The New Intimacy

Have you ever been with anyone who wasn't willing to please you with his/her mouth? What was your reaction? :)

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Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
I mean here of course that you were naturally up to please him/her in such a way, but (s)he didn't want to do the same for you...
08/16/2012
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Contributor: Sodom and Gomorrah Sodom and Gomorrah
Well then you just have to respect their opinion. There are other ways to please each other.
08/16/2012
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
I'm happy to say, nope, I've never had that problem!
08/16/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
That was my husband when we started out. He had never gone down on a woman before (as he told me much later.) Well, I shouldn't say he wasn't willing...just reluctant. He would do it but I had to ask every time. I made it clear that I wasn't going to stay if he didn't at least *try* to please me. Now he does it without me asking, almost every time we have sex. End of story.
08/16/2012
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
No oral for me, no oral for them.
08/17/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
My last relationship was this way I was expected to give him head but he wouldn't eat me, mind you he never had a problem with it the first time we were together or when we first got back together. I think in the year we were together I got oral MAYBE 3-4 times. He got it well all the time or he would get pissed at me.
08/17/2012
Contributor: Jalh222 Jalh222
My wife doesn't like oral either way, I'm more than willing and I love a good bj, but I respect her opinion. I do however encourage her to let me try every now and then.
08/17/2012
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
Yes, my first and only ex-boyfriend expected head but wouldn't do much of anything for me; He was a waste of time, and I've learned not to deal with pathetic little boys like him anymore.
08/17/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I would have to leave such a relationship. Oral is important to prepare my body for intercourse. If they don't want to give me oral, I am not going to want to have sex. I NEED oral.
08/17/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I hate oral, so that would be a bonus. Generally the guys I've been with have liked to do it and I have to fend them off from trying.
08/17/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
Never been a problem.
08/17/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Yes, I've been with a few men who hated giving oral. It wasn't a deal breaker, but it was a huge disappointment -- especially because they expected me to give them oral all the time.
08/18/2012