If it were possible, would you be a member of the opposite sex for one day?

Contributor: Raven Raven
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Originally posted by Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
Funnily enough, you mention the toy issue - I used a masturbation sleeve once that nicked the underside of my penis and put me out of action for a week, so men have perils with sex toys too!

Back to SD's original question, as you wisely ... more
Wow, Red Roulette, that was a very lovely second paragraph. Maybe you should try your hand at writing erotic romance novels.
07/21/2009
Contributor: LiftedUp LiftedUp
Absolutely!

I am a male, and would love to experience being female for a day. It's funny, because my wife and I have had the exact same conversation as this poll. We both have said that if we could swap with each other we would, and have a lot of sex. However, she always says if there was a risk of her STAYING male, she wouldn't do it. As for me, even if there was a risk, I would still probably do it. First and foremost, I would love to physically experience any and all female sexual acts possible just know what they feel like, how intense they are, and how they compare to male sensations. Secondly, I am completely enamored with female sexuality... the power they hold in their looks, their confidence, the way they walk, the sexy clothes and lingerie they wear... I think it would be a ball to be a female and show myself off just to turn heads and cock tease a bit!
08/24/2009
Contributor: stuck in the middle stuck in the middle
I'm actually looking at full transition.I think it would be great for everyone to live as the opposite sex for a day.Would help us all be able to communicate much better and make for better sex because we would have a better working knowledge of how our partner works.I'd love to be able to try it out for a day just too see before I make the final decision but from all I've read who have there are very few who regret it.Neither side has it any better than the other its just flip sides of a coin both with the positives and negatives.As for the chance for the bad side effects I'd just deal with em keeping in mind I'd still be the same person at the core
08/24/2009
Contributor: Envy Envy
My bf and I would swap, sure. However he's a very feminine boy and I'm a very masculine girl, so I think we were born the wrong gender to begin with!

Also, I wouldn't mind being a boy and staying one. No periods anymore for me, wahoo!
08/24/2009
Contributor: sallyjean sallyjean
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Originally posted by Liz2
I love being a woman, I love by body, imperfections and all. I enjoy the attention I get. I like the idea of being able to ask guys out w/o waiting for them to make the first move.
I think things are a lot different now for women then they were ... more
I also have always been curious about that
08/28/2009
Contributor: Maiden Maiden
I love being in a woman, but I would be interested in being a male. If for other reason than to have a penis and know what it feels like.
08/28/2009
Contributor: Cinnamon Cinnamon
My only purpose for this is to do the "helicopter", naked jumping jacks, and surprise buttsex!
09/19/2009
Contributor: Colossus Colossus
One Word: Boobs.
09/22/2009
Contributor: gone77 gone77
Abso-freaking-lutely! I have major penis envy. I actually prefer men to women (not just sexually) and I love hanging out with them. Women often drive me fucking nuts and I don't understand them, but I "get" males. And most days I hate being female.
09/22/2009
Contributor: gone77 gone77
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Originally posted by gone77
Abso-freaking-lutely! I have major penis envy. I actually prefer men to women (not just sexually) and I love hanging out with them. Women often drive me fucking nuts and I don't understand them, but I "get" males. And most days I hate being female.
OK, based on the original post that started this, I see that I skimmed over some questions.

"Would you masturbate and have sex in the entirety of that 24 hour window? How else would you spend your time?"

I would most likely masturbate a lot, and I would try to have sex with at least one guy and one chick, preferably separately.

"Would you do it to see what it was like to be treated by society as a man/woman? Do you think you'd have major, thought provoking revelations or a lot of fun?"

It would be interesting to see how I'm treated as a male. As for the second question, I would hope I'd have both.

"Now, what if it had negative affects? What if you wished to stay as a member of the opposite sex but knew you never could because it was only an one time opportunity? Would you live with the angst of never being able to relive those 24 hours even if the pain and frustration was agonizing?

"Or, what if your genitalia or body, after the 24 hours, did not return to normal and you were forever stuck as someone or with parts of the opposite sex- Would you be able to handle the consequences? And if you knew it could happen, would you still risk it?"

To keep it short, I'll provide a simple answer to both questions: Yes.
09/22/2009
Contributor: Sam Benjamin Sam Benjamin
I'm too beset by run-of-the-mill Jewish neurotic Philip Roth style castration anxiety to even imagine being happy without a dong . . . in fact I think I'd like to have *two* penises . . . is that an option?
09/23/2009
Contributor: JEM JEM
Heck yea! I have penis envy!!
10/21/2009
Contributor: Destri Destri
I have always wanted to be a man for just one day... I LOVE being a woman, but the curiosity about having a penis is just too much for me. I want to know what that is like.
11/19/2009
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Can I go two days? The first day would be all play in my room while I raid my gf's toys.
The 2nd day would go towards all the social stuffs. Heck, if single, I'd go to the gym or some other type of place with a locker room and just hang out. Ok, maybe a little perv, but I would so do it. I don't get how lesbians do it...epic self control I guess.
11/19/2009
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
i'm the curious type so sure - i just want a lover who can help me with multiple orgasms - like i so graciously provide to my wife!
11/19/2009
Contributor: Sir Sir
Since I know what it feels like to live in the other sex's body, I would never if I didn't have to. Not a fun feeling at all. It's not just about being a fun game and using the body to get perks, because living in the opposite sex's body for one day is a lot more than that; it takes away what you know and are used to, it takes away your ability to be comfortable, and it takes away your ability to be who you really are internally. Sometimes, people think that it would be nice to do that because of the physical aspect, but really, as someone who knows what it feels like, it isn't fun at all.
11/19/2009
Contributor: Me4real Me4real
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Originally posted by Nashville
Think of it, would you swap your genitalia or body completely, in order to experience what it would be like to be someone of the opposite sex? Would you masturbate and have sex in the entirety of that 24 hour window? How else would you spend your ... more
I would love to be male for one day, but only for one day. I wouldn't try it if I thought for a moment that I might not go back to being female.
01/03/2010
Contributor: EffinSara EffinSara
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Originally posted by gone77
Abso-freaking-lutely! I have major penis envy. I actually prefer men to women (not just sexually) and I love hanging out with them. Women often drive me fucking nuts and I don't understand them, but I "get" males. And most days I hate being female.
Same on all counts.
01/03/2010
Contributor: Maiden Maiden
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Originally posted by Maiden
I love being in a woman, but I would be interested in being a male. If for other reason than to have a penis and know what it feels like.
lmao! I just noticed that I wrote... I love being IN a woman... lol

I meant being a woman... no IN...
01/04/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
My fiance and I have this conversation a lot actually, and if we could switch for a day, we would and we would spend the whole day in bed with each other just to see what everything feels like for the other person
01/24/2010
Contributor: ShercockHolmes ShercockHolmes
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Originally posted by Nashville
Think of it, would you swap your genitalia or body completely, in order to experience what it would be like to be someone of the opposite sex? Would you masturbate and have sex in the entirety of that 24 hour window? How else would you spend your ... more
I would totally like to see what it would be like to be a man for one day. I think that a man should try being a woman for one day as well, and let that day be during their period! there should be a movie like freaky friday where instead of waking up as the daughter, a couple wakes up in the body of their partner or spouse.

(this would be assuming that i turn into a heterosexual man, a gay man would be a whole new fantasy i'd have to write).
I would masturbate, and i'd try to compare the time it took me to 'get off' compared to how long it took me as a woman. would it take me longer? would it feel better/less or more/less euphoric? i would then go to the gym and get sweaty and hot and then ask out a real hot chick-and i'd know exactly how to go about doing it because i once had the mind of a woman, remember? lol. then i'd take her out and get in her pants because i'd have no consequences because i'd be back to a woman in 24hrs. I'd go down on her and i'd know exactly (well not exactly because every woman is different) but i'd pretty much know the areas that usual guys miss to get her to an orgasm. I'd probably try to see how many times i could cum in one day. and of course i'd measure my penis so that when i got back to being a woman i'd be able to compare my former size with all my future lovers. i'd probably also go out and buy a mold-a-willie from a sex shop, (sorry edenfantasys but i don't think you could fed express within 24hrs) and i'd mold it into a vibrator so that when i got back to being a woman, i could see how good my penis feels to a vagina. heck, i'd probably sleep with a woman after sleeping with the chick from the gym. i'd have to make it an early lunch date i guess. wow, i'd be a real a**hole douchebag.

i'd see what it was like in the locker room and the bathroom to see what the standard rules of conduct are like. supposedly guys won't talk to each other in the restroom.

i'd find a bunch of dudes, befriend them, and tell them about' this really hot girl i saw the other day at the gym' (using my female name, and description. mentioning times when i would be seen at the gym) so that when i got back to being a woman i'd have dates potentially lined up. i could find out if they were good candidates by hanging out with them and seeing if they had good intentions or if they were degrading and mental.

i'd probably hate the feeling i'd get after working out and having my balls itch or stick together. that would be interesting to know how that would feel. i'm not sure i'd mind the unsuspecting woodys like usual men do, but i'd figure out ways to cover them up. um. i hear getting an erection and stopping before ejaculating hurts so i'd see how that feels. and i'd also like to know how it feels to wear a condom. is it really that uncomfortable?


i'd eat a ton and then work out and get muscles because when you are a man being bulky and big isn't frowned up as much as it is with women. i'd tell other men, "hey bro, it looks like you've lost a lot of weight. still drinking that protein powder?" and get them all self conscious. lol.

i'd apply for job that i applied to as a woman. go to the interview and see if i got any different treatment.

i'd go to a strip club and get a lap dancer and i'd say, 'wow, what a smart and beautiful woman you are. no need to strip. here's a 20 just for having nice company.' and then i'd punch all the jerks that didn't tip and grabbed the asses and we'd probably all get thrown out by the bouncers. but i'd be strong from working out. i felt i had to redeem myself somehow for the way i treated the women i slept with. i wonder if men in real life feel guilty and then try to redeem themselves in a similar fashion.

i'd see what it would be like to be rejected as a man and then i'd cry like a baby in front of a bunch of women.

i'd see climb a rope to see how great my upperbody strength was compared to when i was a woman.

i'd piss on a tree and on a wall in an alley.

i'd basically see what kind of sports i could do. i'd slap other guys butts with a towel. i'd burp/belch. i'd go out in a shirt and pants and not have to worry about make up or what clothes to wear.

hopefully they wouldn't reinstitute "the draft" on that day.

my insurance on my car would probably go up so that would be a bummer.

i'd see how many beers it would take me to get drunk since my tolerance would be different.


i'd sleep with as many girls as possible in one day. i might even try to be bisexual if i had enough time.

i'd be sad that i had to go back to being a woman because i'd have the risk of getting pregnant and i probably wouldn't be able to sleep with as many people. not because of a different libido but because of the risk of pregnancy and a higher chance of contracting an std. men have a lower risk percentage because of their anatomy. but i'd hate to wake up as the same man i was those 24hrs with the consequences and angry voicemails i'd probably be facing the next day. that would suck.
01/28/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
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Originally posted by Nashville
Think of it, would you swap your genitalia or body completely, in order to experience what it would be like to be someone of the opposite sex? Would you masturbate and have sex in the entirety of that 24 hour window? How else would you spend your ... more
Absolutely. I tell him all the time how much fun I would have if only I had a penis for one day!
02/28/2010
Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
Hell Yes! Multiple orgasms and I can find out what pleases a women so I could be a better lover. It would also help understand them better but just for 1 or 2 days. I wouldn't want the monthly cycle and a few other things. Either sex has advantages and disadvantages I like who I am. Besides if I were a women I might not have meant my wife.
03/01/2010
Contributor: MarriedWithToyz MarriedWithToyz
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Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
I would LOVE being a guy for a day... of course, I would probably spend the entire day in bed, fulfilling my partner's bicurious fantasies =] And pee standing up.
I m with Miss Cinamon with this one. But, only for 24 hours then I want my bod back!
03/03/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Fun Lover
Hell Yes! Multiple orgasms and I can find out what pleases a women so I could be a better lover. It would also help understand them better but just for 1 or 2 days. I wouldn't want the monthly cycle and a few other things. Either sex has ... more
I fell the same way.
04/11/2010
Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
I'm very happy the way I am - I love my dick
08/05/2010
Contributor: sexysweetieshan sexysweetieshan
I definitely would if I could! I would love to be what it is like to have a penis. Stand up peeing. Peeing outside or however you please. Having something physically sticking out of your body. Having a boner. Masturbating yourself. Ejaculating. Sweet. I would love to try it sometime. Lol.
08/05/2010
Contributor: David88 David88
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Originally posted by ScottA
It would be interesting provided that I could switch with my wife (I'd want some consistency). That might be more "Freaky Friday" than Sleeping Dreamer intended, though.

I don't think I'd want to be switched and just ... more
Yeah I agree. Now that I'm married I'd only want it if I could switch with my wife but before wouldn't of mattered. I've always been curious what it's like for a girl
08/05/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
If it were only for one day, HELL YEAH! I'd love to see how I'd be treated as a man (I'm a tiny woman, so I hope I'd be a larger man. I'd be a hairy dude, I bet though. )

I would love to experience sex as a man, just once, (OK, maybe more than once) to see what it felt like. I've asked my husband about "what it feels like" and he just gives me answers without much detail, like "It feels fucking fantastic!" I'd like to know.

It isn't going to happen, as I love being a woman, but if there were some "Hot Tub Sex Change Machine" that would only give you ONE DAY as the opposite sex, I'd go for it.

Now, the only thing I'd have to worry about, is that as a woman, getting laid isn't that difficult. I've been told it's a little more difficult to get some as a man........
08/05/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
I would LOVE being a guy for a day... of course, I would probably spend the entire day in bed, fulfilling my partner's bicurious fantasies =] And pee standing up.
OH, the peeing thing! I forgot. OK, it would totally have to be in the winter, so I could write my name (or crude things) in the snow!
08/05/2010