Mrs. Bignuf says for her a guy must be intelligent, but possess humor. He must be mature and not whiny or needy. Above all, he must be HONEST (one strike and you are OUT) and respectful (disrespect me and you immediately lose MY respect).

Mr. Bignuf says HE is turned on by a woman with SELF CONFIDENCE, intelligence and one who is accomplished. A full person in and of herself...someone who does not need a "man to complete her". No drama needed or welcomed with him. The professional woman who walks into a room and KNOWS she "owns it" (and DOES, because she has EARNED IT) is the biggest turn on for him.

How about YOUR "attractive" lover aspects?