I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.
I am especially interested in women/men who:
1.) Have had difficulty orgasming in the past.
2.) Are having difficulty right now.
3.) Have had medical help/interference with this.
3.) Are willing to email/pm or talk on the phone with me.
If the article doesn't run for the magazine, I might try to make it into a Sexis article. Please comment on here, if you are willing to be contacted (or if you have any helpful hints for my thought process).
The article is centered around the medical and media emphasis on orgasm.
I've went back and forth, sometimes I can reach the big O (multiple times), and other times it just isn't happening! This subject has always fascinated me, good luck! If you can, try to watch The O Tapes, real interesting and gives you a lot of food for thought.
I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.
I am especially interested in women/men who:
1.) Have had difficulty
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I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.
I am especially interested in women/men who:
1.) Have had difficulty orgasming in the past.
2.) Are having difficulty right now.
3.) Have had medical help/interference with this.
3.) Are willing to email/pm or talk on the phone with me.
If the article doesn't run for the magazine, I might try to make it into a Sexis article. Please comment on here, if you are willing to be contacted (or if you have any helpful hints for my thought process).
The article is centered around the medical and media emphasis on orgasm.
I would be willing to be interviewed! I have trouble reaching orgasm with a partner, but for the most part I am fine by myself. I can PM/EMail/Phone no problem.
You can email at any time. I am open skype talking, but not phone interview. I've recently experienced issues around my period, but only since I gotten an IUD.
I hope this help you find the right criteria. Good luck, sounds a an interesting paper!
I would be willing to be interviewed! I have trouble reaching orgasm with a partner, but for the most part I am fine by myself. I can PM/EMail/Phone no problem.
I had problems orgasming by myself until I was around 16 (which I guess is really young anyways, but I started masturbating at 11 so it seemed like FOREVER to me), and have only ever had two orgasms with partners. I'd love to be interviewed if you're interested, I'm thinking your questions may help me to figure out what the difficulty is and help me through it. Or, at the very least, someone else you interview may have some answers that would be helpful.
I can orgasm almost once a day on my own and only with a toy but no other way. I used to but its been way over a year since. I’d be willing and can IM/Email/Phone chat. I do work 2nd shift Mon-Fri, 3PM-midnight EST.
This of course will be confidential?
I don't meet your criteria, but I wish you the best of luck. Have you read The Elusive Orgasm? I recommend it as a reference for this type of thing.
The whole thing fascinates me, as I orgasm easily and often, and I always have. When friends talk about having trouble, and fall back on the age old "some women just can't", I urge them to read and research and try new things. We women are complicated creatures you know, and some mental association that stands in the way is worth overcoming to have the O's we deserve!
I am willing to be interviewed but I'm not positive I meet your criteria. I go back and forth- sometimes, I just *know* that I'm not going to be able to orgasm or it is going to mean a lot of energy and the cost/benefit analysis doesn't work out, so I just tell my husband to do his business. I ENJOY the sex; I just know I can't get off at the time. I have just kind of accepted it. Feel free to contact me.
I've had difficulty for years due to depression and constant migraines. I can't orgasm when with a partner no matter what.
PM or e-mail is fine. Depending on the time, calling is ok, too.
Anti-depressants are notorious for messing with sexual desire and function. Sex and orgasm is probably more mental than physical, depression can mess you up but the good news is that you can get rid of depression and get on track if you work at it!
I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.
I am especially interested in women/men who:
1.) Have had difficulty
...
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I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.
I am especially interested in women/men who:
1.) Have had difficulty orgasming in the past.
2.) Are having difficulty right now.
3.) Have had medical help/interference with this.
3.) Are willing to email/pm or talk on the phone with me.
If the article doesn't run for the magazine, I might try to make it into a Sexis article. Please comment on here, if you are willing to be contacted (or if you have any helpful hints for my thought process).
The article is centered around the medical and media emphasis on orgasm.
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My ability to orgasm has relied very heavily on how contacted I am to my partner. If I love and trust my partner, when that moment comes I can just let go and enjoy it. It requires a specify position to hit the right spot, but that trust and love is the most important aspect. I know I can just relax and nothing bad will happen to me with my love there. Unfortunately, that means if I break up with someone and meet someone new, I don't have an orgasm for a while. That's my experience with orgasms anyway.
It took me until age 25 to learn how to orgasm even though I had been trying for over a decade x there have been ups and downs with its success but I finally realized that 5 years of survival sex had secretly inhibited my ability to cum and do I went back , changed done circumstances, empowered myself ( with the help of some luxury toys stuck to some extreme well needed boundaries and voila!!! The girl can cum!!!!!muti organic I fact I leould live to write about this !!
I AM A 31 YR OLD FEMALE WHO HAD A PARTIAL HYSTARECTOMY WHEN I WAS 20 DIDNT HAVE MY FIRST ORGASM UNTIL I WAS 21 AT 30 I HAD THE REST OF MY HYSTARECTOMY. I FIND IT TEN TIMES HARDER TO HAVE A ORGASM I HAVE GROWN QUIET FOND OF THEM BUT THEY ARE FEW AND FAR BETWEEN NOW FIND MYSELF LEFT OUT WHEN I WANT TO SO BAD
I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.
I am especially interested in women/men who:
1.) Have had difficulty
...
more
I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.
I am especially interested in women/men who:
1.) Have had difficulty orgasming in the past.
2.) Are having difficulty right now.
3.) Have had medical help/interference with this.
3.) Are willing to email/pm or talk on the phone with me.
If the article doesn't run for the magazine, I might try to make it into a Sexis article. Please comment on here, if you are willing to be contacted (or if you have any helpful hints for my thought process).
The article is centered around the medical and media emphasis on orgasm.
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That's interesting, I've never really been able to orgasam with a partner, however can always do it if I'm by myself.
Thanks for replying ya'll! You should have gotten a PM if you said you would be available for interviewing. If you could send those back to me, I would really appreciate it : )
I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.
I am especially interested in women/men who:
1.) Have had difficulty
...
more
I write for a student run magazine at my University and I am looking for people who are willing to be interviewed about their ability/lack of ability to orgasm.
I am especially interested in women/men who:
1.) Have had difficulty orgasming in the past.
2.) Are having difficulty right now.
3.) Have had medical help/interference with this.
3.) Are willing to email/pm or talk on the phone with me.
If the article doesn't run for the magazine, I might try to make it into a Sexis article. Please comment on here, if you are willing to be contacted (or if you have any helpful hints for my thought process).
The article is centered around the medical and media emphasis on orgasm.
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The past two years I have just been able to orgasm. Sadly, I had no idea I even good let alone had been able to. I even wondered what the point to sex was and what all the fuss was about. Then I obtained my first vibrator, and now I need very minimal amounts of stimulation to orgasm. And I even found out I'm one of the lucky few squirters! There are still times though that I just can get off no matter what.
If you still need interviewees I'm available to help through email and pm. I've never actually had an orgasm, despite years of trying with my husband and by myself.
Message me if you still need more people. I've been close but never achieved orgasm from penetration and often it's a struggle to get off clitorally as well. With toys, can usually work. With a partner it's harder.
