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Personally i think its pointless to breakup in the first place
You probably don't want to know how I feel about them. Lol.
If I can, I will just put it bluntly? I honestly feel that relationships where the people break up THAT often are... not as mature as they might need to be. I think it's really immature & careless to treat your relationship like it isn't worth staying together. I don't mean everybody should stay together no matter what, but in this particular instance--break up/makeup. I think you're either in or your out. You love them or you don't. If the relationship has potential and you're feelings are strong or you love them, you shouldn't be so quick to break up. It should be taken more seriously, with more care. I don't even like threats of breaking up. I mean if you're going to threaten to leave me every time I piss you off, why the hell are you even with me? You know?
I think when people break up and make up over and over, the relationship is already suffering and damaged. There's probably lack of trust due to so many break ups. It's just all around damaging to a realtionship. If you care, why not make an effort to hold your relationship together? If you need an out each time you're upset, how do you expect it to last? What reasons to break up in the first place? Cheating? If I'm going to break up with my partner it's going to be over something totally destroying to our relationship, and in that case, I wouldn't need or want to go back into that relationship.
People should not leave over petty things. Know what you have. Don't take those things for granted. I'm not directing these thoughts toward you, although I say "you..." I am just talking in general. That's my opinion.