
04/03/2013
jackie.jfky jackie.jfky
Listener. I'm fairly quiet and ridiculously shy.
Unless we're the best of friends
04/03/2013
Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
I'm definitely more of a listener.
04/03/2013
married with children married with children
I listen. not much of a talker.
04/03/2013
SeductivelyCute SeductivelyCute
I think it depends on who I'm with but I'd mostly consider myself a listener. If Im with someone who doesn't talk alot I'll be the talker.
04/04/2013
Martiniman Martiniman
I like to think I'm both. I'm for sure a talker, but I listen well too.
04/04/2013
bratcat bratcat
Considering i'm going into a counseling field, i find myself to be a very good listener - which i find takes being a very empathic person (and i find myself to be that type of person). Depending on who i'm with, however, i may not want to shut up when getting onto a topic i feel passionately about. I do my best to listen, think about the words and their meaning and how they relate to me, then respond.
04/04/2013
Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
I am more of a listener. I don't talk much unless it is with my SO, mom, and a couple friends of mine.
04/04/2013
GONE! GONE!
I think I'm a better listener.
04/04/2013
The Vixen The Vixen
Both! I'm usually a quiet person and in general I'll be more of a listener.
But if you get me started talking about something I'm really passionate about, then good luck getting me to shut up.
04/04/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I'm a good listener, but I admit to being quite the talker, as well! Which do you consider yourself to be?
a little bit of obth.
04/04/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Mostly a listener, but I tend to talk a decent amount with my close friends
04/05/2013
Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I'm a good listener, but I admit to being quite the talker, as well! Which do you consider yourself to be?
Talker, I never shut the hell up according to my husband....
04/05/2013
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I'm a much better listener than I am a talker.
04/06/2013
Living Doll Living Doll
I'm better at listening than I am at talking.
04/06/2013
bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I'm a good listener, but I admit to being quite the talker, as well! Which do you consider yourself to be?
I'm definitely a talker, but I'm trying to reform and channel my energy into other things so I can be a better listener
04/06/2013
SourAppleMartini SourAppleMartini
I've always been a very good listener. A lot of people like to use me as a free shrink replacement. Unfortunately, most of them are not willing to listen to my problems.
04/06/2013
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by SourAppleMartini
I've always been a very good listener. A lot of people like to use me as a free shrink replacement. Unfortunately, most of them are not willing to listen to my problems.
That's the same problem I've always had, counseling everyone & then, the rare time I need to talk about me, they rebuff me - no time, can't relate, or have nothing to say. That is my clue to stop being accessible to them and reassess the relationship!

There are others I have found, who reciprocate & these are my true friends! I even met some of them on this site & they, knowing little about me & for a short time, have shown more reciprocity than some of the "so called friends" I was always counseling!

I'll listen to your problems! Seriously, PM me if you want!
04/07/2013
Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
i can be a good listener when i need to be, but i am much more of a talker.
04/07/2013
Pumpk1nPatch Pumpk1nPatch
Definitely a listener. I have to be because of my line of work, also.
04/07/2013
Bme Bme
My wife tells me I talk a lot for a man.
04/07/2013
SMichelle SMichelle
I'm definitely more of a listener. Thankfully my SO is more of a talker.
04/07/2013
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