Me and my wife enjoy sex now more then ever, largely beacuse we brought toys into the bedroom. Lately thought there seems to be more attention on the toy aspect of the fore play and what have you then actual contact. I laugh it off when I can, but what is a good way to bablance it out? Should I try bringing male toys into the mix as well? Or would that make it worse? I have talked to her about it and we both understand the issue at hand. Don't get me wrong, I'm not happy unless she gets off, I'm not a pushy husband who sits there and bitches that it's taking to long or whatever, I love those moments. It's just after it seems like its "Okay..well stick it in there and lets do this."
Is there a playfull way to break that up so I don't come of as a needy dick? Or am I in the right to feel like a needy dick?