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I don't like doing it, or getting it. For one, it's rude. Secondly, why the hell would you want to make someone feel bad about themselves? I seriously do not understand how anyone could like that.
For me it's not supposed to make me feel bad about myself. It's more being used, and it makes me feel more wanted when he'll just take like that, not worrying about looking completely caring all the time. I know he cares, and it's nice to see the side of him that just takes what HE needs and has confidence enough that I'm not gonna get fed up and leave when he uses me. It's hard to explain, but it's definitely not something that makes me feel bad. It's very raw and emotional, and you can just let go and show how devoted you are, how much you will put up with to stay with them. It's a very bonding experience for us. And trust me, I get plenty of aftercare...after