non-body turn ons

Oh yeah, I agree with Happy Lady, shoes get me all hot and bothered! Music has that effect on me, and frankly, I find certain food to be very erotic...

It always gets me turned on to watch my husband lick an ice cream cone while looking into my eyes. He's the same way with me sipping a drink out of a straw.

The rumble of a true muscle car. Extreme intelligence! Both get me going like you wouldn't believe.

Fresh sweat in a man's hairy armpit. Mmm!

A guy playing guitar and singing while looking at me. OMG. Gets me every damn time.

That's hot, I wish I would find a gaming geek girl with a sweet machine. Who of course likes the same type of games as I do.

That's good to know I'm trying to learn how to play the guitar but right now I can only play twinkle twinkle little star..

As for turn-on's for me.. in no particular order

-I like small tits almost a tiny bulge to them.. But not D size.. I wouldn't not date someone with huge tits I just prefer small ones. I dunno why, that is like the opposite I hear from all guys.. and when I tell them they give me an odd look.. SMALL?!?!
-Pale skin.. White like a ghost
-A woman that can teach me something when I don't understand what a word means in a book or how to do my math homework that I never learned how to do properly.. Generally some one just a whole lot more book-smart than I am.. I'm to technical and hands on to get the whole school book stuff.. hence the reason I dropped out... I read books like A+ Certificate and sometimes if they come with my PC the books like Motherboard manuals. But if I can learn something everyday from my GF or Wife that is HUGE.. But I love to teach what I do know and give hands on lessons, short lectures and fix others computer problems if they have one I know how to fix... generally I would just Google the error message and follow the directions.. Works great!
-I'm a sucker for pink and blue or wild hair colors and dews..
-A girl that wears sneakers as opposed to other girl shoes.. Especially white sneakers with blue or pink highlights..
-Also I think maybe 1 or 2 small color tattoos are hot BUT it depends where and what they are of. Ear piercings I like lots but don't like other types of piercings..
-If she spoke 2 languages and thought me how to speak some of it.. Also European and Canadian accents get me wild I love it when they say some words, I remember I was talking to a Canadian chick online and she sounded so kick ass.. Then I married her in game so she'd talk to me more. Even if it's a guys accent I still dig it when they say certain accented words.. I love to point it out too when they say it, so they say it again (best thing ever to get them to say it twice).. I'm so mean..

I guess most of my stuff relates to Goth women. But I never had the chance to talk to one so I don't know what the whole goth thing really is or what it's about.. it could be something I'm not interested in for a woman I would want to marry.. I think the "look" is sexy if it's light and not to heavy into the Gothic stuff.

BTW does goth mean they worship the devil BC that would be to weird for me as I don't believe in religions, but the strange thing is I follow some of the Christian rules they have set up BC they just make sense to me...

I am not sure if this qualifies in this specific topic or not, but I think that the single biggest turn on for me in any category is being able to really talk to and communicate with a woman.

I tend to be pretty guarded and distant and I have no patience for small talk or pretending to be interested in something when I am not. I have found that most conversations with strangers and acquaintances tend to be an obvious platform of self promotion, and a way to test the waters as to how useful a person can be to you, if at all. I am aware that this kind of thinking can lead to missed opportunities of occasionally talking to people outside of this stereotype, but I have never once in my life thought that I needed more friends.

Now moving on past that overly dramatic negativity…

There have been very few times in my life when I have ever really connected to anyone, that I have not already known since before I can even remember. The most significant of these rarest of occurrences, is when I met my wife. There is a little bit of a back story on how this event came to happen, but the outcome is our own personal fairy tale.

Looking back I didn’t realize all of the significance right away, but I could not stop thinking about her (until we finally did end up together). That first night we met, she knew about my band and had read some of my writing online which definitely helped to break the ice. Talking was very comfortable and easy… and more than any thing else, sincere.

Not that I am very intelligent or anything like that, but I find that most of the time when I talk to people it is pretty black and white. There are no underlying subtleties or complex thoughts and emotions weaving through the interaction, just base level, thinly veiled animal behavior. So you can imagine the shock and disbelief that I felt afterward. Reflecting on how good it felt to talk to and laugh with a woman who could keep up with my words and especially my thoughts. She stole my heart that night.

Big jacked up trucks - I agree Always Ready (("There's something about a dirty truck. A guy who's not afraid to go out and get his rig a little banged up. Camping, fishing, doing donuts in the middle of a wet field...mmmm yummy. It can't just be unwashed/dusty though it has to be dirty. Mud, twigs, grass, gonna-need-a-sandblast er-to-get-this-one-cle an dirty")) - Going to the drag races or a NASCAR race. Love me a powerful loud engine! YUMMMMMM!!!

Watching someone uber talented play any instrument - especially the drums or the guitar.

Talent in anything really just gets me all hot and bothered.

And lastly any material on my skin that isn't supposed to be there - a couch on my bare ass - silk material flowing over my breasts, my husband's stubble on my legs

gimme intelligence. if she can talk postmodernist theory and advanced literature analysis, then i'm likely interested and turned on. but, i dig academic types.

other ones i can't really explain: women wearing toe shoes for ballet are strangely attractive. also, being a model for artwork (doesn't have to be sexual or even nude) is an instant turn on for me.

Music. I have been known to have a strange kind of orgasm during concerts or the choral or orchestral variety. Usually they happen while listening, but back when I was in choir, they occasionally happened on stage... Mozart's Requiem caused a few of those.

I love me some musician hands, and the more talented the musician, the sexier then hands become. They can be the most wrinkled, stained, callused hands in the world, but if they can coax sweet music out of an instrument, they instantly become sexy to me.

Muscular arms are also a big turn on for me, as long as they aren't body-builder chiseled.

I definitely get turned on by certain songs that have a low rhythm and lots of base.

I don't know why but I get uber turned on when I watch my partner playing hockey, snowboarding or just doing anything at all that he is good at. He's a natural athlete and when I see him do what he does well I feel so proud and it turns me on to just see him swooshing in the snow on his board or skating after a puck. I bet if I went to see him at work I would have to bring an extra pair of panties (he's a roofer so its physical and he gets very dirty and stinky, I am always aroused when he gets home from work)

Intelligence too, but intelligence in terms of people smarts rather than school smart. I love people who have there own opinion on things rather than feeding back what they've read in a book.You can be really smart and know lots of stuff. I dont give fudge all about how much stuff a person knows, I get much more engaged having a deep existential conversation amongst other topics.

I get super turned on when I wax and trim my pussy. It's like a pleasure ritual bcs every time I shave and so on lovemaking always follows.

Otherwise I do not get turned on by objects (apart for those designed for pleasure )