This is describing women, men, and other but my descriptions are going to sound "feminine" because it's more fun that way. Lol. But feel free to answer for any gender.
Which body type(s) are you most attracted to?
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Which body type(s) are you most attracted to?
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When it comes to finding people sexually-attractive, which body type(s) do you pay attention to most? (Private voting, just in case)
03/22/2012
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I like women in the medium to big range, though it's not like I won't be attracted to a women if she's skinny (so long as she's not TOO skinny and has some meat on her and I can't see bones). As for men, I don't like them. Lol. At least, overall. I love my boyfriend and he is a very fluffy man and I'm extremely attracted to him.
03/22/2012
I like women that are thin to medium sized. I prefer medium sized because they usually have better curves. Love curves!
For men, I tend to go medium sized. A guy that wears a smaller pant size than me (which I did date once) is disturbing to me. A little bit of a pot belly on a guy is endearing. I don't like muscular guys at all.
For men, I tend to go medium sized. A guy that wears a smaller pant size than me (which I did date once) is disturbing to me. A little bit of a pot belly on a guy is endearing. I don't like muscular guys at all.
03/22/2012
From skinny to average, max. a little extra shape.
03/22/2012
Usually skinny/lean mostly, then average, then anything else. Though even if they are my 'perfect' body type if they don't have the personality or mind I’m interested in then I wouldn't even look twice. I'm looking for a mental connection, the body is just a bonus.
03/22/2012
tiny to medium
03/22/2012
Its the eyes that get me everytime.
03/22/2012
I have to admit that I am extremely attracted to the petite gals.
03/22/2012
I'm really open to just about anyone.
03/22/2012
Apparently I'm only the big girl lover so far! How sad! Well, most of you will be disappointed then since the average women is, like, a size 16. Lol.
03/23/2012
My wife is voluptuous - 32G/H. If you're going to carry those around - you need the hips to go with it. Was that was what I was looking for - no. I was attracted to her persona - the figure was just a nice up-sell!
03/23/2012
As far as females go, I'm attracted to those about my size, like 14-18 (I'm a size 16 mostly in women's clothing. I wear 40/42 in men's pants), but with plenty of butt and thigh meat . I can be attracted to smaller and larger females though. It just depends.
I'm all over the place with guys. I'm really into this guy that's like 3 inches shorter than me and a lot smaller than me. I'm also into tall guys with some pudge. Again, it depends on the guy.
Really, the body doesn't grab me as much as other factors. Smile, eyes, and voice are the three things that get me, for the most part. I'm also a sucker for red hair.
I'm all over the place with guys. I'm really into this guy that's like 3 inches shorter than me and a lot smaller than me. I'm also into tall guys with some pudge. Again, it depends on the guy.
Really, the body doesn't grab me as much as other factors. Smile, eyes, and voice are the three things that get me, for the most part. I'm also a sucker for red hair.
03/23/2012
Dont really like small girls.
03/23/2012
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I'm not fussy.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
When it comes to finding people sexually-attractive, which body type(s) do you pay attention to most? (Private voting, just in case)
03/23/2012
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im a chubby chaser lol
Originally posted by
Nazaress
When it comes to finding people sexually-attractive, which body type(s) do you pay attention to most? (Private voting, just in case)
03/23/2012
I tend to prefer my women slightly more slender than I am to a bit above my size. I'm a size 13/14, and my type seems to be around size 10-16. I like boobs and hips, damnit!
With guys, I tend to like them taller than me, and with muscle.
With guys, I tend to like them taller than me, and with muscle.
03/23/2012
I'm attracted to people all across the board. I see weight and body type, but I'm more attracted to a person's intelligence. After I get a taste of their character then I start to find their body attractive.
When it's a photo or a person I don't talk to, I'm still attracted to a variety of body types. I'm really partial to muscle on a woman, though.
When it's a photo or a person I don't talk to, I'm still attracted to a variety of body types. I'm really partial to muscle on a woman, though.
03/23/2012
I like curves. By which I don't mean large, but curves where curves are supposed to be. I love the curve of a waist into hips and thighs. That line is the sexiest thing in the world to me. Girls with stick straight bodies don't do much for me.
03/23/2012
Skinny to average.
03/23/2012
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I don't ever pay attention to any body of the opposite sex besides my partner, ever! Not even a little. However, I think I tend to be more attracted to medium sized body types because most of my past partners were medium except one! All of the men I dated seriously were medium sized except for one and my partner is about a medium size. Strange how it happens like that. His masculinity is attractive to me.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
When it comes to finding people sexually-attractive, which body type(s) do you pay attention to most? (Private voting, just in case)
03/23/2012
Body type doesn't matter to me at all unless the person is so thin they're sick or really overly muscular (think bodybuilders, male or female).
I hate the way people look when they're too muscled up.
I hate the way people look when they're too muscled up.
03/23/2012
I don't really have a preference. All kinds have their charms.
03/23/2012
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Curves are always better to me than straight thin. I like average sized, a little meat as my fiance says lol. I've dated thin girls, heaver girls and thin...it isn't the major thing that determines the attractiveness of a girl.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
When it comes to finding people sexually-attractive, which body type(s) do you pay attention to most? (Private voting, just in case)
03/23/2012
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Medium I suppose. I don't and won't date a guy that is slender/bony. I like a man with meat on his bones, average body type/build. Some muscle but not ripped, those big bulging muscles don't appeal to me. My guy looks good, has a little belly but isn't fat. I love his back, shoulders and arms.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
When it comes to finding people sexually-attractive, which body type(s) do you pay attention to most? (Private voting, just in case)
I dated a guy that was a little hefty but was turned off by him without a shirt because though this is gonna sound mean but he had "man boobs" and just reminded me of myself when I first starting getting boobs...
03/23/2012
I like a medium female.
03/23/2012
I checked tiny through voluptuous. I'm attracted to a huge range of women.
I date dudes way less often than I date women, but when I do, they're usually scrawny little things, usually pretty effeminate.
I date dudes way less often than I date women, but when I do, they're usually scrawny little things, usually pretty effeminate.
03/23/2012
I like men that are small-medium, lean muscle. My husband is a black belt in martial arts so he fits that bill, and my best friend is a Marine in the USMC so he fits that bill too. My husband is the same height as me, and my best friend is several inches taller.
I think all women are beautiful.
I think all women are beautiful.
03/23/2012
As far as I'm concerned there hasn't been a body type that I've found particularly more attractive than another. My partner would be in the big and beautiful range, but I've definitely had plenty of love for women all over the spectrum.
03/23/2012
For men: I seem to like tall, lanky, but with a stomach.
For women: I like them all! I prefer thicker, full breast, hips, and a butt, but I also like thinner girls too. I tend to be more attracted to those who are similar to me. I am not big or small, but I sure am beautiful! LOL
For women: I like them all! I prefer thicker, full breast, hips, and a butt, but I also like thinner girls too. I tend to be more attracted to those who are similar to me. I am not big or small, but I sure am beautiful! LOL
03/23/2012
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Not at all! To each their own. Beauty is entirely subjective and not finding someone PERSONALLY attractive (but realizing that everyone is beautiful) is completely fine. For example, I'm not attracted to muscle. AT ALL. If a guy has visible muscle, to me, that is not attractive. I DO like when they have hidden muscles, sometimes. Like, when my boyfriend flexes, you can see his arm muscles (which aren't at all huge) but otherwise, he's not muscle-y. But I digress! Man-boobs aren't attractive to you but to me, they are. At least on my boyfriend they are because I'm not attracted to men generally-speaking. But when my boyfriend takes HIS shirt off? Mmm mmm. That's even better than when he's clothed. I like being able to squeeze him all over. I LIKE his fluffiness. Lol. So, yeah. It's all subjective and that's totally fine!
Originally posted by
Zombirella
Medium I suppose. I don't and won't date a guy that is slender/bony. I like a man with meat on his bones, average body type/build. Some muscle but not ripped, those big bulging muscles don't appeal to me. My guy looks good, has a little
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Medium I suppose. I don't and won't date a guy that is slender/bony. I like a man with meat on his bones, average body type/build. Some muscle but not ripped, those big bulging muscles don't appeal to me. My guy looks good, has a little belly but isn't fat. I love his back, shoulders and arms.
I dated a guy that was a little hefty but was turned off by him without a shirt because though this is gonna sound mean but he had "man boobs" and just reminded me of myself when I first starting getting boobs... less
I dated a guy that was a little hefty but was turned off by him without a shirt because though this is gonna sound mean but he had "man boobs" and just reminded me of myself when I first starting getting boobs... less
03/23/2012
My husband is average sized, but has tiny legs. It's so cute!
03/23/2012
My husband is tall (6'5") and is rock solid and muscular everywhere except his belly. I love it! He's perfect for me.
I usually go for tall and average, I guess? I find muscles and strength attractive, but it's not a requirement... tall is, however.
I usually go for tall and average, I guess? I find muscles and strength attractive, but it's not a requirement... tall is, however.
03/23/2012
I like guys with a swimmer's physique.
03/23/2012
Honestly it can be almost anything to start as long as I don't have to worry about them physically dying on me, but overall given time I'd like them to be at least as healthy as I am.
For women I love seeing curves, but and skinny and cute is nice too as long as there's no attitude behind it.
For women I love seeing curves, but and skinny and cute is nice too as long as there's no attitude behind it.
03/23/2012
I love my wife's voluptuous figure. I don't see the point in being attracted to these models who are stick-thin and would look like a 10 year old boy if they got a short hair cut and wore a ball cap. Thankfully, most women don't starve themselves into the "classic" model look.
03/23/2012
I like your descriptions.
03/23/2012
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Lol. Thanks! I wish I could have thought of descriptions for very small and very big women but I wouldn't so that was the best I could do.
Originally posted by
Kissy
I like your descriptions.
03/23/2012
Medium. I don't care for men smaller than me, I feel like I'd break them. And not too big. I like shoulders and backs on guys. But yeah.
03/23/2012
I voted I do not care because looks and body type only take a person so far. Its about how they treat me.
03/23/2012
Pretty much between the not too skinny and not too large, as long as the person looks aesthetic...
03/23/2012
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I prefer my wife a lil plump
Originally posted by
Nazaress
When it comes to finding people sexually-attractive, which body type(s) do you pay attention to most? (Private voting, just in case)
03/23/2012
small. Medium is ok. I am just not into plump. But I also do not like stick and bones.
03/25/2012
I'm into like.. Cute chubby girls with big boobs and butt. LOL Short in stature.. (5'2")
03/26/2012
Dont care either way. Its all about the person, cuz crazy comes in every size!
03/26/2012
I like medium body types, mostly.
04/01/2012
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I completely agree with this! So spot-on!
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
I voted I do not care because looks and body type only take a person so far. Its about how they treat me.
04/01/2012
Honestly I would like all of them, but I guess if I had to pick one probably tiny.
04/02/2012
I'm not particular about body types for partners, but my favorite physical aesthetics are the curves of the 1940's and 50's. The muscular-chubby on the guys (like young Marlon Brando - no six-pack or rippling muscles, but you can tell how powerful his muscles are) and the curvaceous on the ladies (even though I'm not sexually attracted to ladies, I think curvy is gorgeous - Marilyn Monroe, Sophia Loren, Betty Grable...).
I tend to end up with skinny guys, probably because most of the skinny guys I've met are into big ladies. My current guy weighs less than my childhood dog (though that dog was a Dane-Mastiff, so that's not saying too much). My other guy is the muscular-chubby, and I think it's fantastic. His little layer of belly fat bothers him, but I think it's hella sexy to have that bit of cuddliness over rock hard muscle.
I tend to end up with skinny guys, probably because most of the skinny guys I've met are into big ladies. My current guy weighs less than my childhood dog (though that dog was a Dane-Mastiff, so that's not saying too much). My other guy is the muscular-chubby, and I think it's fantastic. His little layer of belly fat bothers him, but I think it's hella sexy to have that bit of cuddliness over rock hard muscle.
04/02/2012
I like my men either ridiculously skinny, or very bulky and muscular. Or either smaller than me, or taller than me.
04/02/2012
If he looks like he should be wearing a flannel, holding an ax, and chopping down a tree, he's good enough for me. 8)
04/02/2012
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Medium in general, but I've gone tiny and big.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
When it comes to finding people sexually-attractive, which body type(s) do you pay attention to most? (Private voting, just in case)
04/02/2012
Tall and lean!
04/02/2012
I prefer women who are around my size. I'm a size 14/16 in pants, XL/XXL in shirts, 42DDD breasts at 5'7". I like my women soft and supple with large breasts and hips. It don't have anything against bigger or smaller women, but oh mannn, I dig some curves.
As for men, I used to think I had a type. I liked men taller than me by 3+ inches and who have a little bit of meat on their bones, as well. All of that changed when I met and fell in love with my current beau - he's half an inch shorter than I am, weighs almost one hundred pounds less and wears 30" pants with size M shirts. Although our size difference can bother me sometimes (I get self conscious when I sit on his lap and things), I'm madly in love with him regardless of his size.
As for men, I used to think I had a type. I liked men taller than me by 3+ inches and who have a little bit of meat on their bones, as well. All of that changed when I met and fell in love with my current beau - he's half an inch shorter than I am, weighs almost one hundred pounds less and wears 30" pants with size M shirts. Although our size difference can bother me sometimes (I get self conscious when I sit on his lap and things), I'm madly in love with him regardless of his size.
04/02/2012
I find curvy girls most attractive (not sold on any particular size or stature, it's all dependent on the individual). But I really go for guys who are ridiculously tall and on the lean side.
04/02/2012
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Are we the same person?
Originally posted by
Sex Positivity
I prefer women who are around my size. I'm a size 14/16 in pants, XL/XXL in shirts, 42DDD breasts at 5'7". I like my women soft and supple with large breasts and hips. It don't have anything against bigger or smaller women, but oh
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I prefer women who are around my size. I'm a size 14/16 in pants, XL/XXL in shirts, 42DDD breasts at 5'7". I like my women soft and supple with large breasts and hips. It don't have anything against bigger or smaller women, but oh mannn, I dig some curves.
As for men, I used to think I had a type. I liked men taller than me by 3+ inches and who have a little bit of meat on their bones, as well. All of that changed when I met and fell in love with my current beau - he's half an inch shorter than I am, weighs almost one hundred pounds less and wears 30" pants with size M shirts. Although our size difference can bother me sometimes (I get self conscious when I sit on his lap and things), I'm madly in love with him regardless of his size. less
As for men, I used to think I had a type. I liked men taller than me by 3+ inches and who have a little bit of meat on their bones, as well. All of that changed when I met and fell in love with my current beau - he's half an inch shorter than I am, weighs almost one hundred pounds less and wears 30" pants with size M shirts. Although our size difference can bother me sometimes (I get self conscious when I sit on his lap and things), I'm madly in love with him regardless of his size. less
NO, but there are some serious similarities. I'm size 16, like girls my size, used to think I had a "type" of guy I went for, fell in love with a guy half an inch shorter than me and 60 pounds lighter.
04/02/2012
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We might just be! Also, you seem like just my type.
Originally posted by
WhoopieDoo
Are we the same person?
NO, but there are some serious similarities. I'm size 16, like girls my size, used to think I had a "type" of guy I went for, fell in love with a guy half an inch shorter than me and 60 pounds lighter.
NO, but there are some serious similarities. I'm size 16, like girls my size, used to think I had a "type" of guy I went for, fell in love with a guy half an inch shorter than me and 60 pounds lighter.
Just kidding.
But really..
You are.
04/02/2012
I like muscles.
04/02/2012
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Oh my!
Originally posted by
Sex Positivity
We might just be! Also, you seem like just my type.
Just kidding.
But really..
You are.
Just kidding.
But really..
You are.
Where have you been all my life?
04/03/2012
I LOVE at least some pudge
04/09/2012
I like my men to look like men. I like my women to look like women. I hate the look of a teenager, and if I wanted to date a bag of bones I'd be into some really weird thing with a skeleton.
But thankfully I am not.
To put it in perspective, Queen Latifa (spelling??) in my opinion is one of the most beautiful women on the planet today. Callie Tores from Grey's Anatomy I think is stunning. Angelina Jolie a long while ago I thought was really pretty but now she just looks "hard" as does Cameron Diaz and most of the stars today.
For men, Johnny Depp just looks too angular, as does Brad Pitt. Captain Sisko's body is great as is John Winchester (Supernatural, can we say let the drooling commence?).
I like my men and my women to look like a man and a woman. Not like someone had drawn them with a ruler.
But thankfully I am not.
To put it in perspective, Queen Latifa (spelling??) in my opinion is one of the most beautiful women on the planet today. Callie Tores from Grey's Anatomy I think is stunning. Angelina Jolie a long while ago I thought was really pretty but now she just looks "hard" as does Cameron Diaz and most of the stars today.
For men, Johnny Depp just looks too angular, as does Brad Pitt. Captain Sisko's body is great as is John Winchester (Supernatural, can we say let the drooling commence?).
I like my men and my women to look like a man and a woman. Not like someone had drawn them with a ruler.
04/19/2012
This is admittedly very difficult to answer.... I don't think I have a set threshold.
04/20/2012
My husband is tall and solid, he's not thin, not big...he's perfect sized!!!
04/20/2012
I like women where I can't see their rib cages just looking at them; curvy and supple is sexier than visible bones to me. Men I like bigger, I'm not really into skinny guys.
04/20/2012
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I can not stand when a girl is nothing more than skin and bones, of course I not really attracted to very overweight (morbidly obese) girls
Originally posted by
Nazaress
When it comes to finding people sexually-attractive, which body type(s) do you pay attention to most? (Private voting, just in case)
04/21/2012
I fit into extremely tiny, but that's because I have a rather small frame. I do have some nice proportionate curves, though.
I tend to be attracted to slim men, but prefer average/curvy women.
I tend to be attracted to slim men, but prefer average/curvy women.
04/21/2012
Petite/small women seem to be the ones that grab my attention. I wouldn't say tiny though (if that makes sense).
04/21/2012
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I think healthy is a big turn on!
Originally posted by
Nazaress
When it comes to finding people sexually-attractive, which body type(s) do you pay attention to most? (Private voting, just in case)
04/21/2012
I voted big and beautiful. I think women with meat on their bones are so feminine and gorgeous! Especially if they have super long hair. I'm more of the romantic type. I'm really not into super skinny tan women.
When it comes to guys though I definitely prefer them to be taller than me and older by a few years. As for body type I would rather be with someone a little larger so I don't feel like a giant. I can't stand wimpy little baby face men either. lol. I like manly mans!
When it comes to guys though I definitely prefer them to be taller than me and older by a few years. As for body type I would rather be with someone a little larger so I don't feel like a giant. I can't stand wimpy little baby face men either. lol. I like manly mans!
04/21/2012
When it comes to girls I like them tiny to medium.
04/21/2012
All women are gorgeous, men I prefer to be taller/bigger than me.
04/21/2012
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Yeah. I agree with this. I think in my entire life i have only liked 3-4 men. hah. I generally also prefer my ladies medium to big range.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
I like women in the medium to big range, though it's not like I won't be attracted to a women if she's skinny (so long as she's not TOO skinny and has some meat on her and I can't see bones). As for men, I don't like them.
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I like women in the medium to big range, though it's not like I won't be attracted to a women if she's skinny (so long as she's not TOO skinny and has some meat on her and I can't see bones). As for men, I don't like them. Lol. At least, overall. I love my boyfriend and he is a very fluffy man and I'm extremely attracted to him.
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04/22/2012
with some meat
04/28/2012
hate to say it but my range of attraction is generally pretty small, I like really thin to average women and I tend to like guys with lean functional muscle not big bulky guys
04/28/2012
I gravitate towards being attracted to women closer to my size (medium to big), but I really can be attracted to any body type. It just depends on the person.
04/28/2012
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Medium I would say
Originally posted by
Nazaress
When it comes to finding people sexually-attractive, which body type(s) do you pay attention to most? (Private voting, just in case)
05/20/2012
I like smaller women and larger men.
05/20/2012
I'll take confidence and self-esteem over any particular body type.
05/20/2012
I always thought medium, but my current boyfriend is extremely tall and thin, so it depends on the person.
05/20/2012
medium
06/04/2012
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