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Originally posted by
BlooJay
Are you with a jealous person?
Everybody has moments where they feel a little insecure and that's normal, but jealousy is different. Mine is thankfully not jealous and it would be very hard to be with someone who was jealous. I can handle insecure moments and all that, gladly, but I don't think I'd know much of how to help someone who was very jealous. It can cause problems and I'd try to be understanding and help get to the root of the problem, maybe help them feel better about themselves, but I'm very grateful that my partner isn't. Some people aren't insecure really, but having a loved one purposefully try to make you jealous can even get to you and turn you into a different person. I prefer not having to go through that stuff at all and I'd never want my partner to be jealous. Of course if another man talked disrespectully to me, he'd absolutely say something! I like that, that's what my partner should do in such a situation, but just plain jealously from someone who won't work on the problems would drive me away quick!