is it werid how open everyone is on EF?

Contributor: NicNat NicNat
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Does anyone think its werid how everyone can talk about there sex life, and persnal lifes, and how it fills when they use toys and what not?? I mean has anyone really thought about how open they get when they talk??
10/23/2011
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Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by NicNat
Does anyone think its werid how everyone can talk about there sex life, and persnal lifes, and how it fills when they use toys and what not?? I mean has anyone really thought about how open they get when they talk??
I talk like this to my friends, too. So it's not really weird for me personally. From what I've seen other posters say, many people on EF are like this. Some people here may want to talk about it in real life but are on the shy side so the internet give them a way to do it. Either way.
10/23/2011
Contributor: NicNat NicNat
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I talk like this to my friends, too. So it's not really weird for me personally. From what I've seen other posters say, many people on EF are like this. Some people here may want to talk about it in real life but are on the shy side so the ... more
Very true, and I'm pretty open to my friends.. but have you or anyone else ever wonder if there talking to someone they have met in real life.
10/23/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
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Originally posted by NicNat
Does anyone think its werid how everyone can talk about there sex life, and persnal lifes, and how it fills when they use toys and what not?? I mean has anyone really thought about how open they get when they talk??
For me, I am open about that stuff in the first place but I am not used to others being quite so open so it is a bit strange for me to see! But I certainly love it! I think it's because here, we all have 1 thing in common!
10/24/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I don't see a problem with it. The internet can be therapeutic, especially for people who would be more "shy" in the real world. Being allowed to talk freely with others is always good.
10/24/2011
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I talk this way with everyone, so nothing is really different for me on EF. Doesn't really phase me too much.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I have to censure myself in my real life - not because I'm uncomfortable with talking about such things, but because others are, so it's refreshing to talk so openly. But I'm not really surprised that everyone's so open on here. I guess it's a bit like a herd mentality thing. With everyone being so open, it becomes the norm, and so new people get swept up in that thinking, and on it goes.
10/25/2011
Contributor: Rarity Rarity
Sex and menstruation are two of my favourite topics to talk about! Those who know me well know that and to those people I am very open with.
10/25/2011
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
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Originally posted by NicNat
Does anyone think its werid how everyone can talk about there sex life, and persnal lifes, and how it fills when they use toys and what not?? I mean has anyone really thought about how open they get when they talk??
I don't think it's weird at all.
10/25/2011
Contributor: GenderSexplorations GenderSexplorations
I don't think it's strange. The internet gives an optional level of anonimity that many people find very freeing. Personally, I'm rather open in real life too and so are the people I hang out with, so I don't really notice.
10/25/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
It's not weird at all and if we didn't do these things Eden's community forum wouldn't exist. So many people have learned new things and delved into different aspects of sexuality BECAUSE we are so open about it.

Besides, if I meet someone on here that I know in real life, then we have something in common and they'd be a hypocrite to criticize me because they were doing the same thing I am.
10/25/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I enjoy the open atmosphere here. In the reality of my life at home there's only like two people I'd ever talk to about really intimate things and even that would have it's limits. Here I know I'm not being judged and if someone did judge me well hell it doesn't particularily matter.
10/25/2011
Contributor: domsub1993 domsub1993
It's definitely weird for me.
10/25/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I work in a sex shop so this is pretty normal. I get a bit more explicit online sometimes just because I can - wouldn't wanna freak the customers out, hah. My coworkers and I are very candid with each other, though. I think it's great to have such a non-judgmental outlet like EF for this kind of open discussion.
10/25/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
We're all adults here, with varying levels of sexual experience in different areas of sex so I feel the openness is liberating. We can ask questions that maybe our friends at home wouldn't know about because they don't enjoy the same things we do. I know here I can ask anything regardless of the topic and will get an educated response from several members of the community.

I'm open with my two male best friends and they know a lot about my sex life. They're just like anyone else here making a poll I've had them ask me before if I shave and if so is it bald or landing strip, what my favorite position is, what kind of underwear I wear, what's my favorite lingerie etc. I tell them the truthful answer just like I do on the polls and I personally know these guys. I don't feel uncomfortable with them asking or sharing the results because they're my friends and we're open and honest with each other about everything.
10/25/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
We're all adults. I'm open about sex with my friends as well. I feel very comfortable talking about intimate things here.
10/25/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Does anyone think its werid how everyone can talk about there sex life, and persnal lifes, and how it fills when they use toys and what not?? I mean has anyone really thought about how open they get when they talk??
We have a small group of friends who get together weekly for dinner, who have been having these conversations for years. Now, with the EF Family, we can open up, and have even MORE material to take to our "dinners". We have one advantage. Most of the others in our group are older, and just don't play on the computer much, so other then ONE of our group of 14 or so couples....NONE are here!!!!!!!!!
10/26/2011
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Does anyone think its werid how everyone can talk about there sex life, and persnal lifes, and how it fills when they use toys and what not?? I mean has anyone really thought about how open they get when they talk??
I absolutely love when people are open about it! I don't find it weird at all.
08/26/2020
Contributor: Wickedly Yours Wickedly Yours
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Originally posted by NicNat
Does anyone think its werid how everyone can talk about there sex life, and persnal lifes, and how it fills when they use toys and what not?? I mean has anyone really thought about how open they get when they talk??
I kinda like it... i feel weird talking to my friends about stuff like this sometimes.
08/30/2020
Contributor: aznbbgirl aznbbgirl
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Does anyone think its werid how everyone can talk about there sex life, and persnal lifes, and how it fills when they use toys and what not?? I mean has anyone really thought about how open they get when they talk??
No, I don't find it weird given the nature of this site and the purpose of these forums for the community here. I hadn't really thought much of it but can say I'm definitely more open on here than I would be with some of my friends or even other strangers who I might meet in real life.
09/02/2020
Contributor: Thelovelysexxto1 Thelovelysexxto1
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Originally posted by NicNat
Does anyone think its werid how everyone can talk about there sex life, and persnal lifes, and how it fills when they use toys and what not?? I mean has anyone really thought about how open they get when they talk??
I actually enjoy it not only because it gives you even more ideas to try but you can also meet people that are actually like you and you can bond on something that you both like.
09/07/2020