Doing Good While Being Wronged

Contributor: KnK KnK
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Originally posted by cherryredhead88
That is one of the major things about EF- it's hard because a lot of people think, "Oh a sex toy site - must be a bunch of pervs." They forget that we are a bunch of pervs who each other!

We came for the vibrators, and stayed ... more
Love it. Precious.
12/25/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Illusional
So, despite not feeling so great I received a job from a site I frequent called SitterCity. You make a profile and such and parents can view your credentials and a background check and so on. I need some extra cash so I decided to take a job for this ... more
For fuck's sake Kira did you report them to the site that gave you their name (or vice versa)? That sort of racism is so damn hard to believe, even though I know it exists. Here in the good old Bible Belt I was informed that I couldn't hire "negro" waiters/waitresses cause the "good folk" wouldn't eat the food brought to them by "a darky". This was only 10 years ago and the business has changed hands to a wonderful family that has no racism in their hiring practices...an lo and behold the "good folk" still eat there and don't care who brings them food!

For what it's worth you would have been a God send to us back in the day just for bringing entertainment and we'd have picked you up...

*Wanders off mumbling "Should have let the bitch's house burn down...then she'd have REALLY been uncomfortable..."
12/25/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Illusional
I'm so glad the Nurse allowed me to use my laptop... she seemed anti it for awhile.
Wellllll in her defense you are sick and need rest to recouperate. Most people who have their laptops are A type personalities like me and will make themselves incredibly ill working past their body's endurance. So rest dang it!


On the upside of the previous post. Calling your electrician friend and the racism probably saved your life if the electrical box was actively shorting and sparking. At the very least it would have been a horrible experience either way!

...and ya I would have given the money back as well just for the kids. I couldn't have lived with myself if kids got hurt and I could have stopped it. They are gonnna get hurt enough with their parents idiocy. Blondie sounds a bit unhinged though, maybe you had a narrow escape.
12/25/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Wellllll in her defense you are sick and need rest to recouperate. Most people who have their laptops are A type personalities like me and will make themselves incredibly ill working past their body's endurance. So rest dang it!


On ... more
I agree. Kira's kindness was very well-placed. No matter how horribly the parents behaved, the children are completely innocent. I agree that the parents' idiocy will hurt and deeply embarrass those girls repeatedly over the years as they grow up. Luckily we live in a world where the majority look upon their parents' behavior and attitudes in disgust and shock. The girls are sure to notice this.
12/25/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Blah. Christmas Morning in the hospital
They gave me really nice cocoa.
Merry Christmas, ya'll.
12/25/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Illusional
Blah. Christmas Morning in the hospital
They gave me really nice cocoa.
Merry Christmas, ya'll.
Merry Christmas to you lady!
12/25/2010
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Illusional
Blah. Christmas Morning in the hospital
They gave me really nice cocoa.
Merry Christmas, ya'll.
Merry Christmas!
12/25/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
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Originally posted by Illusional
Blah. Christmas Morning in the hospital
They gave me really nice cocoa.
Merry Christmas, ya'll.
Merry Christmas
12/25/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by Illusional
Blah. Christmas Morning in the hospital
They gave me really nice cocoa.
Merry Christmas, ya'll.
Merry Christmas! I hope you are feeling better soon, hon.
12/25/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
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Originally posted by Illusional
Blah. Christmas Morning in the hospital
They gave me really nice cocoa.
Merry Christmas, ya'll.
Happy Christmas, hon.
12/25/2010
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
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Originally posted by Illusional
Blah. Christmas Morning in the hospital
They gave me really nice cocoa.
Merry Christmas, ya'll.
Merry Christmas!!!!
12/25/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Thanks you all.
I feel a little better. I went over to the Children's Center and spent some time with some kids stuck here on Christmas.

I showed them how to make friendship bracelets.

So far, today all people have been cool, no matter the color.
12/25/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I made a friend, she's seven.

Her name is Cassie, and she's a chatterbug.
She keeps coming over to my wing, with her mom and just wants to talk.

We've been discussing her future career as a underwater doctor, for like mermaids and such.
12/25/2010
Contributor: meganthomas meganthomas
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Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
Oh god, that is absolutely horrible and makes me furious! I am shocked and incredibly depressed that such ridiculous racism still occurs in this day and age. Amazing that those people seemed to have learned nothing from this and did not even ... more
DITTO!

I'm really sorry that happened to you...
12/26/2010
Contributor: meganthomas meganthomas
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Originally posted by Illusional
I love the saying. <3 I'd wear a shirt that said that!
Me too!
12/26/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Wow, just, wow. I'm sending you lots of virtual hugs, because these people are twatwaffles.
12/27/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
You said you had a website with a profile, did it not have your picture on it? *le confused*

Either way, what absolute bullshit. It's amazing how people treat each other. I'm so sorry you had that experience and I sincerely hope it is the last of such experiences in your life. *hugs*
12/27/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Get better soon!

Here's a thought that I hope helps out: "Wow lady, your racism just cost you $75. You should be more open minded...it's cheaper"
12/27/2010
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
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Originally posted by Illusional
So, despite not feeling so great I received a job from a site I frequent called SitterCity. You make a profile and such and parents can view your credentials and a background check and so on. I need some extra cash so I decided to take a job for this ... more
Oh my! I'm sorry. Some people can be so cruel! I agree with Shellz31 don't let their stupidity get you down!
12/27/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
I am sorry that you had to go through this. Sorry for not posting sooner (Computer probs)

You are one of the nice and most caring people on here, it is a shame that someone could just treat you like that. I am greatful that I was chosen to be one of your Mentors at one time. Maybe one day I'll be the student! Your amazing

Racism sickens me, as does all forms of close mindedness.

We are glad to have you here! I can certainly tell ya that!

By the way, If I had children, I would be proud to have you watched them! You seem to be great wit kids. Would make an excellent teacher! YOU SHOULD LOOK INTO THAT! You would make a fine teacher, plus you can teach these litte ones that this kind of stuff isn't right! GET BETTER SOON MY FRIEND!


Viktor

(PLease frgive my spelling, this Internet Explorer and keyboard suxks)
12/27/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Thanks everyone, I feel better knowing that there's so many more open minded people in the world.
12/28/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
So, despite not feeling so great I received a job from a site I frequent called SitterCity. You make a profile and such and parents can view your credentials and a background check and so on. I need some extra cash so I decided to take a job for this ... more
OMG! The racist bastards!

Honey, I am SO sorry these people treated you like this. Damn, as hard as we try, Jim Crow and racism just won't die. It pisses me off to no end when people think because our fine President is African American "there is no more racism." It made me so angry and upset to read your story, I am in tears.

Hon, when you can get to it, (I know you aren't feeling well and you walked 11 fucking miles for these racist sacks of shit) contact SitterCity and tell them what happened. They need to screen the CUSTOMERS as much as they need to screen the sitters. The sitters are the ones who need protection, not just from crazy or violent people but from frickin' racist bastards.

These people need to be taken off of SitterCity's site and NEVER be allowed to use the services again.

Fuckin' racists. I wish I lived near you. I'd give these people a piece of my mind.

Hugs,sweetheart.(inlov e) NO ONE deserved the treatment you got, but least of all you.
12/28/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by cherryredhead88
That is one of the major things about EF- it's hard because a lot of people think, "Oh a sex toy site - must be a bunch of pervs." They forget that we are a bunch of pervs who each other!

We came for the vibrators, and stayed ... more
Aw! You are so sweet. I've said so many times that the nicest, kindest, most honorable people I've had the honor to meet, after years on discussion groups are on EF.

I have a theory that those who stay here are more in touch with themselves and I think that makes a difference in how many of the EdenOphiles treat others. I see less strife and nastiness here than anywhere else. (with the occasional outbreak of confusion that occurs nearly everywhere, and that is usually based on misunderstanding)

I think those who are in touch with their sexuality in a healthy way are more in touch with their own souls and thus in touch with the feelings of others. At least most of the time.

Illusional, you are truly a lovely woman. I don't know if I would have paid to have their electricity fixed, but for those little children, I probably would have at least thought about it. You DID it, with little thought for your own situation. Bless you, sweetheart
12/28/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Aw! You are so sweet. I've said so many times that the nicest, kindest, most honorable people I've had the honor to meet, after years on discussion groups are on EF.

I have a theory that those who stay here are more in touch with ... more
Strong positive on your actions, Illusional, and hopefully your act will help break the cycle of racism.

P'Gell - I wouldn't be surprised if the lack of strife and nastiness also had to deal with the nature of sexual discussions. Sex is often a hot-button issue, so in order to effectively communicate you have to think about how your comment will be taken.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
This is soooo horrible!! I'm so sorry they treated you that way.
12/28/2010