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How often do you get introspective about yourself?

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Contributor: js250 js250
Do you ever sit there, look at the deepest recesses of your soul and let the thoughts just tumble out as they may? Obviously that is what I have been doing lately, as if you have not guessed from my topics! One of the hardest things to do is to take a good, hard look at yourself, who you are and what you truly believe about yourself. AND be honest about it!!! Not self-deprecating, no feeling sorry, no putting yourself down--just an honest, hard hitting and eye opening look. Good and bad.....

--Do you ever do this?
--Have you ever wanted to?
--How has it helped to make you a better person or to re-asses your life?
05/21/2013
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Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
Far more often then I should. My head is a dangerous and scarey place and I should stay out of it for as long as possible.
05/21/2013
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
Yeah, I do this way too often. I'm sure that it's good for some but I'm way too neurotic.
05/21/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I do this pretty often, especially if I am in a weird mood. I like to assess why I feel that way and evaluate my choices. Sometimes it has led to major life changes, which have definitely had a positive effect.
05/21/2013
Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
my therapist wants me too but my attention span sucks and my mind wanders quickly
05/21/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by js250
Do you ever sit there, look at the deepest recesses of your soul and let the thoughts just tumble out as they may? Obviously that is what I have been doing lately, as if you have not guessed from my topics! One of the hardest things to do is to take ... more
Too often. It often doesn't make me a better person...it just makes me wish that I was motivated and had the resources to be that better person.
05/21/2013
Contributor: xgreatlovex xgreatlovex
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Originally posted by js250
Do you ever sit there, look at the deepest recesses of your soul and let the thoughts just tumble out as they may? Obviously that is what I have been doing lately, as if you have not guessed from my topics! One of the hardest things to do is to take ... more
I over think EVERYTHING so yes I do this all the time! LOL my recent kick just tonight actually is I'm so amazed with how much I LOVE what I do! I'm a photographer and it is just SO special to be included in peoples special moments! I am in the business of special moments! LOL
05/21/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
I try to do this occasionally, if nothing else--to let the bats out and regroup the marbles, lol!! Seriously, I found that if I get like that I need to ride it through, there is a reason for it! There is a point of too dang much, but then trying for a distraction or going after an adrenaline kick will get me off the mode....
05/22/2013
Contributor: eri86 eri86
I can get lost in myself if I'm not careful.
05/22/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by js250
Do you ever sit there, look at the deepest recesses of your soul and let the thoughts just tumble out as they may? Obviously that is what I have been doing lately, as if you have not guessed from my topics! One of the hardest things to do is to take ... more
Yes, I do & it's something I try to do often. It is actually really beneficial for me. It can be scary though! lOL. I like to know even the deeper crap about myself though -- it's what helps me to improve myself and to be a better person for the people around me. Wow. That sounded so lame. Lol. But it's true.

I think I'm more sensitive to people's feelings and interact with them better and in a much closer way than before I bothered to really check into the insides of kendra30752. Lol. I just thought I was all these things I wanted to be. Funny, kind, good friend, smart, etc. They sounded good, so I assumed I was those things. I don't think I was NOT those things, but I definitely wasn't the best at them until I dug into my innards. I'm still not the best, but far more of an understanding person who is empathetic and can easily relate to other people & be whatever that particular person needs me to be for them. That is pretty much the big thing this has helped me to be.
05/22/2013
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
Nothing wrong with taking a good hard look at yourself. But at the same time; if you have good strong supportavive friends around, they will do it for you.
05/22/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
No - I'm not prone to introspection, I'd rather move one. Although I use the past to inform my choices, I don't dwell on the mistakes - or over emphasize the successes.
05/22/2013