So I'm a nervous wreck. I'm 22, "technical" virgin (only have sex with my toys ), and overweight. I have never been to a gynecologist before, but I've been having issues and have an appointment next month, I hate the idea, and don't wanna go. I'll admit it, I'm afraid, lol. I don't like the idea of a stranger getting all up in my business. What do I expect? Should I shave? (I'm natural)....eeek!Any words of advice?