If it were possible, would you be a member of the opposite sex for one day?

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Think of it, would you swap your genitalia or body completely, in order to experience what it would be like to be someone of the opposite sex? Would you masturbate and have sex in the entirety of that 24 hour window? How else would you spend your time?

Would you do it to see what it was like to be treated by society as a man/woman? Do you think you'd have major, thought provoking revelations or a lot of fun?

Now, what if it had negative affects? What if you wished to stay as a member of the opposite sex but knew you never could because it was only an one time opportunity? Would you live with the angst of never being able to relive those 24 hours even if the pain and frustration was agonizing?

Or, what if your genitalia or body, after the 24 hours, did not return to normal and you were forever stuck as someone or with parts of the opposite sex- Would you be able to handle the consequences? And if you knew it could happen, would you still risk it?

Describe your choices below!

Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):

Yes.

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210 (88%)

No.

removedacnt , Mamastoys , DreamyLove , Tuesday , Sir , BlessedRaven , NY Toyfan , Passionate Pastor , B8trDude , softkkisses , dv8 , padmeamidala , wetone123 , Talena , xMila , Allison.Wilder , sexxxkitten , CindyH , SMichelle , puglove , apryls , Living Doll , marshmallow , CSM2010 , Stagger13 , Vanille

26 (11%)

Other.

Luscious Lily , ~Miss Jess~ , CoffeeCup , BrittaniMaree

4 (2%)

Total votes: 240

Poll is closed

06/09/2009

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removedacnt

Not in a million years!!! I love being a woman!!! I love everything about being a woman. Especially but not exclusively the multiple orgasms.

06/09/2009

Spicy Sunday

I absolutely would! And to be honest, work is a huge part of my life and it doesn't matter if you're male or female in my workplace, and my colleagues would be like, "Oh, that sounds nice, have fun with that," so societal reaction wouldn't be that interesting for me. So, yep, I'd spend the entire day having sex. I think I'd be happy enough going back to female, so no problem there. I guess if there was a real risk I wouldn't change back, I would think twice before saying "yes," but it would be a spontaneous decision in the moment whether or not I wanted to risk it.

06/09/2009

Viv

I definitely would. I'm completely genderqueer, so in my head I already switch around mentally, but I know with my build I could never pass physically without surgery. (I make one REALLY busty boy.)

I don't think I'd spend the entire day having sex--just the majority of it. Although I'm not sure I would be 100% positive in taking the risk if there was a chance I couldn't change back for pretty much one reason: I don't think I could function well in society as a guy. I am a very sexual person and think about sex probably way too often--and if there was an indicator to show, or say tent, that I was turned on? I'm not sure I could ever leave my house!

06/09/2009

Naughty Student

I think about it often. Actually I am like Sarou in terms of being turned on, I get wet in sexuality class (I actuallty wondered how he does to not get a boner in front of everyone during hot topics...maybe the fact that he is in front of everyone...anyways) or at any time bcs I constantly fantasize.

I think if I was a male I would have more advantages in terms of education not bcs of intelligence but really bcs of my sex. In the end I would risk but I love being a woman and I want to know what it is like to have children (even if it is painful as hell) so not turning back would suck.

06/10/2009

Rockin'

Aw, you had to make it a big risky question, SD. I'd definitely love to try out having a guy's body for a day, maybe even a week (I bet you could guess which week, ha!), but I'm pretty sure I'd want to return to my womanly form after some relatively short time (i.e. days/weeks). If I might not have that option of returning to my original form, ehhhh, I'd probably chicken out. I love my boobs too much to give them up permanently.

06/10/2009

Adriana Ravenlust

Why the hell not? Heh

06/10/2009

Rose Unlocked

I would love to try it even with the risk I would be mostly ok with ether of the risk.

06/10/2009

Liz2

I love being a woman, I love by body, imperfections and all. I enjoy the attention I get. I like the idea of being able to ask guys out w/o waiting for them to make the first move.
I think things are a lot different now for women then they were for my mother, but we still have a way to go.
But at the same time, I do have a curiosity about how the male body "feels" and functions during sex.

06/10/2009

Lithaewyn

Hell yeah. I wish I could just switch whenever I wanted to!

I only dress and act like a woman always because it's what's expected and it's easier, but I'm genderqueer underneath. I don't think I'll ever be completely satisfied one way or the other, so being stuck with a male body will only put me back to where I am now!

06/10/2009

Backseat Boohoo

I love being a woman, but that doesn't mean I've never been curious as to what it would feel like to be a guy.

06/10/2009

Mamastoys

I have not desire to be a man-even for a day..Just imagine the "honey-do" list! I'll pass! LOL

06/10/2009

Miss Cinnamon

I would LOVE being a guy for a day... of course, I would probably spend the entire day in bed, fulfilling my partner's bicurious fantasies =] And pee standing up.

06/10/2009

Airen Wolf

(EF Review Program Mentor)

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Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon

I would LOVE being a guy for a day... of course, I would probably spend the entire day in bed, fulfilling my partner's bicurious fantasies =] And pee standing up.

Now see that was my first thought...I'd wait till winter and actually get to write my name in the snow! Always envied my cousins that particular skill! I know I would be definately stroking and playing with myself cause it looks so darn fun when I see my guys do it. I'd get to try all the sleeves offered here and maybe write a neat blow up doll review like Yeti and SD! Golly all the things I would do! I'd also get to see if either of my guys really IS turned on by the idea of a BI romp...or go girl chasing with the hubby!
I wonder though if either guy would consent to being female for a day...now THAT could be real fun, me the guy with them as the females. I sense an erotic story coming on!

06/10/2009

Luscious Lily

While I think it might be fun to be a man for a day, I love being a woman too much to actually want to have the body of a man for the day, especially if there was any chance that I wouldn't be able to change back.

What WOULD appeal to me is being a hermaphrodite for a day. It's a fantasy that's been wandering around in the back of my head for a long time. And if I got stuck that way, I would enjoy it enough that I while I'd regret getting stuck, I'd get over it.

Does that make me greedy for kind of wanting it both ways?

06/10/2009

Tuesday

I have no desire to be a man, not even for a minute. I would be desperately unhappy if I found myself transformed.

06/10/2009

Pumpkin Lady

I wouldn't risk it if it weren't guaranteed. However, I would really want to know what a guy's mind is like up there! Granted, guys aren't that hard to figure out, but our minds are hard-wired differently. We come to conclusions in different ways. If I could be a man for a day, maybe I could communicate better after being inside one's head.

06/10/2009

Stuck In Dreamland

I think I'd love to be a guy for a day. I'm mostly a tomboy anyways so I kind of think like a guy sometimes, so i guess it wouldn't be much of a change for me. lol.

06/11/2009

ScottA

It would be interesting provided that I could switch with my wife (I'd want some consistency). That might be more "Freaky Friday" than Sleeping Dreamer intended, though.

I don't think I'd want to be switched and just "tossed out there", though. Even for a day.

06/11/2009

Raven

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Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon

I would LOVE being a guy for a day... of course, I would probably spend the entire day in bed, fulfilling my partner's bicurious fantasies =] And pee standing up.

You took the words right out of my mouth. I would love to be able to pee standing up. I have wondered what it actually feels like to a man to have genitals on the outside of the body where the evidence of arousal is visible. I've always liked that I didn't but it would be fun to experience it as long as I could go back to being female at the end of the day. But, just for the day, I would definitely love to stroke my own cock to climax and then to know what it feels like to slide into a vagina.

07/10/2009

Anais Nubian

Heeellz yeah! I always told my friends this, with of course the weirdest of stares. But I would LOVE to be a guy for 24 hrs. Yes I adore being female, but I'm incredibly curious, especially about the masterbating and intercourse thing. Haha! I'd probabaly wanna try it out for a week actually, as that entire 24 hr period I would be either knockin' boots with somebody, or in some way knockin' my own !

07/20/2009

Gary

I'd do it! Yes, and it would 24 hours of sex stuff. I would try to figure out and experience everything that I have ever wondered about.

07/20/2009

Alan & Michele

I'd rather be male period, not just for a day. They just seem to have so much less to worry about during sex play than women do.

07/20/2009

Backseat Boohoo

Just for the record, ladies, girls CAN pee standing up. Put your index and middle finger in a V, put on finger on each labia, and pull up. It may take a while to get your aim right, but it should pull your uretha more upright.

Ah, Girl Scouts. The useful trivia you taught me.

07/21/2009

Backseat Boohoo

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Originally posted by Alan & Michele

I'd rather be male period, not just for a day. They just seem to have so much less to worry about during sex play than women do.

But on the other hand, they usually have to do a little more work to get their partner off. So it's a double-edged sword.

07/21/2009

Raven

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Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo

Cool! I'm going to have to try that, for sure, but I think I will wait until I get home. Should things go awry here at my office, well. . .that's a bad visual.

07/21/2009

Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)

Quote:

Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon

I would LOVE being a guy for a day... of course, I would probably spend the entire day in bed, fulfilling my partner's bicurious fantasies =] And pee standing up.

Oooh, tell us more.

About the fantasies, not the peeing standing up!

07/21/2009

Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)

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Originally posted by Alan & Michele

I'd rather be male period, not just for a day. They just seem to have so much less to worry about during sex play than women do.

I partially disagree. A man can't exactly fake arousal, whereas a woman totally can. Sometimes (like when you're tired, or have been drinking) it's tricky to switch on an instant boner when required - and my wife tells me that regardless of what they might say, many women do feel unattractive if their man can't get a strong, powerful erection fairly quickly.

07/21/2009

Alan & Michele

This is turning out to be a really interesting conversation! I guess I was basing my opinion on the following thoughts I've had on the matter:

#1. It appears much easier for a man to reach orgasm (think of how much effort some put into holding back).
#2. Men don't have to deal with periods, pregnancy, or menopausal symptoms, all which can hinder one's sex life.
#3. Birth control for a male is very uncomplicated, when thought of in combined terms of obtaining it, using it, and side effects.
#4. Men don't have to worry about whether or not a toy or a lube is going to give them a yeast infection.
#5. Men don't have to worry about HPV (the cancer-causing kind), even if they have it, but women do.
#6. If you're miles from a bathroom, men don't have to hang their arse out into the wind to pee (nor do they have to hunt down something to use for toilet paper!)

Then again, Backseat Boohoo and Red Roulette, your answers are both absolutely true, and things I hadn't considered before. A lot of women *do* get upset and feel unattractive if the man doesn't get hard, and many place the responsibility for their orgasms solely on the man's shoulders. And even if they don't, then I know men who feel inadequate if their partner doesn't get off every encounter, even they're with someone who has never been able to before. Alan just pointed out that people tend to place all the blame for any unwanted pregnancy on the guy's shoulders instead of the girl's as well. I have to admit, that all would be rough, so I suppose both sides have their fair share of positive & negative.

So then, to get back to the theme of the thread (sorry SD... I wasn't trying to hijack it or anything), yes, I'd still jump at the chance to be the opposite sex for a day, if for no other reason than to feel what it was like to experience sex and masturbation from the "other side." And yes, I believe I'd spend the entire 24 hours in bed as much as possible!

07/21/2009

Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)

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Originally posted by Alan & Michele

Funnily enough, you mention the toy issue - I used a masturbation sleeve once that nicked the underside of my penis and put me out of action for a week, so men have perils with sex toys too!

Back to SD's original question, as you wisely suggested ;-) Funnily enough, I'd have no desire to be a woman even for a day. I LOVE women - I love everything about them. Their softer skin, the beautiful curves... Have you ever noticed that almost any woman is beautiful naked, while the naked male body is generally VERY awkwardly put together? I love women's minds - the slight differences in the way they think and talk and act. I'm in absolute AWE of women - but have never experienced a curiosity at wanting to be one.

07/21/2009

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