I dont see masturbation and cheating in the same catagory at all!

First of all... Mr Scotch lets the tension build so the sex is mind blowing. However if it ever got that bad (Mrs has not let this happen yet) he would talk to her about it.

Now for the "cheat and masturbate"...we see this as being somewhat related. If Mr masturbates at say 3pm and then Mrs says she wants sex that night, there is a good chance that Mr is not going to be "up for it". Even if he is "up for it" the experience will not be quite as satisfying for Mrs. We view this as cheating each other out of their sexual satisfaction.

Mainly just Masturbate its perfectly healthy.

my Girlfriend and i both generally masturbate alone almost daily, regardless of whether we have or will have sex that day. It doesn't detract from Oour sex lives in the least and certainly could never be lumped into the same category as cheating! When it's been a while since Wwe had sex, usually there is a reason, such as an illness or something. If one of Uus is upset about it, Wwe talk about it, but it doesn't happen without reason very often. Masturbation has nothing to do with it either way and neither of Uus cheat.

I think Rod meant cheating as in "go ahead and take care of it yourself instead of waiting all that time".

It depends on where I am in my monthly cycle and how close it is to the weekend. I've gone a whole week without release, but then I'd have every night and still enjoy the sex. I really don't find any difference if it's slaked or not. It all has to do with my hormones.

We don't think he meant cheat, we agree he meant don't wait...Rod, what did you mean?????

Mrs can masturbate and still want sex later...actually she then usually wants it more...Mr, not so much...Mrs keeps telling him it's because he gets too much sex. If he got it less frequently he'd be up for it three to four times a day.

waiting does make it better

If I feel the need, I get off--alone or not. If I want to let it build, then we have agreed on it previous to the time issue--so no.

we're long distance most of the time, so uh, take a wild guess, haha.

Since my partner does OTR trucking we don't see each other as often as we would like so we just masturbate. If he were home all the time we wouldn't have to worry about sexual tension building.

Sometimes I hold off on masturbating (or my partner tells me to hold off for a few days) to build things up. It's delicious delicious torture.