What would you do if you had the hots for a guy, but he is taken. And ur very attracted to him ?
What would you do if you had the hots for a guy..
06/29/2012
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I'd leave him alone. Too many families are ruined by things like this.
06/29/2012
I would be friendly to him, but keep my affections to myself.
06/29/2012
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Let him know if he is dating the other girl, If he is married let it be. I am a guy and I say this because I know lots of my guy friends just gave up and married the girl they were with because they thought they werent attractive anymore or that girls stopped noticing them. Sometimes guys also have to know that they have options.
Originally posted by
jjesssica
What would you do if you had the hots for a guy, but he is taken. And ur very attracted to him ?
06/30/2012
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Basically you never know, he might really dig you but think that you would never be into him.
Originally posted by
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Let him know if he is dating the other girl, If he is married let it be. I am a guy and I say this because I know lots of my guy friends just gave up and married the girl they were with because they thought they werent attractive anymore or that
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Let him know if he is dating the other girl, If he is married let it be. I am a guy and I say this because I know lots of my guy friends just gave up and married the girl they were with because they thought they werent attractive anymore or that girls stopped noticing them. Sometimes guys also have to know that they have options.
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06/30/2012
I'd try to discreetly find out both of them were cool with open relationships. If not, I'd leave him alone. I'm no man-stealer.
06/30/2012
Leave it alone and move on... You don't need to stress over it.
06/30/2012
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Originally posted by
Rin (aka Nire)
I'd try to discreetly find out both of them were cool with open relationships. If not, I'd leave him alone. I'm no man-stealer.
This, if I were single. I wouldn't want to be a home wrecker.
06/30/2012
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I suppose ):
Originally posted by
SimpleTeaser
I'd leave him alone. Too many families are ruined by things like this.
06/30/2012
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Thats what I am doing, I only told his mom im attracted to him lol. but hes 11 years older than me.
Originally posted by
vanilla&chocolate
I would be friendly to him, but keep my affections to myself.
06/30/2012
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The girl he is dating is not average though, shes pretty & I think he would feel uncomfortable around me if I told him because I am young compared to him ):
Originally posted by
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Let him know if he is dating the other girl, If he is married let it be. I am a guy and I say this because I know lots of my guy friends just gave up and married the girl they were with because they thought they werent attractive anymore or that
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Let him know if he is dating the other girl, If he is married let it be. I am a guy and I say this because I know lots of my guy friends just gave up and married the girl they were with because they thought they werent attractive anymore or that girls stopped noticing them. Sometimes guys also have to know that they have options.
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06/30/2012
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Lol dig me (: hmm =[
Originally posted by
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Basically you never know, he might really dig you but think that you would never be into him.
06/30/2012
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I never hear about open relationships unless the person is gay/lesbian. Well you wouldn't be the one stealing him because its his decision to leave the girl.
Originally posted by
Rin (aka Nire)
I'd try to discreetly find out both of them were cool with open relationships. If not, I'd leave him alone. I'm no man-stealer.
06/30/2012
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It is stressful lol.
Originally posted by
KrissyNovacaine
Leave it alone and move on... You don't need to stress over it.
06/30/2012
Stay away but keep him under the radar in case he becomes available
06/30/2012
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Straight people can have open relationships, too. Anybody can participate in "swinging" if they want to.
Originally posted by
jjesssica
I never hear about open relationships unless the person is gay/lesbian. Well you wouldn't be the one stealing him because its his decision to leave the girl.
And it's true that it would be his decision, but if he's leaving her because I approached him, I'd still feel partly responsible. If he was unhappy with his girlfriend, then that's fine, but he should break up with her first before approaching me.
06/30/2012
I wouldn't go there. Been there, done that, not a wise idea.
06/30/2012
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I would have to say, let it go...I would feel awful going after another girls man. It's just wrong, and karma can be a real B*$#%!!
Originally posted by
jjesssica
What would you do if you had the hots for a guy, but he is taken. And ur very attracted to him ?
06/30/2012
Leave him be, unless he makes a move and I know his partner is okay with it.
07/01/2012
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Keep in mind though, I have dated a whole bunch of girls. One of which happened to be a model... (For Sears... BUT HEY SHE WAS STILL A MODEL!!!!) Great girl... However not the best personality. Keep that in mind. She may be absolutely beautiful and he may just be hanging with her because of how she looks. She could end up really being a tool bag on the inside. I cant stand a girl without a personality.
Originally posted by
jjesssica
Lol dig me (: hmm =[
07/01/2012
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Yea, i have tons of guys who only get at me for my looks and never try getting to know me inside, i believe it is pathetic. I also want to model but im too short so i don't know what will happen :/ And yea, i don't like it when people hide their true personality.
Originally posted by
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Keep in mind though, I have dated a whole bunch of girls. One of which happened to be a model... (For Sears... BUT HEY SHE WAS STILL A MODEL!!!!) Great girl... However not the best personality. Keep that in mind. She may be absolutely beautiful and
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Keep in mind though, I have dated a whole bunch of girls. One of which happened to be a model... (For Sears... BUT HEY SHE WAS STILL A MODEL!!!!) Great girl... However not the best personality. Keep that in mind. She may be absolutely beautiful and he may just be hanging with her because of how she looks. She could end up really being a tool bag on the inside. I cant stand a girl without a personality.
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07/01/2012
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lol. okay, it does sound like a caution sign for trouble
Originally posted by
Sinfully
I wouldn't go there. Been there, done that, not a wise idea.
07/01/2012
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yea, i should not interfere with someones relationship ):
Originally posted by
Noelle
I would have to say, let it go...I would feel awful going after another girls man. It's just wrong, and karma can be a real B*$#%!!
07/01/2012
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Of course they can?
Originally posted by
Rin (aka Nire)
Straight people can have open relationships, too. Anybody can participate in "swinging" if they want to.
And it's true that it would be his decision, but if he's leaving her because I approached him, I'd still feel ... more
And it's true that it would be his decision, but if he's leaving her because I approached him, I'd still feel ... more
Straight people can have open relationships, too. Anybody can participate in "swinging" if they want to.
And it's true that it would be his decision, but if he's leaving her because I approached him, I'd still feel partly responsible. If he was unhappy with his girlfriend, then that's fine, but he should break up with her first before approaching me. less
And it's true that it would be his decision, but if he's leaving her because I approached him, I'd still feel partly responsible. If he was unhappy with his girlfriend, then that's fine, but he should break up with her first before approaching me. less
True, many guys these days want to date females before considering breaking up with the one's there in relationships with. I've been through it and its pretty stupid.
07/01/2012
Ya just sucks when ur in a relationship with someone and they do that behind ur back.. hurts breaks hearts when they are not honest
07/11/2012
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Od im only 7 years? not meh :l
Originally posted by
jjesssica
Thats what I am doing, I only told his mom im attracted to him lol. but hes 11 years older than me.
07/11/2012
Private fantasies are a wonderful thing! But, I wouldn't act on it.
07/11/2012
I'd leave him alone.. I'm no home-wrecker. Plus, I'd want someone to have the same sort of respect for me.
07/11/2012
I'd keep it too myself..
07/12/2012
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