Have you ever "walked in another's shoes" and realized how wrong and judgmental you were previous to that experience? Explain.

Have you ever "walked in another's shoes" and realized how wrong and judgmental you were previous to that experience? Explain.

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Before I started watching porn with my husband, I thought the women in porn were being demoralized and degraded, desperate & needed money and runaways, junkies & more. After I started watching occasionally, I realized those women are having fun. I read the interviews, bios and anything I could get my hands on. Once I figured out that the porn industry isn't just a seedy, sleazy business but can be legitimate, pays stars very well and these women made choices to act in this industry and love doing it my attitude completely changed. I realized that a lot of the time, we are ingrained with ideas from society and ignorance and pass judgment based on ideals we know nothing about. I am now a huge porn watcher, with my husband. After I tried the cam experience, I also realized that it can be fun, builds up your self & sexual confidence and the occasional money is a fun bonus. Guess I had to walk in their shoes to get it, but at least I overcame my prejudice and gained a lot of knowledge and fun experiences from it!!!
02/07/2012
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Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
"Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes. That way when you criticize them, you're a mile away from them and you have their shoes"

I love that quote.

For a while, I had the same notions about porn. I couldn't understand why women would really perform in videos like that, though it might have been because I was still slightly uneasy about my own sexuality. I would still watch from time to time, though (guilty pleasure or hypocrisy? You decide), and at the end of one clip I watched, one of the actresses said, "Thank you for having me here today." with a big, genuine smile. That's kind of where it clicked for me.

In another category, my shopping habits changed somewhat after I started working. I was never a customer who'd complain about every little thing, but I was sometimes very impatient when there wasn't a need for it. Since I started work, I realize that there's a lot of things that can prevent you from completely satisfying a customer, so now I try to be patient and polite whenever I go shopping. (I also wonder how anyone can have a job and still act like a jerk when they shop. That puzzles me.)
02/07/2012
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