would you take him back?
If he cheated....
03/24/2012
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Hell. No.
03/24/2012
No, I wouldn't
03/24/2012
Nope - and he knows that if he ever did I'd be out the door
03/24/2012
It's the same the other way around! If she cheated I wouldn't take her back.
03/24/2012
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Once a cheater always a cheater in my book-Not an easy thing but that is how I feel.
Originally posted by
SparklyGlitter
would you take him back?
03/24/2012
No way. But he would never cheat on me. I may be submissive but I am not when it comes to that type of stuff. I am downright aggressive.
03/24/2012
I'm in an open relationship where there it would be difficult for things to count as "cheating." I'm much more invested in emotional loyalty than anything else, and I have that. I'd take much much more offense if I were lied to.
Any number of Really Bad Things would terminate a relationship for me -- threats of physical harm, lying, stealing, emotional abuse -- but I don't ask for sexual exclusivity and don't want it for myself.
Any number of Really Bad Things would terminate a relationship for me -- threats of physical harm, lying, stealing, emotional abuse -- but I don't ask for sexual exclusivity and don't want it for myself.
03/24/2012
I would probably end things. We've had a related issue in the past, and I wouldn't be willing to stick around if he cheated.
03/24/2012
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I will be the stand alone here and say that it would depend on a variety of things. For instance, if you have children together, it's just not easy to get rid of him over what might be one incident. Also, cheating could be kissing someone else or sex with someone else. So, it depends.
Originally posted by
SparklyGlitter
would you take him back?
03/24/2012
thanks eveyone for voting and commenting
03/24/2012
No... cheating forever changes the relationship. = (
03/24/2012
No. If you cheat your gone
03/24/2012
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he cheated on me in 2008 with his ex wife, the only reason i took him back was 1. my family was 8 hrs away 2. i had just had my 2nd child 3 months prior and 3. we moved to my home state.
Originally posted by
SparklyGlitter
would you take him back?
IF he ever did it again NO way
03/24/2012
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Hell mother f'n no! Lol
Originally posted by
SparklyGlitter
would you take him back?
03/24/2012
Honestly, it depends on how committed I was in the first place.
03/24/2012
It really depends on how emotional the cheating was. If he has a mistress he's emotionally invested in that he's been seeing and lying to me about for months, then yeah, that's a problem and he needs to go be with her, or at least far away from me.
If it's a one-time drunken mistake and she means nothing to him, I can forgive him for having his head up his ass for an unfortunate couple hours. I know I would like the same consideration.
If it's a one-time drunken mistake and she means nothing to him, I can forgive him for having his head up his ass for an unfortunate couple hours. I know I would like the same consideration.
03/24/2012
No. It's statistically proven that someone who cheats once is more likely to cheat again. This is a deal breaker for me.
03/24/2012
I'm not sure. I've never been in that situation. It's possible, but some sort of agreement would have to be reached on the open/closed status of the relationship.
03/24/2012
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^ Exactly. It's happened to me before and that trust could not be rebuilt.
Originally posted by
Ghost
Hell. No.
03/24/2012
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I am 34 years old, my ex is 36 I broke up with him a month ago because I found out he was cheating on me with a girl who had just turned 20, he claims he loves her and cant be without her, so i left him, let him have her and I am actually happier now, I felt like our relationship was going no where and when I tried several times to break up with him before, he would cry and beg me not to leave him, but I will never ever take him back. he is immature and stupid and he can have his child like girlfriend..
Originally posted by
SparklyGlitter
would you take him back?
03/24/2012
I highly doubt it but I've never been in the situation. I'd rather him be open with me to begin with, then maybe I'd consider an open relationship without the lying and sneaking around and heartbreak of cheating.
03/24/2012
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Dated for five, married 32, going on 33. He knows my rule is STILL "one strike, your out". Mind you, I give him NO CAUSE to want to look elsewhere, but rules are rules.
Originally posted by
SparklyGlitter
would you take him back?
03/24/2012
Probably not.
04/24/2012
Hell no. There are too many fish in the sea to be with a cheater. That is a deal breaker.
04/24/2012
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You know why the answer is HELL NO!
Originally posted by
SparklyGlitter
would you take him back?
Tina Tuner song (fool in love) I have taken my EX back from 5 years relationship for him to cheat on me 3 time! Once a cheater is always a cheater! Next man enter my life has no second chance, he better makke the first one right.
05/27/2012
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ive made that mistake but I have to say it really depends.. alot of things come into play for that answer but i believe in second chances if the person is sorry and wants to change and seeks help to do so...
Originally posted by
SparklyGlitter
would you take him back?
05/27/2012
No and my husband is not a citizen and if he cheated you can bet I'd do everything to get his ass on the next plane to Nigeria. He would never cheat though.
05/27/2012
I've always said if he has the urge to cheat then pls just leave me. Well a month before our wedding I made out with my first love and later, feeling guilty from the moment it happened, I told him an begged him to leave me saying he didnt deserve that I didnt deserve him. He said Im human, humans make mistakes. I still feel horrible, but he's dropped it. In about a month we'll have been married for two years. I have no idea how I would handle it if he cheated. But I do know I'd try to understand, especially if he came to me and admitted it out of guilt.
05/27/2012
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