The New Intimacy

Nudity and intercourse...What was their order with your current or last relationship?

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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
We're you seen nude way before intercourse, the same day/time as having sex for the first time or maybe you had sex for the first time in the dark and you weren't seen naked until after having sex? Maybe you weren't seen naked at all the first time or maybe there was weeks of naked foreplay before actually having intercourse. Lots of possibilities in this curious question.

Just to be clear, I'm talking about the first time you had sex with intercourse, not foreplay or oral sex.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
They saw me naked months before we had intercourse
Checkmate , Sbmsvschoolgirl , SMichelle , PeachieClean , brevado , BlooJay , Leather & Lace
7  (13%)
They saw me naked weeks before we had intercourse
Ansley , Martiniman
2  (4%)
They saw me naked one week before we had intercourse
They saw me naked days before we had intercourse
Sera26 , rihanne , gsfanatic
3  (6%)
They saw me naked a day before we had intercourse
They saw me naked the day we had intercourse
K101 , PropertyOfPotter , Geogeo , Trysexual , padmeamidala , captainsgirl , Cindi025 , Living Doll , SecretKinksters , deltalima , EmuLove , Sassy Pam , JoshJosh123 , ImmaFreak , LavenderSkies , Painandpleasure0311 , CasLass , ihavenipples , Cosmonaut , sweetpea12 , Alyona , doowop , slaveaeval
23  (43%)
They saw me naked right before we had intercourse
Chelynn67 , novanilla , edeneve , twelve13
4  (7%)
They didn't see me naked until after we had intercourse because it was dark
leanright69 , spiced
2  (4%)
They didn't see me naked for days/weeks after having intercourse
jr2012
1  (2%)
They never saw me naked although we had intercourse
vulvalicious
1  (2%)
Other...please explain
Chilipepper , P'Gell , RonLee , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , ShadowedSeductress , Raymaker , Falsepast , SP , ViVix , Bleu , Do emu
11  (20%)
Total votes: 54
Poll is closed
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Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
We're you seen nude way before intercourse, the same day/time as having sex for the first time or maybe you had sex for the first time in the dark and you weren't seen naked until after having sex? Maybe you weren't seen naked at all the ... more
Fun poll!

I wasn't ever seen totally naked by a partner before me and my partner got together & he seen me naked only they day we had intercourse. Now it's almost daily. Lol.

In fact, the day he seen me naked, the same day we had intercourse we actually hit all the bases except anal which is still not an interest. But we pretty much covered them all in one night. A very long night! Lol.
02/26/2013
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Very dim, so it was half and half - general idea about an hour before, but several more weeks until details were clearer (I believe it was when we shared a bath). Although I'm pale enough in which I can be found in the dark, so maybe he saw me better than I thought ...
02/26/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
We're you seen nude way before intercourse, the same day/time as having sex for the first time or maybe you had sex for the first time in the dark and you weren't seen naked until after having sex? Maybe you weren't seen naked at all the ... more
Both at the same time
02/26/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
same time
02/26/2013
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Honestly. It was so long ago, I don't remember.
02/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
It's kind of a weird story, but there was a lot of titty-flashing and teeny bikinis and strip-whatever drinking games before we actually had sex. We met nine months to the day before we did the deed for the first time but we were partying pretty hardcore in the months leading up to it.
02/26/2013
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
We were together six months before we had sex, but we did a lot of naked stuff in those six months lol.
02/26/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
The day we met, we seen each other naked, and had sex, were all the same day...with in hours... It all worked out, we been together for over 2-1/2 years now.
02/26/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
The very first time?
With my very first girlfriend we were still in high school, we did the deed in the back seat of my car, and neither of us were completely naked. Now that I think about it, I don't think either of us were ever actually completely naked with each other ever. There was always the potential of getting caught by family at her folks house or by the cops in my car.

Now my next GF, she was six years older than me and had a place of her own, so when I was at her place we were completely naked as often as possible.
02/26/2013
Contributor: EmuLove EmuLove
I answered for how it was for my husband and I but if I was talking my very first time... well he never saw me fully naked.. lol
02/26/2013
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I voted other because the first time my partner and I tried to have sex he saw me naked. We weren't successful until weeks later though. That first time it was because I was extremely tight, and it just wasn't working.
02/26/2013
Contributor: vulvalicious vulvalicious
I voted based on what happened my first time. What a disappointment that was.
02/26/2013
Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
Interesting poll. I'm kind of a virgin, so I can't comment, but I had pretty much figured nudity and intercourse go hand in hand. People have such varied experiences. Neat! :B
02/26/2013
Contributor: JoshJosh123 JoshJosh123
The day we first had sex
02/26/2013
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Never had a relationship
02/26/2013
Contributor: ImmaFreak ImmaFreak
The day of intercourse.
02/26/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
It all happened kind of fast...we were talking, just about to call it a night...and then, suddenly, we kissed...I thought it would end there but it went farther, faster than I would have thought possible...then we turned off the light, got naked and.... I have to leave the rest to your imagination.

I think we actually saw each other naked for the first time the next morning. I was actually shocked how good she looked, because at the time, all her clothes were loose-fitting and unflattering. I felt like I'd won the lottery or something. I still do.
02/26/2013
Contributor: SP SP
She saw me naked for the first time years before we actually got together. The lovely part of an LDR is that you get to see each other before anything more really happens.
02/26/2013
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
She saw me naked months before we had sex.
02/26/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
She saw me days before when she slept over the first night
02/26/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
We're you seen nude way before intercourse, the same day/time as having sex for the first time or maybe you had sex for the first time in the dark and you weren't seen naked until after having sex? Maybe you weren't seen naked at all the ... more
It varied by partner...can't even recall with the last one.
02/26/2013
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
hm, with my S.O. I believe we had varying nudity until way after we had sex, we seemed to always keep our shirts (or my skirt) on! We were in college though, so getting walked in on by roomates was always a concern.

I can't remember the first time we got fully naked in front of eachother, but it was definitely after we'd been together for a while.
02/26/2013
Contributor: Painandpleasure0311 Painandpleasure0311
It was the day we had intercourse.
02/26/2013
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
A few months before intercourse.
02/26/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
It was dark but moonlight when we started, so we could see each other just not super well. However, eventually we actually moved rooms and had dim lamp lights on in the new room, so then we both saw each other totally naked. Before we had sex we weren't in a relationship or even dating.
02/26/2013
Contributor: CasLass CasLass
That same day.
02/26/2013
Contributor: Bleu Bleu
The same day creeps me out! Too many things to be nervous about in one day! My boyfriend and I did naughty things on Skype so he saw me naked/mostly naked MONTHS before we had sex (I think around a year). I chose "other" because I'm sure if we were closer, that wouldn't have been the case. Yet the first time he saw me naked in person was the same day we had sex...so I'm a complex case.
02/26/2013
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
It's complicated. We met online, so obviously we saw each other naked via Skype first. Six months after that we met in person, and saw each other naked after a week or so together, and made love at that time.
02/27/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Quote:
Originally posted by Raymaker
Interesting poll. I'm kind of a virgin, so I can't comment, but I had pretty much figured nudity and intercourse go hand in hand. People have such varied experiences. Neat! :B
Yes, there are lots of varying degrees and experiences people have. I'm glad you enjoyed my question, I appreciate the feedback and your opinion.

As for my wife and I, it was a gradual process over a few weeks. One date she was topless, the next her skirt was hiked up and so on until finally I had her completely naked after a date on her couch. Therefore, when we finally decided to have sexual intercourse I/we had already seen each other naked through foreplay, heavy petting and oral sex. We still laugh about it 20 years later that after we had sex she was shocked how comfortable I was just staying naked around her in non-sexual situations.

Back to your comment...you might think nudity and sex go hand in hand, but with all the ways there are to see a future sex partner nude before actually having sex, I'd be shocked if the number of same day nudity/intercourse occurrences weren't low.
02/27/2013