Do you do webcam or send naked photos to others?

Do you do webcam or send naked photos to others?

michael scofield michael scofield
I been meeting alot of girls lately more than usual im a shy guy and hardly date. and the girls ive been meeting and alot of past always start the sexual things weather its the flirting in person or text flirting and the sexual flirting in person and the sexual text flirting .then they ask me to do certain things i feel uncomfortable with like sending pics of my self naked or we will be webcamin they decide they want me to masturbate for them. and when i say no they get upset and i see it really bothers them. now this is about all the girls ive ever met i would say i only been in one real relationship but all the girls ive meet and at most 3 dates and they would want this. am i over reacting? is this normal? do all you woman do this? want this? lol also if i ever do give in which was like 2 or 3 times and i want a sexy pic they would say no. but im not allowed to get mad. all these just the wrongs girls im meeting? lol
08/08/2012
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LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
I'm sorry that they try to get you to do things that you are uncomfortable with, but no means no. I've had guys ask me to do the same thing, but I've declined. If they make a big deal out of it, then they are probably interested in the wrong kind of things rather than your personality, etc. Personally, I think it's the wrong girls you are meeting.
08/08/2012
michael scofield michael scofield
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Originally posted by LadyDarknezz
I'm sorry that they try to get you to do things that you are uncomfortable with, but no means no. I've had guys ask me to do the same thing, but I've declined. If they make a big deal out of it, then they are probably interested in the ...
Thanks I was thinking it was just me and I need to loosen up but im happy to hear its not only me who thinks im meeting the wrong girls
08/08/2012
LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
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Originally posted by michael scofield
Thanks I was thinking it was just me and I need to loosen up but im happy to hear its not only me who thinks im meeting the wrong girls
I'm going through the same issue as you myself lol. I've had 5 guys this month ask me to do the same thing, so I understand the frustration and how uncomfortable you feel. I'm sure with enough time and weeding out the bad ones, we'll find the ones worthy of our time!
08/08/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
No you aren't wrong or anything I have all kinds of guys who ask me for all this and when I decline they get pissed! I had one guy who claimed to be such a churchy holy guy who had just come back from a missions trip, we were chatting on Facebook and he turned things to a sexual conversation. Yes, I am a VERY sexual person but when you start asking for naked pics or for me to show you things on cam I draw the line where I see fit! We moved our chat over to Skype and he pulls his DICK out I didn't ask to see it and I didn't want to see it, I could have went on with life without knowing what it looked like. I wasn't interested in him like that he kept asking to see my breasts and telling me it wouldn't kill me blah blah blah. Sorry I am NOT a sex object to just anyone or anyone in general. I prefer to be seen as the person I am then move to the sexual side of things later. I won't lie I am a VERY flirty person but I know where to draw the line as well. So no you aren't over reacting in fact I wish there were more guys out there like that who don't want to see the goods right away.

If I am with someone and I am comfortable with them then YES I will send pictures like that but not to someone I don't really know.
08/08/2012
hot lil momma hot lil momma
I won't do that
08/08/2012
Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
No, I am not that comfortable with strangers seeing me naked.....
08/08/2012
K101 K101
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Originally posted by michael scofield
I been meeting alot of girls lately more than usual im a shy guy and hardly date. and the girls ive been meeting and alot of past always start the sexual things weather its the flirting in person or text flirting and the sexual flirting in person and ...
LOL. I totally understand how you feel. I HATE when a dude asks me for nude pics. It pisses me off and it's disrespectful. There's nothing wrong with you not feeling comfy about being asked that. I personally have been known to cut off all contact with a guy who asked for nude pics. And pretend that I don't even know him after that.

If it upsets them for you to turn down that offer then they aren't probably for you anyways. I say keep trying until you find one who better fits your personality, wants, etc.

No you are not overreacting at all. Honestly, I would find it quite impressive if I had asked a guy to do something like that and he said no. If I weren't with my partner of course, that is the type of guy he is though and to me, men who aren't all "sex sex sex!" are most apealling. Good, healthy and fun conversation is what I'd look for in a person and the overly sexual stuff too soon would totally turn me off. So hang on there. There ARE women who aren't desperate for sex right away and women who will be happy with your not wanting to go straight into all things sex right away. I know plenty of ladies who would love a guy who wasn't all about sex. Of course it's wonderful, but not the first and most important thing. So definitely keep trying. You will certainly find you a good one.

Yes, I have to say you've just had a string of "bad luck." You'll come across a nice, fun and sexy girl. I have to ask though, where on earth are you finding these girls? Sounds like some kind of sex place. Lol. Try something less sexual like FB. Oh hell what am I saying, FB is just as bad. LOL. I'm kidding.
08/08/2012
Layenna Layenna
Hell yeah, I webcam with some of my friends all the time! Skype sex lol, it's the new thing to do =P
08/08/2012
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