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Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?

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Contributor: AishiteruYO AishiteruYO
Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
With a toy
atryonix , bayosgirl , Hazeleyes2012
3  (4%)
With a man
Kitka , nikki0668 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , phoenixfire , padmeamidala , Liz2 , Sera26 , Anne , brevado , Rossie , quinceykay , Mrs.Tee , talkless , Raymaker , sXeVegan90 , Terri69 , Cat E. , gloomybear , Lioncub , Thumper Logic , Missmarc , Kdlips , Gunsmoke , Lildrummrgurl7 , Living Doll , lovelylolaa , BrittaniMaree , ginnyluvspotter , Airen Wolf , Sirena , Bme , SecretKinksters , Bignuf , ShadowedSeductress , Flower1 , GonetoLovehoney , LexiKitten , XxFallenAngelxX , DawnStar , Cosmonaut , Noelle , Allison.Wilder , angela01 , RedGlitter , FunFantasys , 1001 Pleasures , TJtheMadHatter , Toy Fiend , Septimus , Bleu , Pandwhora , PropertyOfPotter , LavenderSkies
53  (67%)
Other. Please explain.
KyotoAngel , Ryuson , Meltingfish , amplified to rock , edeneve , damnbul12 , mistressg , Undecided , *Camoprincess* , amazon , Beck , AliMc , Reynolds , CoffeeButton , Taylor , dv8 , Gone (LD29) , twelve13 , Errant Venture , noway , Ryanne , Wicked Wahine , SecondStory
23  (29%)
Total votes: 79
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Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Most likely with a toy or by using tampons, but I'm not 100% sure which.
12/11/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I had used toys before losing my virginity, but I consider losing one's virginity to be something that happens with another person, not toys.
12/11/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I lost mine with a man.
12/11/2012
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitka
I had used toys before losing my virginity, but I consider losing one's virginity to be something that happens with another person, not toys.
This. I don't remember which came first, but whether or not you use toys has nothing to do with virginity.
12/11/2012
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Quote:
Originally posted by SneakersAndPearls
This. I don't remember which came first, but whether or not you use toys has nothing to do with virginity.
I agree!! What then about fingers??? Surely not losing your virginity by masturbating.
12/11/2012
Contributor: Meltingfish Meltingfish
I dislike the idea of tying virginity to the presence of a hymen. In my opinion, you lose your virginity when you have sex, not to a toy or to a tampon or whatever. A lot of women don't have hymens to begin with, that doesn't mean they aren't virgins. I also think the concepts of purity and virginity are outdated, but that's a rant for another time.
12/11/2012
Contributor: amplified to rock amplified to rock
I used a toy before I had sex with a man, but I don't consider myself to have lost my virginity to the toy.
12/11/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
To a man
12/11/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
My first anal experience was with a toy.
12/11/2012
Contributor: atryonix atryonix
Toy
12/11/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
You don't lose your virginity to a toy...that would be called masturbation.
12/11/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by AishiteruYO
Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?
women
12/11/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by AishiteruYO
Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?
you lose your virginity when you have sex
12/11/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Quote:
Originally posted by Supervixen
You don't lose your virginity to a toy...that would be called masturbation.
That's how I feel.
12/11/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
With a man.
12/11/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Quote:
Originally posted by AishiteruYO
Did you lose your virginity with a man or with a toy?
You are a virgin until you engage in SEXUAL Intercourse you don't loose your virginity to an object:fingers,tampons ,toys penetrating you. If that were the case I would have lost mine to medical supplies at 15 seriously?!
12/11/2012
Contributor: wildshores wildshores
ha. if penetration defines virginity--my fingers.
12/11/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Quote:
Originally posted by *Camoprincess*
You are a virgin until you engage in SEXUAL Intercourse you don't loose your virginity to an object:fingers,tampons ,toys penetrating you. If that were the case I would have lost mine to medical supplies at 15 seriously?!
Couldn't agree more!
12/11/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
With a man.
12/11/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Implying the virginity is lost by sexual intercourse isn't correct either. Lesbians don't engage in intercourse unless it's a dildos. Are they forever virgins? Personally, my feelings are...who gives a fuck about virginity anymore? It's not something that any of us should concern our time with.
12/11/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
with a man
12/11/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitka
I had used toys before losing my virginity, but I consider losing one's virginity to be something that happens with another person, not toys.
This. Also, what about people who had their first sexual experience with a female?
12/11/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitka
I had used toys before losing my virginity, but I consider losing one's virginity to be something that happens with another person, not toys.
I agree
12/11/2012
Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
With a man
12/11/2012
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
a man
12/11/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Answering for my wife - she had sex long before she even knew sex toys existed.
12/12/2012
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
With a man.
12/12/2012
Contributor: Reynolds Reynolds
Quote:
Originally posted by Supervixen
You don't lose your virginity to a toy...that would be called masturbation.
Agreed.
12/12/2012
Contributor: CoffeeButton CoffeeButton
Wow, I wish people were more educated/had better access to proper educational materials. You can NEVER lose your virginity to any object, only another person. The hymen is only a leftover from when your sex developed in the womb.
12/12/2012