In choosing with whom you associate with, do you lend more weight to how you feel about them or how they feel about you?

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In choosing with whom you associate with, do you lend more weight to how you feel about them or how they feel about you?

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Contributor: ImportPerv ImportPerv
In choosing with whom you associate with, do you lend more weight to how you feel about them or how they feel about you?
02/16/2013
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Contributor: Breas Breas
Typically how I feel about them.
02/16/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Its more of a mutual thing for me for equal contribution in an association. I usually gravitate toward individuals when I feel positive about them, their confidence, attitude and general opinions but close associations are built more on what I have in common with them.
02/16/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
Both. I choose people that enjoy and respect me and my opinions as much as I do theirs. I realize that it will be uneven as we go through many different experiences in our lives but in the end it eventually evens out and that is what the friendship is all about. Mutual respect and trust.
02/17/2013
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
How they feel about me, since I have very few friends.
02/17/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by ImportPerv
In choosing with whom you associate with, do you lend more weight to how you feel about them or how they feel about you?
Hmm.. Never considered this question before. Interesting topic.

I guess more on how I feel about them.
02/17/2013
Contributor: Chelynn67 Chelynn67
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Originally posted by ImportPerv
In choosing with whom you associate with, do you lend more weight to how you feel about them or how they feel about you?
I hope I would weigh both and hopefully I won't be wrong...again.
02/17/2013
Contributor: SecondStory SecondStory
I generally spend more time with people I like, if I don't like someone I tend to be really uncomfortable around them no matter how they feel about me.
02/17/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
Probably how I feel about them.

Sometimes I feel guilted into hanging out with people if I know/ get the feeling they have a crush on me, but that doesn't mean I'll hang out with them 24/7, just more often than I would if I didn't know that/ get that feeling from them, which is to say at all, lol

Only people I actually care about I go out of my way to spend an extreme amount of my time with
02/17/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
I feel, since if someone bothers me, I'll end up picking at them and causing them to get upset at me
02/17/2013
Contributor: purpledesert purpledesert
How they feel about me- I really feel bad ignoring someone who wants to put in the time.
02/18/2013