i love watching say yes to the dress & all those shows that deal w/ wedding dress & bridesmaids dress sales. whenever i watch a bridal party pick out bridesmaids dresses, though, it's the same every time. the bride wants a certain look for HER wedding, & the bridesmaids bitch b/c they don't like the dress's style or color or whatever. i can understand why they would if a bride is intentionally putting you in something that even she doesn't like or that you don't like just to piss you off, but most of the time, the bride wants a specific look & color to go with HER wedding. i feel that if you at least say something nicely ONCE or the bride ASKS for your opinion, then you should keep your mouth shut. on one of the shows the other day, the bride's colors for the wedding were black & red. she was nice enough to let her 2 bridesmaids pick out the dresses they wanted to wear, as long as it was flowy, knee length, & black or red. well, both the bridesmaids love the color pink & started bitching about how they wanted to wear pink & were trying on a bunch of pink dresses. they eventually ended up leaving w/out purchasing anything. IT'S NOT YOUR WEDDING!!! my sister & i have an agreement that when we get married, we'll wear whatever we tell each other to wear as long as we aren't purposely trying to make each other look like shit. i told her that if she makes me wear something ugly at her wedding, then i'll make her wear something ugly at mine. either way, we aren't going to argue & bitch & threaten to not be in the wedding if we don't get out way b/c IT'S NOT OUR FREAKING WEDDING! it's not all about you, it's all about the bride! & groom of course. how do you feel about this?