"You're fat!"
"Yes, I am."


That's pretty much how it would go down.
My partner said something earlier today and we were talking about weight. He said, "You're not fat, you're beautiful." I asked, "Why can't I be fat and beautiful?"

End fat-shaming! There is nothing wrong with being fat!

I doubt it would happen, as I'm fairly small (short petite and a little zaftig, but not "fat" in many people's opinions) sized. If it did, so what? I don't take my inner feelings from external sources.

It depends on the person. Is this someone she was "talking to" as in considering a relationship with? If so then I'd drop him right away because he obviously doesn't respect her. If it was a friend, I don't know, sometimes guy friends can say some pretty stupid stuff when they are mad so it would depend on how good of a friend they were if I'd let it go, I atleast expect an apology. If it's a boyfriend I'd seriously consider the relationship and staying with him. Was this the first time? That's pretty hurtful and to me that qualifies as emotional/mental abuse. If it was the first time and I forgave the person and they continued to insult/put me down then it'd be best to walk away because relationships like that don't get any better. I'm sure we have all said things we don't mean when mad but we know the topics to steer clear from and attacking someone's physical appearance that you are supposed to care about is one of the cruelest things to do, especially if the person has self-esteem problems. Besides, EVERY man with average intelligence KNOWS you DO NOT put down a girl's looks if you intend to have a good relationship with them, be it intimate or as friends. Siblings on the other hand, that's different but I can't comment on that perspective because I'm an only child. A stranger, yeah I'd be hurt and depending on my mood that day I may insult their appearance, tell them to fuck off or just act like it didn't phase me at all. The best thing to do in that situation is act like you don't care but sometimes (for me atleast) it's hard to bite my tongue and I'm quick to fire one back.

I used to fit then I gained the college weight alot of us get. I got active again and am on the Herbalife herbal diet and I've lost 15pounds in 2 months but I have foot damage and am getting surgery so I'm gonna be unable to do my cardio in the gym setting until late July but I'm sticking to my diet and I'm not going to eat any more or 'cheat' while I'm healing and I plan to lose more. I'm doing it to FEEL healthy because I don't. I don't expect to ever be like a size 4 and I don't care. People use that word to hurt other people's feelings and it usually works. But I see GORGEOUS women from tiny to large, weight doesn't make a person ugly.

You're gorgeous, who the hell cares if you're not a twig? I just want to know who the hell said fat=ugly. Thin, built, average, chubby, thick, fat, all types of people are beautiful OR ugly. I hear people get made fun of and insulted for being TOO skinny. There's just an abundance of assholes out there that will call you out on what they know will hurt you most. You just have to build up your tough skin, I'm still working on it.

if he called me fat I'd call 911 because he would need one after saying that junk to me!