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Do you use lighting to set the mood?

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Contributor: misterazor misterazor
in general, do you use blacklight, lava lamp, strobe lights, colored bulbs, neon, candles, etc...to set the mood for sex? more so, years into a relationship, do you still use lighting to set the mood? i think i'm going to put some effort into this soon. a little bowie and some blacklights!..could be fun.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
yes, in the beginning
froggygal91 , FemmeFlo , TheirPet , nikki0668 , PropertyOfPotter , Bubaloo , MnK , Beautiful-Disaster , FLIPxMODE , doowop , Hoshigetsu , RedKyuubi , LoooveMonkey
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yes, even later on in a relationship
Martiniman , froggygal91 , Kirill1171 , FemmeFlo , srexom , KinkyNicki92 , wicked weasel , padmeamidala , Hummingbird , TheirPet , nikki0668 , PropertyOfPotter , Kitka , Bubaloo , MnK , Beautiful-Disaster , MsCinnamonSpice , Loriandhubby , spiced , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , FLIPxMODE , RedKyuubi , SydVicious , sweetpea12 , EmuLove , Missmarc , LoooveMonkey , Mrs.Tee , SF
29
no, and no plans to
Rod Ronald , Rossie , Pururin , deltalima , G&L , amazon
6
no, but now i'm thinking about it
BrittaniMaree , Bleu , himynameissteph , sweetpea12 , ScorpioCurves , SepZet
6
have in the past, but it's been a long time...and now i'm thinking about it
The Vixen , Strider , Beautiful-Disaster , BlooJay
4
have in the past, and set the bed on fire with the candles. bad times.
other
froggygal91 , FemmeFlo , Avant-garde , HarlequinBunnie , SecretKinksters
5
Total votes: 63 (48 voters)
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Contributor: The Vixen The Vixen
It's been quite a while since I used mood lighting, I should do it more often.
01/24/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Yes I do, but not every time.
01/24/2013
Contributor: froggygal91 froggygal91
I have before but my it didn't seem to affect my husband any so I quit.
01/24/2013
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
yes, even later on in a relationship
01/24/2013
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
I like to have soft lighting during sex. I don't want a bright overhead light - that feels like we're shooting a porno or something. I don't want no light, because that leads to fumbling and clumsiness, and I like to see my partner naked. So a bedside lamp is perfect... especially one where I don't have to get out of bed afterwards to turn it off.
01/24/2013
Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
I never really think about it. We have used candles for a little light at times, but it's just something we never think about.
01/24/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
when we plan our evening candles are usually involved. but most of the time now we dont. we did a lot at the beginning of the relationship.. but i think its because he felt like he had to try harder to impress me by setting the mood
01/24/2013
Contributor: wicked weasel wicked weasel
I've tried it lately and it really helps set the mood.
01/24/2013
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I like soft lighting in the bedroom, it makes everything more intimate.
01/24/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
We have little middle-eastern lamps that we like to light sometimes with candles.
01/24/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Yes low muted light sometimes with a scarf over it for color variance sometimes not. Not only that I spray some nice linen spray on the sheets, my rose petals and ready the room just as I were primping myself. Think about when serving a meal, you just don't throw food on the table, you enhance the place setting for each person.
01/24/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
We don't often, but we still do at times.
01/24/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
no, but now i'm thinking about it
01/24/2013
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Most times no but we will occasionally light some candles or use our dimmer bedside lamps for mood lighting when we're feeling more romantic.
01/24/2013
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
Sometimes
01/24/2013
Contributor: Bleu Bleu
I haven't before but maybe in the future.
01/24/2013
Contributor: Bubaloo Bubaloo
Yes, in the beginning and later on.
01/24/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
We don't need anything fancy, because we always have a nightlight on.
01/24/2013
Contributor: MnK MnK
In the beginning we tried different lighting to see which one worked best for us. We figured out 2 candles (one on each side of the room), and the tv on works the best
01/24/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
yeah.. sure.
01/24/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
One of our bedside lamps is very soft and it's wonderful for setting the mood. My favorite is firelight. I want our next house to have a fireplace in the bedroom!
01/24/2013
Contributor: Pururin Pururin
No, we've never used special lighting and I don't have any plans to.
01/24/2013
Contributor: FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
sure do
01/24/2013
Contributor: himynameissteph himynameissteph
No, might be fun though...
01/24/2013
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
We do use lighting
01/24/2013
Contributor: G&L G&L
Not really.
01/24/2013
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
in general, do you use blacklight, lava lamp, strobe lights, colored bulbs, neon, candles, etc...to set the mood for sex? more so, years into a relationship, do you still use lighting to set the mood? i think i'm going to put some effort into ... more
I have kind of, but I haven't strategically planned lighting
01/24/2013
Contributor: EmuLove EmuLove
Hubby and I do most of the time
01/24/2013
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
in general, do you use blacklight, lava lamp, strobe lights, colored bulbs, neon, candles, etc...to set the mood for sex? more so, years into a relationship, do you still use lighting to set the mood? i think i'm going to put some effort into ... more
yes, even later on in a relationship
01/24/2013