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Contributor: SimpleTeaser SimpleTeaser
When being intimate, do you prefer the lights to stay on? Or, do you prefer to have them off?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Keep them on, I want to see everything!
8  (24%)
Turn the lights off
4  (12%)
Doesn't matter
21  (64%)
Total votes: 33
Poll is closed
03/09/2012
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Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
On.
03/09/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Definitely on.
03/09/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by SimpleTeaser
When being intimate, do you prefer the lights to stay on? Or, do you prefer to have them off?
There are times when it "does matter" to me, but normally, if we're in the moment, I really don't take too much thought to it.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Breas Breas
we like candles : D
03/09/2012
Contributor: Nora Nora
Whichever they happen to be at the time, though we do occasionally dim them if one of us ends up "staring" at the light bulb...
03/09/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by SimpleTeaser
When being intimate, do you prefer the lights to stay on? Or, do you prefer to have them off?
I don't care. Though I do tend to laugh if we are fumbling around in the dark.
03/09/2012
Contributor: HugsAndBites HugsAndBites
i dont mind either way
03/09/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
I generally like the lights off, so i can focus on feeling and not how i look...
03/09/2012
Contributor: corsetsaurus rex corsetsaurus rex
I figure if they minded how I looked nekked we wouldn't have gotten to the sexing stage, and I have the selfish need to look at the person I'm with. Thinking about how I look doesn't really occur to me at these times (thank god!)but seeing my sig. other is really important to me.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Lover of Leather Lover of Leather
Depends on my mood, and how much time we have
03/09/2012
Contributor: Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
I used to be 100 pounds smaller and I could care less if lights were on or off, but now that Ive gained so much weight i still will have sex with lights on or during the day but prefer them off.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
It doesn't matter to me. I don't think we've had sex in the dark very often, though. We're both big and we don't give a damn. We know what we look like naked so why should we care?
03/09/2012
Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
Doesn't really matter. I don't mind the lights being on -- I want to see everything anyways and I don't mind the lights off. As long as it is with someone I care about, done deal. xoxo
03/09/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
It doesn't really matter, but I'd prefer candle light or something, so they aren't all the way on, but I can still see my partner.
But, you can't really turn the sun off with day sex, so that's why it doesn't really matter.
03/10/2012
Contributor: SimpleTeaser SimpleTeaser
Thank you all for sharing! I am glad to see that I'm not alone in why I prefer the lights to be off.
03/12/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
Whatever my partner is in the mood for.
03/12/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Whatever happens.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I used to leave them on, then I was with a few guys who preferred to turn them off. Personally I'm not too bothered.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Doesn't matter to us.
03/30/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
Mood lights!
03/30/2012